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  • Tell him (in a sensitive way) that you do kegels to make yourself tighter and if he would like he can do them to have more control over his orgasm. All he has to do is stop his urine mid-stream and hold it for thirty seconds every time he pees (when time permits of course). Also if you are aware of his cues and know when it is getting too intense for him you can slow down the action or change angles/positions. Final set up a word he can say if the cues aren't working light red light or just plain old stop. Then smile look into each others eyes and kiss. When he is ready to continue he will let you know.
  • spend more time in foreplay and take it slow. if he's getting ready have him slow down or stop and rest in you till he calms down. if he just jumps on and goes after it the you need to coach him. plus, he ought to get you off a couple of time before he goes in.
  • Have him see a doctor, there is a medication for this(ointment). Or you can try an old fashion remedy, that would be a rubber band.
  • Tell him you would like to get yours and if you do not get your the next time then get a new man. You could buy toys. Try the toys first and make him jack off before you do it.... It might help..
  • Try some benzocaine desensitizing cream. Usually sold as "Anal Lube" but also prolongs erection.
  • tell him to wear a condom - that usually makes me pretty numb and prolongs the fun. Edit: And that was my male alternate personality, called Commrad (aka my friend who forgot to log out of my name when I left his house). Uh, yes, good answer. Do that.
  • There are desensitizing condoms. Also, my boyfriend and i find that if we stop just as we're about to finish, slow down, and then build it up again, it ultimately increases the intensity of the orgasm. Even if he is selfish, he would have enough logic to at least try it. Also, next time he asks you to give him head, suggest a 69 position, he may find it more pleasurable when you are both doing this [I know my boyfriend does!]. Quest has a point, even in an intensely loving relationship, a lack of successful sex could put alot of strain on a relationship. I hope this helps!
  • Pressure points..the base of the penis..make him stop before he cums..then apply pressure at the very base of the penis..you take control..good luck
  • Do it again, and again, and again! If he is not willing tell him to see a Dr. 20 years ago there was no solution for this, today they have little pills that will solve it, so I am told. Just be sure to call a Dr. if he goes more than 4 hours!
  • Some guys have more control on their backs.
  • There are things like cock rings that go around the base of the penis that put pressure on the vein and keep him hard longer, there are creams that desensitize him, there are special condoms, or you can use more than one condom, If you are giving him head and he won't return the favor that's selfish on his part. You deserve to have the same pleasure as him, and you are young enough that if he won't some one else will be more than willing.
  • I wasn,t badly effected by this problem but try this because it's fun any way. Do oral or use your hand but do it slowly and delay making him cum. When he is about to cum. stop.let him calm down do it as many times as he can stand this will help him with control, You might have to squeeze the base of his cock to start with to stop the cum
  • I don't know what you can do. He has to do something. He's either very nervous and his blood pressure is too high, or, you are so hot to him that he can't hold back. Here are some ideas. For him: Viagra B12 vitamins Ginko Biloba Exercise Yohimbi (an herbal sedative) Anti-anxiety pills (The kind that doesn't have an adverse effect on the sex drive, of course). Niacin
  • you have to be able to read your body and he yours. A guy can cum in seconds or it can last for hours. It's all about having sex together and not just pounding away until someone blows. On your end, you have to see when he's getting close and slow down, maybe even stop for just a couple of seconds. He has to be able to control it as well in a similar fashion, if he feels like he's about to blow, he needs to slow down or stop and let the sensation pass. It's a learned behavior for men. Takes some time and practice. See physiologically and instinctively it's blow and leave.
  • You can tell him to jerk off a few hours before you're going to have sex. That should help.
  • get a cock ring
  • I had this same problem when I was late 15 and and a little into 16. I'm with the same girl iwas then so i know what your talking about. So heres what you need to do. Have sex as often as you can for about a week to a week and a half, then just stop for about a week and a half to two weeks. After that the first time you do it agian, initiate it (basically jump him when you have the chance) and let him do almost anything he wants that one time, except for the thing he wants to do most. Then after that do it at your normal rate but let him do a little more each time. So you've gone from sex all the time, to no sex, then nearly unrestricted sex, and and now regular sex with slight restrictions taken away ( like slapping your a$$ kinda things). So when you've gotten to sex with nearly no limits except for the one thing he wants to do most just make it clear that he can't do that one thing and he'll just have to make do with what he's getting now for some reason that you make up (like your not ready). And every now and then hint that you might be ready and when you go to do it tell him he can't. The reason this works is because of the way a mans brain works. You let him have all he wants and he thinks he's a stud and there's no need to do anything different. then he can't get any and he thinks that he messed up or that he never was a stud and your tired of bad sex. The reason that you have to wait for two weeks is so that thought of maybe i am bad and she is tired of it has time to come about. then he'll say to himself that the next time you have sex with him he's actually going to be a stud, and soon he will start to beleive it and it's that beleiveing that he will be that stud that you have to acheive. So when you let loose and do almost anything he's already in a frame of mind that he's going to give you the best sex you've ever had or die trying, it really will be for both of you. Then when you go back to normal sex he have a taste of that "forbidden" fruit, and keep on trying to get it agian. so when he gets a little closer each time he'll think that he has to make it better each time to finally get what he wants and to do that he has to keep it up, he won't dare let it get limp until he's made you happy. Finally when he's right there all he needs is that one little step to everything, one he's got the motivation because he knows what he wants and thats what will make it better, finally he'll have that drive because your saying that your almost ready, he might get it next time. and after a few weeks of i'm right there let him have it. he'll have every reason to keep doing what he's doing and knows if he fails he'll lose what he wants most. (On a side note you'll be able to get him to do whatever you want him to, because he'll know that if he doesn't he won't be able to get what he really really wants and thats not an option. in a way he'll be addicted to you. and under you controll which is what every woman wants right?) if none of that works go see a doctor.
  • Another thought, double sack it or even triple sack it (number of condoms).
  • Condoms, to lessen the sensation.
  • im thinking he is just being lazy or just got bored. dont take this the wrong way but i used to have this girl and the first few months sex was great then i just got tired of doing it with her so its like 3mins or less. if you really try to control it, you can! most of time my slong doesnt even have rest time, just hard all the way and i could cum 2-3 times without withdrawing. (just dont do it when your fertile) ^_^
  • I'd go with teasing ;) start then when he really gets going stop and tease him then continue. try different methods each time.
  • I didn't read all the comments but I think you all kind of miss it. Let him cum fast. The let him please you orally or with a vibrator, fingers, everything. When he is ready to go for it again he should be really turned on watching you have those wonderful orgasms and do it again. The second time he should be able to hold off for a while. Maybe by this time it won't matter for you. But it is part of training to control your body and not have your body control you. It has to start somewhere. Look at the masters of body control and the things they are able to do. Give him time and work with him.
  • trade him in! or buy a big vibrator to finish you off!
  • some times its just bcoz of sexual power loss so tell him avoid spicy food n oily food for couple of weeks . i tell him to do some relexation exercise like breat in n breath out regularly n them let me knw is it helpin ot not.. then i will tell you other things for it .
  • There seems to be alot of different kinds of guys (sorry, I really CAN only speak for myself). These things are a little funny for me... If determined I may get there quickly, but certainly not in two minutes - and the tree doesn't fall 'cause it got off either.... just keeps on going (Yep, multiple orgasms here). That said, it seems you definitely have to slow the young fella down. Give it to him for a minute (but, definitely not two), then do some kissin' and huggin' and maybe a little more kissin' and huggin' then let the lad in again - keeping in mind you can't let him go all out. Over time (but, NOT overnight), he'll probably get the hang of how this is working out. Good luck and have lots and lots of fun. I'm rooting for you!!!
  • Jelquing helps, and multiple orgasms help as well. He doesnt actually cum, but he gets the same feeling without the sticky mess, and desire to go to sleep...he just keeps going. http://www.sex-project.com/multiplemale.shtml Then of course there are certain moves: http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/218-on-the-minds-of-men/episodes/2822-how-last-longer-ian or http://entercourse.tv/category/content/sextips/
  • Well, try using oral to get him to climax the first time and then keep the oral going to get him excited again. Then start having regular sex. Second time for most guys takes longer :) Also make sure you get yourself started before he gets started so that you can match up better.
  • There are exercises your boyfriend can do like tensing and relaxing his groin muscles. If he does this a bit each day, it can strengthen them and let him last longer.
  • I would think either he doesn't get it often enough, or your are really good in the sack....or maybe he has a premature ejaculation problem.
  • Try giving him oral sex right from the start--let him shoot his load--asap, and give him 5 minutes to bounce back. Give a little more head if needed-but not to much, and he should now be able to last longer - keep in mind this will be a gradual improvement. You can also have him picture having sex with his grandmother- that should buy you a few extra minutes. hang in there
  • A cock ring prevents the blood from leaving, keeping him hard longer. You could have him rub one out before you have sex for added staying power.
  • Yes. Pinch his erection as far down as you can reach near his pelivc bone while you give him head. Over time it will take much more stimulation before he comes.
  • You can have him wear a condom (not the thin ones). Also, you can use something called "Stud 100". It's a desensitizing spray...sometimes it works too good! Make sure you don't get this stuff on you though. It will make you feel numb down there too
  • Try giving a BJ earlier, then may he wont be so anxious.
  • Just tell him to think about the worst thing that keeps him down everytime, and I guess that'll do, because this has to do with the mind!
  • That can be a characteristic of inexperience. How long have you been having sex with him? One thing that can help is to go ahead and have a quickie, and then if he can get erect again right away, he can probably last a lot longer on the second go-round.
  • there isn't anything wrong with you.. if he still masturbates frequently, he will last for ages when having sex.. you could maybe try different positions..
  • Well you could take it as a compliment (and it probably is)..but if your boyfriend suffers from pre ejaculation it is no laughing matter to him. I think he should see a doctor..there are ways of helping people with this problem...and it IS a common problem. good luckk.
  • it's quite normal for a guy to cum a bit quickly when you first start having sex. There are a few ways to get round this. One, get him to use extra thick condoms and use a lot of lube. The condoms will decrease the sensitivity and the lube will help to loosen you up . The friction is generally the key for young guys, if you can take that away he should be able to last longer. Alternatively as part of your foreplay you can bring him to orgasm early so when you are ready he should be able to get it back up and last longer. also trying to having him pull out eat you and than go back in you also tell him to slow down its not a race what happens the second time you have sex is it slower ?
  • I have the same problem with my husband so he makes me cum before we have sex, by licking all over and sucking m clit. Then we have sex and we both end up totally satisfied.
  • Instead of just starting with sex,let him do oral play on you until you cum if you all dont do oral play let him finger are what ever it takes so that you can cum first then let him get his off.
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  • give him some hand action first its garenteed to stop him coming so quick in the heat of the moment lol
  • This may work. Have him satisfy himself, or play together. When he is going to cum, let him. However, when he's physically spasming, and going to ejaculate, press hard on the taint region. This will compress the urethra, and not allow any fluids to pass. The closer you press to his anus, the better. It will satisfy him with orgasm, but not aleviate his need to cum. Let a little time pass (15 minutes to an hour). Then initiate sex. He'll be good to go, wanting to cum again, but his body will react as if it doesn't need to. It will most definately prolong the period before ejaculation. This is how I was able to masturbate, and keep enough fluids to impregnate my wife when we tried to get pregnant with our first child. It truly works, at least for me. The only catch is, he needs to want to try this. You can't get him off, then close off the ejaculation, and not have talked to him about it first. Give this a try. It may do the trick.
  • Your B/f, Like lots of men has taught himself to Come PDQ through his early childhood masturbation. So his penis is only followering orders,like any good penis should do. Yes, You can help him to change this ED,Erectile-Dysfunction of coming too soon. Here is what he must do,and you can help, to change this learned sexual pattern. He learned to have quick ejaculations through self-stimulation,and he can also unlearn this quick ejaculation by Masturbation, and here is what he/you must do. He needs to masturbate quite often,and when he does he needs to bring himself as close to an ejaculation as possible,but then stop the stroking just short of his ejaculation. He or you then will need to bring him close to another ejaculation once again.And then you or he will then see if you can bring his penis as close to an ejaculation six times in each new Ejaculation-Traing-Sesson. Don't worry if he cannot do all of the six sexual-peaks at first. that will come latter on as he/you get more control over his penis. But do remember that us men like to have a more vigorous penile stroking as most women think that they'll break a man's penis if they are too rough with it. We do need a more firm, hand stimulation to keep our erections. So a helping hand is always helpful to a limp,soft penis.Do hope this has been helpful. Love from the Philippines.
  • There could be a number of reasons why he has that so-called problem if it is a problem. In other words it could be good or bad. Good meaning you turn him on so much he just can't hold it. Bad meaning he has no self control. The more you have intercourse, the longer he will last. After the 2 minute ordeal, wait another 20 minutes or so and do it again, but don't clock him. just enjoy the time you have together if he means that much to you.
  • take it real slow use lots of foreplay and pull him out right when you feel he is about to cum. mostly he has to want not to cum and make it last. I have controlled my ejaculation at time so well, that even hours later I can no longer cum without hitting it extremely hard. The best thing to do is turn up the heat slowly so it don't boil over, hehe
  • You can show him my answer: You never make love TO that person. You make love WITH that person. For the sake of the younger folks who read these answers, I won't get very graphic. I'm sure you can use your imagination. I AM A VERY fortunate man. I had the wonderful experience of seeing my parents, both sets of grandparents and all my aunts and uncles behave as though they were constantly on their honeymoons with their spouses. They would hold hands, hug, kiss, whisper things to each other, say, "I love you, _____!" and carry-on like many young people, who are in love, do in public. They would smile at each other and tell each other how beautiful, wonderful and thoughtful she was and how thoughtful, wonderful and handsome he was! WOW! What a great set of romance role models! No, I never watched as they were making love in the most intimate way, but I DID see and learn from their examples and inter-actions with their spouses! As far as I know, no one ever cheated on the other. That being said, one day my mother's father got in the car with me. I was driving him to the track. He "LOVED those ponies"! He was well-aware of the relationship I had with the lady I was dating and who would one day be my bride. He said words similar to these: I know your father told you what to do, but did he ever tell you how to do it? I answered, "No". He went on to say, "I'm going to tell you some things I don't think you'll learn from any one else. When you have sex, make love or whatever you want to call it, you don't behave like most other men. Most men are just interested in one thing and one thing only - satisfying their own selfish selves. That's NOT the way to do it. You have to make absolutely certain she is satisfied. No matter how long it takes or what you have to do, you have to do whatever it takes to make sure she does what she likes to do best. You HAVE TO satisfy her first. Your brain is the most important sex organ. Your brain controls what happens downstairs. When you aren't sure about what to do or how to do it, ask her what she wants you to do. She'll tell you or she'll show you. When you're making love, you think of other things - not what's going on at that particular moment with that particular lady. When you think about what you're actually doing, I guarantee you'll never satisfy the lady in your life. He went on to explain about holding hands, hugging, kissing, caressing and taking things one step at a time. He described a lot of things I heard of but wasn't sure about. During that ride, one of the last things he said was: When you are absolutely sure she is satisfied, then you can do what you know is best for you - but not one minute before. That's what I was told. Thank you, Gran'pop. I love you. I miss you! Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it! VTY, Ron Berue Yes, that is my real last name! Sources: My wonderful family! "THE University of Hard Knocks" also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons"
  • It is probably a result to premature ejaculation or he's just really excited. Try to kiss or forplay longer before you have sex. Also a condom might work to hold his blood flow in. Sex shops also have products to help, creams, pills, lube, pumpers, ect. Or just tell him how you feel, he might not know your not being satisfied.
  • Take control. Be on top. When you sense he is about to orgasm, slow it down, or stop for a second.
  • Get the man a blunt And A 3 shots of 151 rum. Put yourself in a I want take no for an answer mood, some good fuck music and let the good times roll.
  • do you like him..if you do try some forplay first,,,have him perform oral on you ..jusy up until your ready to orgasm...they tell him when you ready and let himpuitinside you for as long as he canllllsex if for both parties,,,and if he cn t learn ...time is wasten honey....you nedd to have so sex with a real man...once that happen you never want him again...but if you care you should at least try to stick it out...but dont wait to long life is short...and we all desereve great sex....i betwhen 1t take him 2 second he still fells goood i just hope he stays to satisfy you in some way,,,i9f not there are plenty of other me out there...id hate for you to get stuck with minute man...ready in a minute done in a minute....good like or call me ill show you what your missing
  • There isn't really anything yo need to do but dude needs to take to heart these steps. Do as much research on the PC muscle and get into a routine of strengthening his ability to control his ejaculations. Link below: http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html There are other ways to stop it but it will take time and conditioning on his part. He will have to stop masterbating so much unless he follows one simple technique. Do not allow himself to cum for 20 minutes but even better don't cum at all. Build up stamina by not allowing it to happen and in turn he will be a better lover. If he is not doing Rosie then maybe it would be a way for him to practice going as long as he can before cumming. As with anything that we are lacking in knowledge.....research! It is a sad thing to spurt without giving you your cookie! So, maybe he should turn his focus entirely on satisfying you prior to entering you. You loose the intimacy of the so called connection but happiness on both parts is key to a healthy relationship!
  • Let him do his usual 2 pump chump routine. But let him know, your not done, make him get it hard again, and go round 2, should last longer the second time. Or tell him to jack off 20 minutes before you guys do it, he should last longer that way too.
  • I personally practice my breathing control and can go from 30 min to an hour. That said about 15 minutes is what we avarage and that is after I have nibbled on her a bit. I am a giver.
  • Me and my Boyfriend had the same problem for a while. When I asked him why he said he was so turned on that he couldnt hold it any longer...lol The way we overcame this was during sex when we were both close to climax we held off and just kissed really gently so we were close to each other but not with him penetrating me! Its great now and we do this most the time and it works.. Maybe your just to hot± lol K
  • give him some brown sugar with milk 1/2 hour before sex it help him but overdose is bad.
  • I'm months late getting on this site for some reason. I'm a whole lot older. I'll bet this couple are quite young. There's nothing wrong with letting him shoot his wad. Just keep the action going during and after, don't let him go soft and you can prolong it all night. If you're young and fertile, and don't want to get PG. Protect yourselve's. You should be anyway. With age and practice you'll discover most guys that get laid often won't shoot right away. After many yrs of being married to a controlling woman it's nearly impossible for me to cum now even with a hottie. But, I can still stay hard for hours naturally with an interested woman. I wish you well.
  • when he's getting heavy in the jigga jig department, frighten the living piss out of him by a blood curdling scream - Guaranteed to stop him coming, and the next time your going on the horizontal mambo, his brain will be ready to be shocked again, slows him down a treat. I lost my cherry at 10, and the 18 yo who had me did it to me, and I never suffered preEjac ever - mind you it does take longer to get stiff but it works and lasts a long time. by the way she also taught me that ladies ALWAYS come first!
  • Have sex more often, he'll get used to the feeling and he won't cum as quickly. Just go fuck...do it...do it NOW...and then do it again after :) round 2 should last longer
  • Let him control the pace. That way if he is getting too excited and your not ready, he can slow down or control the motion. I do it all the time, with my wife of thirty years. I can keep her going by going deep inside and pushing but not actually moving inside her. Pressure on her clitorus but no presure on me. Works - Just try it. PeeNut
  • I used to be the same way, it took us about a week of about sex four or five times a day, each time getting to last a tad longer. Then we didn't have sex for like three weeks, the first time we had sex i didn't last long, but every time after that one, i last a good couple of hours. It is all of a matter of sensitivity, if you get him to have a very powerful orgasm, the rest of his penis kind of goes numb for a while. It is all really of a matter of trial and error, and even then, some guys just don't have the endurance.
  • stop and start...try it
  • 1) Quit being so good in bed! 2) Get him some lotion that numbs his penis. 3) Get him a cock ring. They work very well for orgasm control.
  • I have used the following technique to very good effect for many years. Firstly , if he has a wank the day before this may help. Then he needs to become aware of when he is starting to approach the point of no return. He needs to begin by stopping for a couple of seconds before he reaches that point , and a slow deep breath or two will help. Then he can start again and be ready to repeat the process. A condom can help but the same rule applies. As he gets more used to doing this he will be able to get closer and closer to the point of no return before he needs to stop. This can reach the stage where he is basically at the orgasm point for ages. Trust me that feels good. Also deep breathing alone may work after a while.He needs to keep his mind aaware of what he is doing and not really let go until you cum. Practice makes perfect. He needs to realise that it is possible to not come until he wants to - which I believe should always be after you do.Good Luck.
  • Have him wear cock rings around the head and base of his penis. If that doesn't work, grab his balls with your forefinger and thumb and yank down before he blows...or apply pressure to the spot between his testes and anus (the 'tiant'). Other than that let him cum and let him reload, the second time should last longer.
  • You will feel him getting really hard and into it before he comes when you feel that pull out and switch position it will give him a break and not hurt his feelings. Besides he will most likley feel like the "man" for lasting so long and not know why!
  • tell him to jackoff befor u do it that porabely make it last a bit longer. sould wait 5 min. then f**k so it can get hard. lol
  • suck him to completion first then work him hard again always take the easy one in the mouth makes the 2nd one take forever
  • He's just selfish. It takes will power and concentration to get the job done. He may never make the decision to be as good as he can be. A possible band-aid: get a 'pocket pussy' and insist that he uses it. It will help him build up a tolerance to the amazing sensation of intercourse. Physically, most of those things are better than some women. Not all, but some. Sorry if this answer grossed anybody out.
  • just clean the nut up and keep goin at it u dont need to stop just cause he busts one
  • If he's young enough to cum 2 or 3 times in a row, just blow him or give him a handjob once or twice, and keep the 2nd or 3rd shot for love making.
  • Make him cum before sex. And then have sex. It usually makes it longer If that doesn't work. Try durex condoms that have a certain jell in it that controls cumming in guys. Magical
  • If he wants to improve his stamina he can masturbate until he's close to orgasm, then wait a bit, then go again until he's close...then stop again, do this for as long as he can and it will help him control his orgasm more and will make them WAY better. You could also do this conditioning together :)
  • you're going to have to explore. people have different orgasmic trajectories. spend some time with one of you trying to make the other climax as many times as possible in the course of an evening. take your time and really conern yourself with pleasuring the other person. he may be capable of recovering rapidly and lasting longer on the second or third or fourth cycle. likewise, he may not realize what your potential is. if he actually sees what is in store for him he may be very eager to make that happen. your exploration should be unhurried and without expectation of a particular result. once you understand each other a little better he might be able to develop a little more control. i used to count things, like the flowers on the wall paper or shirts in the closet. reciting the lyrics to a song (silently) and thrusting in time with the music in your head works also. above all do not shame or manipulate him, he wants you to enjoy being with him, he wants to please you. find a way to show him what the payoff is. every man likes to leave a woman exhausted and satisfied.
  • Lets see if you can get a better grasp of what is going on with your Guy. First off you need to know that all of us men have ED, "Erection-Dysfunction" at any age. It's my opinion that the early onset of erection failure is induced by us men at an early age, when we discover our Joy-Toy, penises,and then began our early on masturbation. Now that masturbation was,and still is, normal and healthy for either gender. However a woman doesn't need to have a male's erection to have her orgasms, But if a man is set upon giving a woman an orgasm by way of Penile-Vaginal-Stimulation,he needs to maintain his erection. There are lots of reasons why a man has temporary or permanent erection failure. His early on,quick masturbation can, and often is the main reason why he cannot maintain his erection during coupling. He has now carried that PDQ, Masturbation-Habit over into his new found relationship. And of course his genitals are just going to continue doing what they have been taught to do. He masturbated his way into his ongoing erection problem. And he can,and you can help him also, masturbate his way also out of this erection failure. Here is what he,or you too,can do to help solve his ED,Problem. Okay,The how to: He will now need to engage in Masturbation quite often. You too can also assist him in breaking his Erection Dysfunction. Lots of women love to play with their man's Joy-Toy, And they find it quite enjoyable to share body parts together. However his goal,as is yours,will be to Bring him 3 to 5 or even 6 times in a row as close to his orgasm, But then stopping the penile stroking just short of his spilling over into his orgasm. when he has once again regained control of of his urge to come, then he or you will then bring his penis once again to the point of an orgasm,and then stop. This is called the "Stop A Start Method" to help control early ejaculation,And you must repeat this Penile-Retraining Method over and over again,never mind if he can only do it once or twice,and in time he'll be able to control his penis,not his penis cotrolng him. Have a wonderful togetherness and a Happy New Year
  • find a new boyfriend hahah :]
  • u might just have that good shit
  • if you cant prolong him cummin make or let him cum then start to pleasure him again till he is erect the second time should take a lot longer
  • Don't ride him so hard girl lol maybe you work it to well for him to handel
  • If you want to make him "cum" sooner, then talk dirty to him. It always works - believe me.
  • Well I feel for you. I am kind of having the same problem. Don't take it personaly it means he is really into you and turned on. Let him do his thing and then try agian after twenty minutes or so. That should work, if not have lots of foreplay for you and then when your almost there have him go for it!
  • Yes, lots of foreplay for you, when your almost there let him go for it. It just means he is so turned on by you that he can't hold out any longer. I am going through the same thing. Or you could always let him drink a couple of beers, that always prolongs it. Let me know how it goes.
  • Yes you can. He needs to grow up and learn about pleasing you first. As it is now he's focused on his pleasure. A real man would want you to be totally satisfied. His brief stamina is probably due to patterns he's learned from masturbating where the quicker he cums the better. That's fine for a single guy I suppose but is a problem when there's you involved in the mix that is left unsatisfied. Some suggestions. As other have pointed out he needs to learn how to control and pace himself. When he feels close to cumming he can slow down, think about taxes, or you can grab the base of his cock and squeeze it. Then start again. A work around would be for you two to be involved in some serious foreplay to get you very aroused. Direct him about how you like to be touched when you masturbate. Make him wait while you get aroused. He also should learn how to please you orally and realize that it may take you 10 - 20 minutes to get there. Turn the tables. Make him make you cum first. If you don't then sorry It's not working - hold that out and he'll want to learn how to make you cum first if you hold out on letting him cum. Fair is fair. Btw, I was with 2 quasie escorts once. No sex, just dancing and teasing - they were doing some touchy feely things with each other which totally aroused me. I wanted it to last as long as it could. They pored some lube on me as I stroked watching their show. They saw that after awhile I slowed down and had a small orgasm without ejaculating or getting soft. I waited a bit then started up again and finally came. Afterwards these 2 girls said that they had NEVER saw anything like that. It's all about control and learning.
  • had same prob. fix it by stoping just after felling like your going to come wait a min. then do it again as many times as you can after 2-5 times of having sex this way it will get all good
  • cum in 1.5 minutes. Seriously though, tell him to stop being so damn selfish. Some foreplay might help. I got my wife so hot that she came AS I was putting it in.
  • This happens extremely often to most men. If you can not deal with it just use him for yourv oral pleasure and when you have finished then you can allow him to come. This seems to be also the reason why so many women prefer oral sex.
  • Hi, I have tried some techniques and some steps Its great for everyone, just try to search on Google about book called "How to Make Love All Night" and I'm sure he will do great and soon he can do multi orgasim :)
  • have him jack off before you have sex with him.
  • talk to him. a lot of it is psycological. if he tried he could make himself last longer. but tell him so it doesnt hurt his feelings. like "u know, i'd love it if i could have sex w/u longer cuz it feels so great."
  • dump him
  • As a radical way, circumcise him in the dark.
  • Also the more often you change positions, the longer he will last.
  • Well what works for me, different problem but same fix, is to milk him all day before you want good long sex! See fast orgasms don't feel as good and don't satisfy, jack him off in the morning, have him jack off for you, than have him watch something sexy with you and see how fast he can cum, then at night you can arouse him and he will last a long time for you!
  • i am married and tend to come too fast sometimes. if my wife hasn't orgasmed yet i just ease my way down and bring her off orally with my tongue. its good for her and good for me.
  • Just jerk him off first and then have him spend some time pleasing YOU and then after that, he'll be able to last a lot longer to actually have sex after you've both orgasmed.
  • The boy needs to learn to jump in for a second helping.
  • You could make him do kegels it prolongs ejaculation and he wont cum so fast
  • fact is he probly is too turned on to do anything but. also if he is younger or hasnt had sex long give him time to learn how to control it lol my first time only lasted 5 min but now the shortest time when trying to make myself cum is 20-25 min also could be his brain goes into overdrive he is so worried he wont be good enough he isnt paying much attention to himself and cums and speaking as a guy it may suck for yall but to a guy its hell no exageration he will and does worry if he cares at all about you. and also the adverage time for sex in america is only 15 min so... lol anyway give him time if it still happens try durex condoms if its real bad he wont feel nothing and thus prolonging sex i used them my first year untill i was use to the feeling then used thick condoms then normal then finally none. (word of wisdom tho if u use the durex condom make sure the condom is still on cause after 2 min of it on he wont be able to feel if it comes off) anyway good luck! hope i helped
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