ANSWERS: 7
  • Maybe she's waiting for you to come home to give it to you?
  • I'd be very upset. That's not an unreasonable expectation that you would receive a gift and a card/email from her. I think you need to have a talk with her as soon as possible.
  • I am so sorry this has happened to you! You seem to be supporting her and her family and she is ignoring you. I think when you get back you two had better have a big time sit down discussion. She does not sound like a gal that is head over heels in love and may be seeing someone else. Good luck to you. Don't let her take advantage of you like that. There is a gal out there that would love and appreciate your kindness.
  • Another 'Should I be mad' question - I hate these. Don't ask others how you should feel. Either you're mad or you're not. Either way, you have a right to feel that way and you should be communicating with your girlfriend about it. It doesn't really matter that you got gifts for her children etc, just that you didn't receive anything from her.
  • No. That would solve nothing---dont jump to conclusions until you speak w/ her. She may have something to surprise you.
  • She was too busy bangin' the UPS guy that delivered all those gifts you sent the kids to email you bro...sorry...couldn't resist. Why are you here asking this question? Take it up with her and tell her you are very upset that she didn't bother to wish you a merry christmas. I mean, it's not an unreasonable expectation if you both celebrate the holiday. Now if she's jewish or another denomination that doesn't celebrate the holiday, I wouldn't think twice about it because it's not something she used to doing. The gifts you got the kids shouldn't have anything to do with it, I mean did you get the gifts because you care about them or to get a reaction out of her or to make her love you more? Bad idea to even bring this up, avoid it at all costs. I'd quit sending money though, I really get the sense that she's just using you.
  • Well I would like to thank you all for your helpful answers. It's not about the gifts. It's about helping her in hard times. I am out to sea for christmas now and wont be back till June. I talked to her and she gave some lame azz excuse that her computer at home did not work (the one at her job did work). Then she had the nerve to say that she sent me a text to my phone. Im dam near the south pole. As far as i am concerned it's over. Thank you all

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