This simply isn't true. If this is what you are believing then you need to work very hard on the 'who' you are to make that 'who' more positive, more appealing, more delightful to be around.... Ask some very close friends...or poll people anonymously (set up some friends to do this) to find out what they think of you (also anonymously) as a person...This is a bit extreme, but you may find out some very useful stuff. Things they like about you (do more of that) and things not so attractive (strengthen or change that). Even beautiful and famous people are let down lots by others....careful not to read too much into it. That's about them, not you! Good luck!

Then you are looking for Jackson Browne and his song "Rosie" here it is: ROSIE (by Jackson Browne & Donald Miller) She was standing at the load-in When the trucks rolled up She was sniffing all around Like a half grown female pup She wasn't hard to talk to Looked like she had nowhere to go So I gave her my pass So she could get in and see the show Well I sat her down right next to me And I got her a beer While I mixed that sound on stage So the band could hear The more I watched her watch them play The less I could think of to say And when they walked off stage The drummer swept that girl away But Rosie you're all right -- you wear my ring When you hold me tight -- Rosie that's my thing When you turn out the light -- I've got to hand it to me Looks like it's me and you again tonight Rosie Well I guess I might have known from the start She'd come for a star Might have told my imagination not to run too far Of all the times that I've been burned By now you'd think I'd have learned That it's who you look like Not who you are But Rosie you're all right -- you wear my ring When you hold me tight -- Rosie that's my thing When you turn out the light -- I've got to hand it to me Looks like it's me and you again tonight Rosie (c) 1977 SWALLOW TURN MUSIC

1) "Well I guess I might have known from the start She'd come for a star Might have told my imagination not to run too far Of all the times that I've been burned By now you'd think I'd have learned That it's who you look like Not who you are But Rosie you're all right -- you wear my ring When you hold me tight -- Rosie that's my thing When you turn out the light -- I've got to hand it to me Looks like it's me and you again tonight Rosie" Source and complete text: Rosie (by Jackson Browne & Donald Miller) http://www.univie.ac.at/Anglistik/easyrider/data/running.html http://www.stlyrics.com/songs/b/brownejackson16327/rosie445502.html 2) "Running on Empty is the fifth album by American singer-songwriter Jackson Browne, released in 1977 (see 1977 in music). In addition to tracks recorded on-stage during concerts, it also contains songs recorded in hotel rooms, on the tour bus, and backstage. It is unusual among live albums, in that none of the tracks had ever appeared on a previous studio album." ""Rosie" (Browne, Donald Miller) — Recorded backstage "in the big rehearsal room," Saratoga PAC, Saratoga, NY " Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Running_on_Empty_%28album%29 Further information: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jackson_Browne http://www.jacksonbrowne.com/

i think who you are is more important than what you look like

So -- is there a question here? Reads like a statement. Truth is often what one believes it to be. If you don't like where you are -- you need to work at being elsewhere. Surround yourself with those that offer support, that are who you who would like to emulate. Avoid toxic people -- they will infect. .