ANSWERS: 36
  • No. Sometimes it happens, and sometimes just general conversation can unintentionally turn into a bit of flirting. But you're playing with fire, and that's a risky thing to do. I think it's rude, going beyond "having a bit of fun."
  • No, I am not the flirty type.
  • My wife and I were talking about this recently. It depends on the intent and how it's perceived. I've had "work wives" and she's had "work husbands" where everyone knows that nothing will happen, you just get along really well and there is a bit of meaningless flirtation. Then there is flirting to get something from someone which is manipulation and that is just wrong and mean. Then there is flirting sexually, and if you are dedicated to someone, that is wrong.
  • It depends, Im taken and I am completly in love with my boyfriend of three and a half years. I sometimes still flirt however, it's a joking sort of flirting and i make sure they know its nothing more then that.
  • well, i personally flirt all the time.. i dont know when i'm it to tell you the truth. if it is a totally new random person, then that is wrong. but if it is a friend i think it is ok. flirting with a brand new person is on the wronger side. just my thought.
  • I think basic chatty online flirting is harmless enough.
  • I love to flirt, to a point. I would never show such disrespect to my boyfriend/husband. I love to flirt with my date!!!!!!!, boyfriend/husband. hahaha
  • It is risky. It may reflect a lack of commitment, and it certainly is unkind to flirt if it misleads someone into thinking you are interested.
  • I know this is old fashioned but No. Ithink it's disrespect for the person you're with
  • I think it's okay as long as it remains flirting and nothing more. :-)
  • It depends on the standards and boundaries in your relationship. Some couples feel comfortable with each other flirting with other people, some don't.
  • maybe if you flirt with your bf and suggest maybe an orgy or something
  • If your in deep relationship with plans for the future like marriage then I think its wrong, but if your just in a relationship just to have someone and you both know it's not going anywhere then I don't see anything wrong with flirting...you might find the person you want to be with for the rest of your life.
  • Sure..as long as you don't follow through on it.
  • As long as it's innocent flirting. Sometimes I think flirting (with someone other than your partner) can actually have a positive effect on a relathionship.
  • Yep, its a natural thing, it doesn't lead anywhere if we know the boundaries :)
  • sure if you are comfortable with your spouse doing the same.
  • I have always been a flirt but I don't go past that point. I even flirt with the old grey haired ladies who work at the bank and grocery store. I have a girlfriend and she thinks it's a bit humorous to see the little old ladies flirt back. The only thing that seems to bother her is when I sing love songs to my cat. She has commented on that several times.
  • Sure, as long as it's harmless.
  • I think so, as long as you don't go overboard - and the person you're flirting with knows it's all in good fun.
  • what some call flirting, others call being friendly. Your security level can influence what you see in the interaction.
  • of course it is ok to flirt! how do you keep the fire in your life if you don't?
  • the bottom line: it depends on the intent. a little innocent flirting is fine, in my opinion. i think a good question to ask yourself is how would you feel if your partner walked up on you flirting? i'm not scandalous, but i am naturally a flirtatious person at times... plus, some people have very different opinions of what constitutes "flirting".
  • I think it is ok, as long as you draw a line somewhere. I flirt with many people, and have a gf who i love to pieces, and thankfully she accepts its the way i am. Whenever i flirt, i can always insinuate things, but i will never let these things happen. Flirting is harmless as long as nothing more happens. So yes, i think it is ok, as long as the flirter has clear cut lines, and does not cross them.
  • Ya duhhhh They can't help but feel they have a chance
  • Ya I think so let those suckers feel like they have a chance!!!!!!!!!
  • Definetly not... being in any relationship shows that you are committed to that person./..
  • only if it helps you in bed with your partner/ spouse.
  • If your personality is naturally flirty you should not change because you are with someone.
  • No, not okay at all, just flirt with the person your with.
  • I think it's fine, but I understand when someone wants me to stop flirting with their s/o.
  • yea i thinks its cool, but i guess im biased because i was voted biggest flirt 3 years in a row in highschool, but i dont think there anything wrong with a bit of flirting as long as you dont lead anybody on to far
  • I think so, though it must be a certain kind of flirting. Joke flirting is different than serious flirting. Some guys tend to default to flirting when situations get awkward.
  • Only if you would flirt if your s/o were also there. Anything that you do that you wouldn't do if your s/o were watching is cheating.
  • If it's with strangers, then I'd say to a certain extent it's okay. You will probably never see that person again anyway. However, if it's with an old flame, then I'd say it's a slippery slope. The ex may think you want to start things up again...so it wouldn't be prudent.

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