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  • I miss my great grandad lots. suppose you could relate it to a physical pain :(
  • yes extreme. to the point where my heart actaully feels like its getting ripped in two.
  • My daughter lives 800 miles away and I have to drive to see her every 3 months or so or the pain won't let me keep going until I do.
  • Yes i do.
  • I sure do.
  • yes i ever missed a girl who used to be girlfriend to the extent that when she calls me or i call her,i feel like my heart pumping faster and tears in my eyes.
  • Yes... I have.
  • Yeah, my stomach hurts physically, and I feel like I'll go insane without her. Even for one weekend. Ha. -Keido
  • Yes. It still hurts. I miss my parents sooo much.
  • yeah... it sucks...:(
  • Yes. It's in your guts. Your dreams. Your pattern of breathing. It takes time, but yeah, it is one of the worst feelings in the world. Without it, we wouldn't have art of poetry.
  • yes and honestly I am still in pain :(
  • Yes, I have been there. Try to find an outlet for your pain (exercise works wonders). Keeping busy in any way helps a lot.
  • Yes, and it is possible to die from a broken heart. Like anythng else it all depends on a persons survival mode.
  • Yep..when my dad died. I'd cry at the drop of a hat for months. The odd thing is I was so angry..mostly when I saw families with dads..how selfish of me..it was totally irrational..but I begrudged those who had their dads. Then, when my son left for college..he was 17 and drove off all by himself, his car loaded to the gills with everything he needed..he went to Cal Berkeley, a distance of about 400 miles away. That was hard. Actually, I still miss my dad and he died in 1960. My son lives in Honolulu so I miss him too. I guess you never stop missing loved ones! Happy Tuesday! :) ((hugs))
  • yes and it hurts like crazy. I still get little pains from time to time when I think back to when it happened and it was a good many years ago now.
  • Of course.
  • I definitely have
  • Yes, very much so
  • Yes, unfortunately yes
  • Yes. I miss her so much, that i rather die..
  • Yes, and it is horrible.
  • oh definitely. It's interesting to me how emotions can actually hurt physically. There have been many times where I've missed someone so much it hurt, usually the same someone lol. It's definitely not a nice feeling
  • yes....it hurts right now I feel like I am a walking commercial for cymbalta commercial
  • oh yea its the worst feeling ever u miss them so much that you cant really do anything you feel trapped and useless it really sucks
  • Yes I do miss someone so much that it IS a physical pain. My two sons, five weeks apart. It is far too much for a mother to bear, and sometimes the pain in my soul is so intense that I can't even catch a breath. Their deaths were surely the birth of my own death. If that makes any sense...
  • It is physical pain, my diaphragm is tight, and my whole body is exhausted from missing my husband (he died recently). Good question.
  • YES,,but more emotional pain
  • Been there. Don't like to think about it, cuz it feels so fresh. We have a way of moving forward, us humans are pretty incredible that way. But it still feels so fresh.
  • not to that extreme..
  • Yes, Its a new feeling that I'm not sure what to do with.
  • yup. it's happened to me a few times.
  • Yes. Everyday.
  • yes, i scream and i scream, and i cry so much my eyes are swollen, but the pain never goes away. I don't get sad when there is a holiday like valentine's day, but i start crying when i see small things that she would have liked, or small moments where we ate together. I can't seem to take the pain away. For a unexplainable reason, i can't ever see her again, i can talk to her online, but not on the phone as often. I pity her because she tries to do everything good for everybody, but in the end, she gets the opposite result. She is heart broken and lost, and it pains me as well. I love her so much, does anyone have any suggestions on what i should do?
  • Yes i do. Having met a wonderful person when i was so very down and depressed, that person put the smile back on my face and made me, me again. We were very close as friends and also sexually. However for some unknown reason we never officially got together??? Maybe not quite the right time for either of us to fully commit. Time went on, i met someone else, the other person moved away (when i heard my world almost collapsed, when will we speak or see each other again). That person then returned, the spark never went. However i was still with this other person who i also had feelings for and was very good to me. Maybe i was scared to let this person go for my friend? Even though we did not speak of a relationship, but something was there. This person then got together with someone else, which made me feel so sick,as i thought this isn't right we should have made a go of it! Anyway i have not seen this person for nearly a year. We speak online and sometimes on the phone. I remember the happiest times we had, the laughs we shared, the intimate moments, lunches and dinners. When i fight with my current parnter i long to be back in one of those memories. I have no idea how i will forget this person. I do not know if i want to. I try i really do, but the person is always there, in dreams in music and tv and so on. It is so hard. There is a saying that says "never give up on the one you think about every day". We spoke online the other day i thanked them for what they have done and how they made me feel again. And said why did we not make a go of it? The answer, it was never the right time for either of us (true i had come out of a longterm relationship with alot of issues, the other person also had some problems). I feel we both know if we had waited for a few more months, we would have made a go of it. I guess we met other people who we just cant hurt. Although i know i hurt every day! My body aches, i feel sick, no confidence, lost and incomplete.
  • Been divorced almost two years and still cannot get her out of my mind. Presently dating a very good person and it is not fair to her. Must make a decision on this relatioship soon. My heart aches for her everyday. Certainly understand your statement. It is not only emotional pain, but physical as well.
  • Yes And I am in that state as I'm writing this. Have been for a long time. Gets to that stage where you get depressed!

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