ANSWERS: 38
  • He isn't interested anymore but is trying to soften the blow buy saying it's him not you.
  • It means there is a reason that he believes he is not right for you. That reason could be many different things, and he would probably like to tell you what it is. But the reason may be something humiliating to him, or something which he thinks would hurt your feelings if he were to tell you. Bottom line is this, when he tells you that you deserve someone better, you should listen to him.
  • He's telling you that you need to move on and find someone else.
  • He knows that he is not as good as you are. He might love you; but he knows his failings and thinks that they overcome his love for you.
  • he's fishing for a compliment. You should give him one.
  • He's seeing no future with you two, and is trying to keep from hurting you by putting it nicely instead of bluntly. I still think though it is harsh, the best way to say goodbye is to be blunt...because then the other person just starts to feel bad about themselves or anaylze everything. So the only thing you can really do is accept it, and move on as strong as you can! Good luck:)
  • He may feel guilty about something, which would be a reason he says you deserve better. Otherwise he might just have low self-esteem. It depends on the context, really.
  • That's usally a exit sign - for them -- Or they need you to tell them over and over again that "they are good enough"
  • That the end of the relationship is nigh. He is thinking of moving on and is trying to convince you that it is the right thing to do, for YOUR sake
  • When a man says that, it means he is correct. If he feels he is not good enough for you, chances are, he isnt.
  • He know he can never give you the devotion and fidelity that you deserve. He is basically cutting you loose because he already cheated on you and don't want to face the music.
  • I think he feels insecure and no self confidence. He thinks you're thinking that he's really not good enough.
  • It is unanimous, all of us and your boyfriend agree that he is not good enough for you, or possibly anyone. You can accept this and move on or ask him to be specific. If you ask for specifics you might preface this question with a personal confession of your own to encourage him to be honest by demonstrating that we all have baggage. If he cannot respond count yourself lucky to escape, because he is probably wanted in Indiana (a figure of speech as in the song).
  • I think it means that he is very insecure with the relationship and he thinks that he doesn't deserve you.
  • Basically i think he wants out. Men dont like to be open about these things and would rather look for a lame excuse than just say 'hey we're finished'. I wouldnt be surprised if he had his next victim already lined up!!
  • He probably did something really bad that he doesnt want you to know about.
  • That he doesn't have enough of a sack to break up with you like a REAL man. Run hard, fast, and don't look back.
  • it can mean 2 things he doesnt love you and but likes you so he knows you deserve to be loved back or he doesnt have anyself condfidence and he truly thinks he isnt good enough for you
  • It means he's polite. He's dumping her.
  • I think he is trying to say "Hit the road cuz Im no good." =)
  • In my opinion it means he thinks he has found someone better than you and wants you to pity his lame excuse for a break-up.
  • Probably that he's about to or already has cheated on you, and he wants out of the relationship..
  • He's insecure.
  • Depends on when he is saying it. Married 10 years and going strong = he loves you and wants only the best for you and is being humble. Dating and thinking about the next step = he's not sure he's going to be able to provide for a family. Dating loosely = he's letting you down easy. "Hey babe! It's not you!
  • He's trying to soften the blow...:)
  • It means he has very low self esteem and/or he is hiding a secret from you that makes him feel guilty.
  • It means he thinks he is not good enough for you, he feels guilty for his faults. If you love him, tell him that you love him - that you don't want anyone else. :-)
  • it means that he is very insecure about himself and he needs you to tell him that you love him for who he is no matter his short comings.
  • I think it means he has someone better than you and he doesn't mind keeping you too just for fun.
  • Maybe that he is secretly trying to wiggle his way out of the relationship or maybe he just really doesn't think he is good enough...
  • Dating: It means he feels like you aren't yet experienced/corrupted, and he would feel guilty if he were to take you to his level of experience/corruption quickly. Married: He is just feeling well-cared for, and appreciative of you.
  • either genuine excuse cos he doubts himself as being good enough (this is rare). Usually he wants to seek pastures new and its easy to say and quickly disappear. hopefully he'll stand in some cow patt seeking these new pastures.
  • I think by telling this man is afraid to face the truth of finding someone he was looking for, hence for some reason he thinks he cant give as much attention, or he might not ready (as he thought), or he has some issue - for instance someone who has made him suffer for a long time and now he is not easy to take things seriously as only recovered.. - or he wish he could be with you, but understand he is moving to another country and want to give you a freedom to find someone who can make you much happier. Solution: Dont push and let him go and do his thing. Dont try to make him jealous or say things like what have i dont wrong to you, why? what for? you might change your desicion? the answers will not come straight away for him, it maybe even push him more away from you!! Bu gentle, wait, the only action you can make, wait. Mistakes..dont cant the relationship, saying dont call or txt me. Some men are really into relationship, but there are some deep problems and it is not possible to be together at the present moment! Let things go, you both will be stressed, agressive, terribly sorry, regretting sometimes, but hey! world is not a perfect glass ball.. Calm down and continue, if one day he will understand that want to be not only friends with you - he will be around..
  • Depending on the situation. It could mean a number of things. Some men use it as an escape out of the relationship because the grass, they think, is greener on the other side and in some instance they truly mean it because of low self esteem issues. You have to annalyse the situation carefully. Be careful
  • He's fishing on his pitty pot.
  • It generaly means he sees you as a person of whom anyone would be happy to be with but, doesn't see him self as that idividual. I have known women that I thought "I should love" because they had such great qualities but, new that I didn't have those feelings for them. I hope I have made sence of this confusing statement.
  • He's telling you he knows he's not the one for you,and you should find someone who will be.
  • probably that they dont think theyre good enough for you

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