ANSWERS: 39
  • Guys go for girls.
  • I seem to fall for extremes the hardest. Either the quiet, shy, inexperienced ones or the loud, gregarious, experienced ones. The latter are best to just bang for a while. The former are best to marry (I would imagine).
  • Sure they do. They are like putty in their hands. They can mold them into the type of woman they like to be with.
  • Yes. Depends on the guy, though.
  • Yes of course. Boys go for all girls because they are all different and fancy different peoplee (some even go for other boys). It's exactly the same for the girls. If you meet somebody who really likes you, then they like you and that is all there is to it, shy, experienced or otherwise really is not a factor at all. Do not worry, he will show up - while you may feel like the only one without a string of ex-boyfriends, I can assure, most of the stories your friends tell, are probably not really true at all - everybody exaggerates when it comes to this sort of thing - the boys being worse than the girls.
  • absolutely.be yourself...that is what attracts people to you.
  • Of course! Some men prefer that and not for "bad" reasons. There are plenty of guys that are shy that would love the chance to spend time with a woman that is the same. Your guy is out there and when you find him, you may break from that shness and open up to him.
  • You bet they do !! I married her 15+ years ago and we've actually been together more than 19 years.
  • Yes, everyone has different preferences.
  • Absolutely.
  • i used to while going to church in the 80's.
  • That is exactly my type although the sexual experience or lack of is no big deal to me. I would rather have someone who is like me very quiet and shy than someone who is out there loud and obnoxious. As long as a woman is free of any std's I could care less if she's practically a virgin or has slept with 100's of guys before me. Her past is her business so long as it doesn't affect me or my health.
  • Yes, infact some guys including myself prefer them that way. Not so much the inexperienced part but the quiet and shy girls..they always seem to be more genuine more loving and caring. Better for relationships.
  • ILL Admit i used to,but it was mostly for the reason that i would probably get along with them better than the outgoing girls who flirt with everyone.
  • Nope! They are no fun in bed.
  • Men go for confident girls. Period.
  • Depends on the reason for "going for them". If it's to get laid, then no. If it's for true love, then yes, because it just shouldn't matter.
  • i think this question needs to be turned around. women are taught to wait around for the guy to make the moves and "choose" them. this is all wrong. girls are the ones who have the power in this heterosexual situation. it took me some time to figure it out but once i did, things went much better. so, lesson learned if you are a guy you can go for the girl of your liking, just let it be known that we are the ones, who in the end make the ultimate decision. having said that if you are a shy quiet girl then you probably are a bit more scared and said revelation may take bit more time, hopefully my words can help and make it sooner ;)
  • Yes. I met a great young lady that had those qualities many years ago.
  • only the smart guys
  • Yes, shy is fine, you can make them experienced, its fun.
  • I do but they don't go for me back.
  • I'm considered all three of these things. And I have a boyfriend.
  • Well queit and shy chicks are alright. I like wild girls because they go into physical stuff more easily. if i had to pick a quiet shy girl she would have to have a nice ass and nice apearence.
  • yes, they are untapped treasures who will come out of their shells when the right buttons are pressed.
  • hell no. they usually go for the slutty, show everything that you got, blonde, tan and skinny girls.
  • yes I find it a being in an intimate situation with a shy girl very sweet and a huge turn on
  • Of course they do. It just depends on the guy and what he likes.
  • You got girl part of it right. As for the other stuff, it really doesn't matter all that much. Whether she is quiet or loud, shy or outgoing, inexperienced or experienced, as long as the guy finds her attractive, he goes after her.
  • I like the in-experienced types, because they seem to be happy to just get, rather than criticize if they didn't get what they wanted.
  • i think some guys look for exactly that (they would prefer sexually inexperienced than a slut) a sluts only good for one thing (sex/booty call)
  • I would have to say the shy girl would be the winner everytime. I would rather have someone who would appreciate me and have something special with them.
  • The older a man gets (I'm older than 30) the less appealing the shy, inexperienced ones are. Not that they can't be sexually appealing, or even beautiful. That fact is that as an older man you have less patience to wait around and convince them that they can lose their inhibitions and enjoy sex. When both partners are inexperienced and shy, it's expected that they'll fumble around until they find their turn-ons - their likes and dislikes, as it were. When you're older, you expect a partner that knows her way around the bed (or the bathtub, or the table, or the wesson oil, or the...). If a young guy wants an experienced woman, he just wants an easy piece of ass who he expects will give it up shortly. He is also likely to not consider it a serious relationship, opting for a woman he feels he can trust in a marriage. So, yes. Guys (young guys) go for the shy, inexperienced girls if they're looking for a long-term relationship.
  • Yes but at the right age. Innocence can be sexy when you're both trying to discover each other out and finding hidden surprises are great. Learn to explore each other and take each encounter to a new level...
  • Yes, yes, a thousand times yes. You may be quiet and shy and feel invisible, but believe me --- guys still notice you. We aren't all looking at the girl who is the life of the party. Some equally shy guy probably considers you his dream girl.
  • Sure and in some cases I would imagine it work in favor..innocence is a virtue.
  • Yup, me too. I'm considered quite shy, but I don't know that many boys actually. Haha, that was quite embarressing to mention.. XD Once gotten to know, shy girls have a pretty geniune personality. You can still be friendly if you're shy, right? It is a great bonding process between shy girl X interested guy when he helps her come out of her shell to him. I think shy boys themselves, or boys looking for a serious relationship, tend to go for shy girls. (Players are all for the loud blondes! XD) So it's good news for the shy girls! The boys you know probably find you pretty sweet and rather alluring, to put it bluntly! XD
  • I specifically go for the quiet, shy, sexually inexperienced girls. I'm waiting until marriage before having sex because I don't ever want to risk turning the girl into a sex object. Any girl I would go out with would be incredibly special to me, and I would make sure she knew that in cute romantic ways at random times. I find that quiet, shy girls are usually the most interesting. The girls that are quiet and shy oftentimes have the most to say, they just need someone they feel comfortable around who is happy to wait and listen. That being said, if a girl I recognize as quiet/shy manages to work up the courage to come up to me on her own, just to say hi, nothing more than that, I'll be incredibly impressed by that, and that'll attract me quite a bit. I'm very attracted to uniqueness. Anything that makes a girl different is attractive. Anything that provokes my curiosity is attractive. I very much dislike the super popular girls that are always at the parties, and take pleasure in refusing them when they show interest in me.... but I make sure to be nice and not destroy their appearance/cover. Girls like that oftentimes don't have much more to them than their appearance- I don't really understand why the guys that like them do. I don't drink, but I'll put up with drinking on the girlfriend's part so long as its not excessive and she doesn't get herself hurt. Looks are nice- I'm super attracted to red hair- probably because few girls have it- but the last girl I was interested in I wasn't really attracted to at all physically at first. After I spent a couple of monthes with her I became convinced she was possibly the most beautiful girl on the campus. The problem I find is that its incredibly hard to find that quiet, shy, sexually inexperienced girl, partly due to that nature. But waiting isn't a problem at all for me, and I'm perfectly fine on my own.

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