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only all the time
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Never.
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All the time. I stay with my boyfriend a lot the time now, which makes the situation both better (I am away from her) and worse (she bitches that I stay there all the time). Good luck with your momsy. Mine will never change!
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I know what you mean!! My mom is psycho... All she does is tear me and my siblings apart... Trying to make our lives horrible... We just moved away and ignore her drama that she tries to bring... She never wanted us to make better choices than she did... She's upset that my sister and I are going to school and heading towards doing what we want to... She is psycho and we have gone to family couseling meetings with her and tried to tell her how we felt but she just turns it all on us... She is messed up and I know exactly what you are talking about... The best thing to do is tell her how you feel and move away from her and just give her attention when you want to... Not when she wants it!! Sorry about your hard feelings towards your mother... I've been going through it my whole life (22 years) ... I hope things will get better!! :o)
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Never. My mom is cool, and always has been.
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yes. but then when i come to think about it. I just cry my eyes out. because I couldnt imagine. my life with out her. And then just having the days pass by when she wasnt there to get on your nerves would just feel different and weird.
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Look, I think that your mom needs to keep a closer eye on you and spend more time talking with her son. I think it is sad that you can't or don't talk honestly and openly with her about your sexual feelings and you are more comfortable with a bunch of strangers. She gave birth to you and has nurtured you for 13 years so she can't be that bad. It's normal to be upset with our loved ones but if something happened to her and she was badly injured or died in a wreck, you would feel so bad about this question. Trust me, if you came to live with me and my husband who have no kids, you wouldn't like us either. LOL
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Now that I am a parent and maturity has set in, I realize that all the complaints my mom had were warranted. It isn't easy being a parent, you have to make some decisions that are not most popular and sometimes might come across as a tyrant, but when you love your child you do these things knowing that they won't understand until they themselves become parents. I know there are some mean parents out there as well, but the majority of us are merely trying to raise our kids in the way they should go. I wish you well with your mom. -Buddy
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You should probably be grateful you have a mom.
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Um, no. No I haven't
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I think that one day you may regret writing this question.
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I can honestly say that i have never thought of my mom this way and I thank God that I have such a wonderful mom. I really don't know what I would do without her. Yes, she has her moments but don't we all. I would never wish anything bad to happen to her. In all my 41 years, I have never felt this way and never will. She's my mama.
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On a bi daily basis. The difference between me & you is that I say things like that to her face which of course causes more drama
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ohh yes, but sometimes you have to look at the situation through her eyes. My mom complains mostly about other people over nothing and I don't want to hear about it. The only time she yells at me is when she doesn't get her way..a big baby. I try to ignore it, give her advice or just attempt to change the subject. There is no way of getting around family drama queens especially when the drama is about THEM. Goodluck with that.
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I certainly know what it is like to get angry at my Mother, I had a very bad temper when I was a teen BUT NEVER would I speak about my Mother in such a disgusting derogatory manner. You may have problems and from the way you speak ,if you were my child, I can assure you, you would have BIG problems Whatever arguments you have with your Mother you need to talk them out not come onto an open forum and call her such disgraceful names and wish such dreadful things apon her. Be careful what you wish.
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What could she POSSIBLY have done to have elicited this kind of reaction out of you. God help you both.
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No but I have never met your mom so what do I know.
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I've been angry at my mother but never so much that I'd wish something horrible happened. More like that I wish we could have a better relationship and I'm happy to say that it's been much improved for almost a year now.
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yes, i do wish bad things would happen to your mother. I am that evil.
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Why are you so angry with your Mum? Is it because she doesn't allow you to have your own ways or agree with some of your choices? None can love their child as a mum does; she only has your best interest at heart. She loves you and only want what is best for you. Maybe if you try talking to her and explain to her, she might explain to you her reasons for her actions towards you. You can also help her to understand what you are feeling and going through. Don't condemn her. I think she deserves an apology from you. I hope you have children one day and they treat you the way you treat your mum.
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I can't say that I have EVER felt this way about my mother. Yes, we have had our ups and downs, but I have never cursed her and certainly never wished her dead. Consider this: A friend of mine had a fight with her daughter and the daughter called her a bitch and said that she hated her. My friend was very upset and on the way home she lost control of her car, it flipped several times then caught on fire. She was burned beyond recognition. The daughter will never get the chance to say she is sorry and will always remember the last words she said to her mother was that she hated her.
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it's so nice that she has a wonderful child though.
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It looks like she passed the drama gene on down to you too, slugger. Everyone's mom drives them nuts, at least sometimes. It just a given in any situation where people are obligated to spend time in each others' presence, particularly if one is more of an authority figure than the other. I've wished bad things on my mother before, but instantly regretted them. I would feel horrible if my mother's car exploded, no matter what she had said earlier! :)
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I had a lot of problems with my mother when I was under her roof. She had some mental issues and was very erratic and manipulative. I was also a stubborn kid and we just rubbed each other the wrong way. Some people just can't live together, I think. But you know what? We get along fabulously now. Once I moved out of the house and especially once I moved pretty far away, seeing each other is a rare treat and we go out of our way to appreciate each other when we do get together. She has worked on some of her problems and I've accepted a lot of things so that I'm not angry with her anymore. And I'm not a little snot like I was when I was 15. ;) You may have some good reasons for being angry with her and it is good to get them out. Better online than actually saying to someone's face that you wish they'd blow up. Someday you might get along with her much better than you do now and you don't want to have said anything you'd regret.
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If you called your momma a bitch in front of me where I could smash your face in, I would.
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so, what was the argument about?
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My mother was horrible in most all ways you can imagine....but I still would never had said out loud what you did. You will never get the chance to take it back because you have put it out there for everyone to see.I regretted saying something to my mother and because she is dead I will never have the chance to tell her I was sorry. You had a moment just like the rest of us have had with wanting to scream what you wrote but out of respect we didn't. Show some respect and tell your friends how you feel but putting it in a question was very bad taste.
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Carved in stone for the posterity...
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Just sort out why she is being so dramatic. And that's a pretty nasty thing to say about your mum. Bet she feels the same way about you sometimes!!! :P And to answer your question I have never felt like wishing her car would explode. I wish she would shut up but not that!!
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I feel your pain, my mother was severely mentally ill.and did alot of hurtfull ,damaging things ,and I have felt the way you are feeling now.as hard as it is you have to forgive her and try to be good to her anyway,no matter what she does or says.Be a good son,be a good kid.it is ok to blow off steam and get your feelings out. you need to let your resentment go.think of positive things.write down all of the things you are gratefull for. I harboured rage and hatred and I ended up in prison .don't be like me. stay positive help your mom ,no matter what she does.
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As angry as I've ever felt about my mother, I regret every feeling of that ilk now that she's dead.
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mums can drive their kids nuts, but so can kids drive mum nuts. If you take yourself out of the equation, is she a drama queen with others as well? If so, you are going to have to learn some coping skills, so you don't get to the point where you want her dead. Talk to your school counsellor and/or your pastor/priest/rabbi. They might be able to give you some strategies.
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Please for the sake of the world, never have kids.
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I don't know if you are using the word retarded literally or figuratively. I will assume figuratively and say this, all kids have problems with their parents at least once in a while. If your mother is abusive, let a friend, counselor, minister, police or someone know. If you are just feeling extreme emotions about some incident vent to a friend, counselor, minister or someone you know. An unbiased opinion on the situation may be helpful. If you can talk to your mom with your ears open...do that. The point of what I'm saying is this being a kid is hard and so is being a parent. I have a bit of experience. I never wished bad on my parent & no, I didn't have a perfect childhood. I pray my kids never wished anything like that on me either. I hope you can find some peace in your relationship. If not you will be able to move out someday, have your own family & hopefully learn from your mom's mistakes are to be a better parent.
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I have not wished my mother a horrible death (car explosion) but I would imagine you are just venting and really don't mean that part. I am a 45 year old woman who has been trying to please my mother since she gave birth to me. I will obviously never succeed and her antics have put me on an emotional roller coaster most of my life. Here's the thing: Save yourself a lifetime of angst and stop caring what she thinks of you -- she should care what you think of her! If you met her at say, work, would you want a deep relationship? Just because she gave birth to you does not mean you are obligated to have a deep relationship. I know, it is sad because many people long for a solid connection with their mother. Do less with and around her and cultivate relationships that make you truly happy. You will then find your mother's antics do not irritate/ hurt so much because you have found emotional fulfillment. I hope this helps.
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I understand everyone's viewpoints here... And really, it's hard for someone who has been opportunistically abused for years to not feel something horrible should happen - at least until they mature enough to realize that wishing harm on others attracts it not only to the object of their disdane, but also to themselves. I found this page because my mom (who is 88) is trying very hard to milk more sympathy out of me (I'm 53) and the caregivers in assisted living where she's at. I actually googled "Mom is a drama queen". She got a cold and was getting better, as long as I spent 8 hours a day pampering her. Now she's doing a dying swan act every time she realizes it's me on the telephone. I guess I should just laugh at her but it really pisses me off to hear her switch into a moan to try and make me feel guilty, or whatever. My brother isn't calling her at all and that's part of her attitude problem. I can't make family kiss up to her when she's been so horrible to them for years and years! So yah... I do know what you mean but just wish for her to grow up, not to blow up.
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No. I have been angry with my mom...that's natural, but I never wished her dead. And now that she is, no matter what our relationship, I miss her.
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Yes, towards my step-mother. But, be careful what you wish for, my friend.
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You may not believe it now, but someday you may regret posting this about your mother on the internet. What could possibly be more 'drama queen' than hoping your mother will be killed in an explosion to a community of complete strangers?
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You know that if anything happens to your mom when you are having thoughts like that you will blame yourself for the rest of your life. I never like to think bad thoughts about my loved ones even when they piss me off. I don't even like to fake ppl being sick to get out of work because My mom lied and said my grandma had a heart attack to get out of work once and she really did have a heart attack a few weeks later Its like jinxing things.
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Never...You need help with anger issues...
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Just yesterday my mom told me, and I quote: "I didn't think you were that stupid and shallow." All because I told her I want to work in film. She always picks fights about really petty things. Try to calm down and see it from her perspective, though.
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Wow you sound really upset. The thing is whether your mother deserves this anger or not I doubt that it feels good to be in this space. I know when I hold on to a lot of anger that it causes me a lot of emotional and even phsyical pain. Maybe there is somone you can talk to who can help you feel better about the situation. Because the thing is it probably isn't causing you Mom as much problems as it is you.
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I have had my ups and downs with my Mom, that is normal, but I would have never even aloud myself to think this thought. What would you do if something happened to her and then you had to live with that guilt forever!
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