ANSWERS: 31
  • Because the quiet lover hardly ever makes himself known :) Come out of your shell, let yourself be known and the ladies will swarm!
  • There really is no one type that girls are "always" into. Sounds like you may be having a hard time of it, but I encourage you to keep being yourself. Become the best person you can be and the quality and type of girl you want will be the very one who is attracted to you.
  • Seems like you've recognized the issue and don't agree with it. Immaturity works both ways and you don't sound like you are.
  • I dont know about *aalways* but I can understand where you're coming from. I think maybe some girls are because they enjoy the animalistic side of men. The whole rebel, bad-boy thing is irrisistable to some women.
  • You have never met me and wouldn't know what i am into :) +5 for being brave enough to generalize.
  • Because they think that a guy's ego is proportional to his... j/k!!!
  • well those guys put them in situations to meet girls. the quiet guys are too shy to put themselves out there and take the first step, and many women like a guy who is confident enough to ask them out. the guiet guys need to be a little louder if they want a woman's attention.
  • Who are these gurls u speak of ? and 1 of my best friends is a very quiet guy and he is still a virgin. so really gurls look for guys who are not shy
  • The same reason why guys seem to prefer the girl with an attitude problem that everyone thinks is sexy over the quiet girl in the back of the room. I realize not all guys are like that, but a lot are. A lot of "immature guys" know how to fake around girls and act as though they are the sweetest guy ever. A lot of decent nice guys never really show obvious signs that they are interested.
  • This question is so true. I think most girls like being treated badly even though they say the opposite.
  • I personally hate big egos. That's the first thing that turns me off to a guy. My boyfriends tend to be the quiet, shy type. So I'm not quite sure exactly why alot of females go for the foremost.
  • Im not I dont date immature guys or guys with big egos not my type.
  • The guy with the ego has enough sense to ask the girl. The quiet guy will sit and wait forever for the girl to ask rather than ask themselves.
  • Because he approaches her rather than the girl approaching him.
  • The "always" in your question is inaccurate. The funny thing is, many times girls are harassed for dating older men, solely because they cannot stand the immaturity of men their own age. Then the men their age complain about that. We can't win, can we? No matter who we choose, the rejected party is going to whine about how "ALL girls" do this, that, or the other. THAT is immaturity.
  • I don't know about *always*, but it's certainly a noticeable trend for many people. What I think happens is that the egomaniacs are noticeable. And it's not like a girl can notice a guy she doesn't even SEE since he's not THERE, so they go for what's available. Just so happens that a lot of the time those are jerks. :)
  • I'm thinking because that's the one that they notice.
  • i rememeber i used to love guys who were assholes lol dont ask me why i suppose i like to chase or something lol but in the end it hurts too much,i have met my soulmate(who is like ur description of quiet lover) and i will never let him go im glad i changed my taste in men or i wouldnt have met him
  • Because the boastful guy is easier to spot than the quiet guy. If you really want a girl to notice you, make yourself known!
  • Uh ... lack of maturity?
  • because they see the fun-loving out-going guy that makes them laugh before they realize that he's the immature ego-centric guy... it happens to me all the time.. even though i know so many of those quiet, humble and gentle lovers.. they turn out to be best friends rather than boyfriends for me.. perhaps because if i lose such an amazing guy as a boyfriend then we'll no longer be friends because it'd be awkward...
  • because they get bored
  • because we're all idiots!!
  • because he grabs her attention...but he can only hold it for so long...i tend to go for the more shy guys because immaturity annoys me...
  • Speak up, and we will know what a lover you can be.
  • most girls see right through the garbage and use the sorry fool, he ends up falling for the girl she dumps him he goes into denial and his big ego never recovers, and the beat goes on and on
  • well, usually with those guys, girls don't noticed their ego-tisticle (sp?) attitude and just look straight at the way they are so outgoing and are easy to talk to, and fall right into their trap. :o i tend to like shy guys too, but they're so quiet that it's hard to get the hints if they like you or not. you should speak up more, keep your same personality, but open up a little more. :) i remember i liked a shy boy once, and my friend said that she thinks if i ever went out with him i would wear the pants in the relationship. i want him to be the man, not me. :D
  • you are wrong. for the following reasons: 1. bad guys bully women, so they can get validation they are great. when infact girls hate these guys secretly but obviously date them becoz they dont have genuine nice guys coming to rescue. 2. bad guys fool or mislead women into believe them and then break their trust / ruining the girl's self esteem. 3. the nice guys fail to stick up also or take stand which makes the girl think, he is not that nice after all. if you really are a nice guy be one despite the situation and the girl will see it sooner or later !!
  • depends how exitable they are!
  • you are wrong. for the following reasons: 1. bad guys bully women, so they can get validation they are great. when infact girls hate these guys secretly but obviously date them becoz they dont have genuine nice guys coming to rescue. 2. bad guys fool or mislead women into believe them and then break their trust / ruining the girl's self esteem. 3. the nice guys fail to stick up also or take stand which makes the girl think, he is not that nice after all. you also have to take the lead, you cannot sit around expecting the girl to do all the work !! be willing to give and you will receive !! if you really are a nice guy be one despite the situation and the girl will see it sooner or later !!
  • Hmmm. Are you sure it's their ego that's biggest?

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