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  • for a million reasons, and the majority of them are his fault because he never learned that cheating and lying don't make a relationship work.
  • He refused to wear pants in a certain place yes it was necessary. Don't ask!
  • He was lazy and unmotivated... Not puting any time or effort into our relationship... We didn't work well together...
  • Because he was a jerk and liked to sleep with other women.
  • He was abusive and lied a lot.
  • Because she was CRAZY and I'm too good for her.
  • Numerous reasons, federal state and civil charges including extortion, misappropriation of funds, investor fraud, assualt, kidnapping, but worst of all..he had a mistress before the marriage and kept her..just didnt think it was important to tell me..LOL
  • He slept with my roommate(and co-worker)...and didn't think I would find out! He had a lame excuse that he was going hunting early in the morning so told me not to sleep at his house that night. She left work early claiming she was "sick". When I got home, she wasn't there so I decided to drive to his place....sure enough there was her car! I tried to confront them by nearly beating down the door but, they would not answer. I went home threw all her stuff in garbage bags out on the fron lawn and sent him a text message telling him to tell her to get her stuff before the trash man took it(the trash pickup was the next morning) HAHA!
  • She ended it because she didnt want to face me, when i caught her in an orgy with 6 men and 4 women in my livingroom while I was suppose to be out of town. My trip got postponed and the phone was out due to a storm which i guess was a good thing because i would have called to tell her the trip was postponed. I walked in found her in the middle of sex with three of the men. I just said I will be back in one hour anyone here when i get back will leave here in a body bag. When i got home everyone was gone including her.
  • He wasn't ready to settle down and start a family.
  • Which ex? I divorced my husband because he was a mentally ill, abusive, lazy, chronically unemployed, completely apathetic to my feelings buttwad.
  • Because I found out that he liked to use women for personal gain. Me and several others as well apparently - needless to say that didn't last long at all. I have ZERO tolorance for that kind of crap!
  • Because I was very immature & he was a drunk
  • He never told me why he left..but that was 25 years ago...
  • he wanted his ex back. and now they're broken up and he wants me back. not having it.
  • We were drinkers and coke users and I wanted out of that lifestyle with or without him.
  • I guess.. I'm too good for him - or somethingg. He wasn't my type though... But I still decided to go out with him because he told me I was his best friend, and I wanted to get rid of my old crush that I haven't seen since forever. Well, you know what they say, "Karma-- is a bitch." it's truue, I have bad karma. Uhmm, I still love my ex, so I don't think I'll be accepting any confessions, sorry. It's not very nice to go out with someone and say you love them, when you don't. My ex dumped me for another girl, I guess she was pcing him. He probably cheated on me, and we promised a lot of stuff. Ermm, he probably also broke it up because I wasn't acting so loveable to him and stuff... I'm not much to show how much I love people, so it's hard for me. He's only my third ex. And I'm not much of a swinger too. I just want a trustworthy man. And someone who's manly, my ex was definitly not manly at all! He's a coward now that I look at him being single. Yeepp, the single life. Lonely but fun. The funn part is that you get to check out guys, but be careful. Never know when they have girlfriends, lol.
  • He stopped caring about anything, and I stopped trying to pick up the slack.
  • My ex broke up with me because she found out that I had coffee with a girl and was on Match.com talking to other girls. The reason I did that was because she broke up with me 2 months prior to this break up because I wasn't happy enought all the time and she didn't want me around. I had no one to talk to so I went on this web site and looked for other women to talk with. We got back together but 2 months later I started talking to other girls again because I got scared about moving to the next level and I was scared that she would pull the same thing again. Well when she found out she ended it, came and got her stuff while I was gone and sent me a goodbye email. I haven't heard from her in over 3 weeks. We went out for over a year and just like that she ended it. Now before she said goodbye, she said she was going to go out with other guys platonic and that she didn't think she would ever change her mind about us. I sent her flowers and recently a card but still no response on the card. A few weeks ago I became very sick with pnamonia and was in the hospital and came home but was so sick I couldn't move. My family called her to check on me but she refuse to go over. I know I did wrong but not that wrong. Its not like I slept with some one. I think she broke up with me for more of a reason than having coffee with a girl. She just used it as an excuse I think. Maybe I'm wrong who knows. Recently I have found someone who is even better than her. I'm tring to go on but just wanted to make sure it was totally over. If she would have just replied to my card and told me to get lost then I would feel better. I told her all the things I loved about her in the card and Thank her for all the things listed she ever done for me. I just needed to tell her to get if off my mind and chest.
  • he ended it and didn't really give me a reason why, the next day I see him hugging who used to be his ex girlfriend. Extremely painful.. trust me.
  • Basically, we broke up because she was starting college again after many years of dealing with health problems. She knew she wouldn't have time for me, and decided to cut things loose rather than be a neglectful girlfriend. <shrugs> Oh well.
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  • I've never faced a break up. If you have to break up, it means that you were never really 'in love' with that person (unless he/ she cheated), it was just a crush. Love takes a lot of time to develop.
  • I broke up with my ex, while still loving him, because I just could not get what I needed from the relationship. I wanted a long term committment. He didn't want to make one. I wanted to be first in his thoughts and the most important person to him, other than our children. He put others above me, even when knowing it hurt me. After a few years he started to become distant and dishonest. I could not trust him or his word. After awhile, I just could not live with feeling insecure, wondering what was up and moved into self-protective mode. He still blames me and does not see what he did wrong. Another reason to break up. I see what I did wrong in the relationship, but he won't own up to anything. The final straw was a broken trust that I just could not deal with. There was no effort from him to rebuild that trust...
  • she was a liar and a cheat
  • After five years, no passion, nothing exciting, everything just got very boring and bland. We are still friends we are just not meant to be as a couple
  • Turned out she used to be a man.....with a cock.....damn
  • To have angry make-up sex..... Seriously
  • She was dumb and we weren't going anywhere in life
  • He wanted space. But 11 Months on he still not over me...crazy
  • fellas hate feeling trapped ,dont smother him .if you still love him give him a chance if not tell him you love him but as a friend
  • I lost my high-paying job at Exxon due to a layoff, and she decided that I needed to be punished for that. She cut me off without ANY sort of affection. I held out for THREE YEARS totally without affection of any sort, including sex. I finally just decided that I wasn't going to live like a monk and started talking to other women online. That was the beginning of the end of our marriage, although we remained officially married for over ten years, but separated for most of that time. The last straw for her was when I came down with cancer from Agent Orange. She filed for divorce, which I did not contest, and married a guy from her church whom she had been dating for about the last year, while I had been trying one last time to salvage the marriage.
  • Because he was in love with me and I wasn't in love with him and never would be. Although we were best friends and had a fantastic time together it was cruel of me to continue the relationship when I knew one day I would break his heart. I had to let him go and get on with his life and find someone who would fall in love with him. We are still friends and he has now found someone with whom he is very happy.

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