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joby16
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I'm a tomboy. I've always been attracted to the guys that treated me like one of the guys - not just let me hang out with them, but didn't try to buy my drink/food, open doors for me, or ask if I was ok if I tripped or something. The best way to get close is to be her friend first :o)
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Take this from a real tomboy: Be yourself, that's all she can ask for. If she's trying to change you, or you think you have to change for her, then she isn't worth it! You like her for the way she is, right? Then she should feel the same about you!
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let her beat you up
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Make a comment to her, she may be tough but still cute, and you have to be tougher than her. :)
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Just treat her like another human being, not like she has a 'Caution - Fragile' sticker on her backside.
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I can't answer the what do they look for part of your question seeing how I am a male and not a tomboy as for how you get her to like you two things 1 just be yourself Girls love guys who don't pretend to be something they are not and 2 Don't ever ever under any circumstances let your friends influence your decisions with this girl it is not worth it. If you like her and she likes you so what if she is a tom boy. Alot of girls eventually grow out of it and grow up to be beautiful young women
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tomboys like guys who they can hang around and have fun with without having to worry about chivalry or flirting. We like to enjoy ourselves with guys because they're more fun to be around than girly girls. Sports or video games would be a great attraction.
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Okay well, I'm a tomboy. Um, get to know her be her friend, but treat her like one of the guys... if you don't she'll feel you don't see her as an equal. Entertain her, joke around with her even if things get gross or racy. I hang out w/mostly guys and my bestfriends have all been male, I'm currently in a realtionship with a guy I had in my metal fabrication class. **goodluck!
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As a tomboy, I like guys who I can have fun with and not feel pressured to lie or feel uncomfortable about who i really am, so make sure that there is ton of equality in the conversation, or else you'll scare her away...lol
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Here's my advice, as a tomboy, to you. JUST BE YOURSELF. If someone doesn't like you for who you are, then they aren't worth being with. Don't change your essence to make someone like you. Be the best possible version of YOURSELF.
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the most important thing is for you to be real, honest, and clear in his motives. if you are not legit and the tomboy is smart, she will not be into you. another thing is to show her that, to you, she is an equal. it is important for you to understand that a decent percent of tomboys want to be treated like the guys are because she sees that two guys who are friends treat each other as equals. in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, a tomboy wants the friendship that two guys have and the physical contact that a regular boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. in terms of the approach, the best thing to do is be a friend until the bond is strong enough and then choose a moment and a circumstance to discuss the posibility for a more intimate type of relationship.
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