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No not at all if anything it shows her you are thinking about her!
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you wuss!!!...I am just kidding...she will probably think you are sweet...;)
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Nah I got a text at that same time last night from a guy. It was nice. :)
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nope, a lot of chicks would really dig it. they can be crazy like that.
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It'd seem stupid to me...I don't like texting anyway, for something is lost when you say something in a text message. "Goodnight" is a lot different than "gnite bb." I suppose some girls like that however...
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i dont think its stupid to text a irl or for that matter a guy at 1130 at night to say good night, i think its sweet
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if shes awake then its nice
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No, she would probably think it is sweet.
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No way!
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No, you could also serenade her outside of her house! That is what was done before the invention of the impersonal telephone!
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hell no! it's sooo sweet. it's even sweeter when a guy falls asleep but sets an alarm so he can call you to say goodnight. that's what my boyfriend does for me and it makes me fall inlove w/ him all over again :D
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not at all. me and my girlfriend have aritual now of that. we say goodnight around 10:00 and get in bed or settle down for sleep or whatever and we end up texting eachother everynight around 11:30 right before we actually go to sleep. i used to do it before she started doing it back and i would leave her a message for the morning to because she keeps her phone on silent at night.
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Only if they know that the girl goes to bed earlier than 11:30 p.m.
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It depends. If you're normally distant, and/or if they do this too from time to time, and ESPECIALLY if you've seen them earlier for a date (that went well) and you're more or less serious, it can work to your advantage, IF you do it very rarely. Generally, I'd say it isn't smart. If I initiate communications (rather than just reply or pick up a phone) with a girl I'm seeing, I always interject a little "tongue in cheek" humour, to reduce the corny-ness factor, and make it seem less potentially desperate and attentive (also known as needy). Then again, an even BETTER rule of thumb is not to overthink it, by constantly asking yourself if you should or shouldn't do something. Just do what you want to do, but just don't be a wuss!
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Aww, no, that's sweet!
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No. It's sweet.
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I think it's sweet, too, and it lets her know you are thinking about her right before you go to sleep.
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no!!! i think u should just go for it, as a girl, i know its sweet!! and she'll know how you really cherish her;)
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No way! Girls love knowing a guy is thinking about them, even right before they got to bed. (:
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No it's not stupid, I think it's adorable.
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It depends. If you are in a relationship with her the yes. If you are just going out then you want to be a challenge for her and not let her know that she is on your mind all the time.
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It's not stupid at all, I text my friend goodnight whenever we have been down the pub together. We aren't in a relationship or anything, I'm not sure how it came about but it always makes me smile.
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no not at all i would think it would be soooo cute!
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Nope! Cute and shows you are thinking of them even at that late hour!
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of course not. i would love it if my bf did that
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Not at all... Its 12pm and I would love to recieve that text right now, lol.
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Thats one of the sweetest things ever. That's one of the little things us girls just swoon over.
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no its extremely sweet
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not really, it's actually kind of sweet. Girls probably would like to have the memory of their bf before they go to bed. The only problem is that if they are already sleeping (which I doubt) they may get angry at you, but probably once they see it, they'll smile and go back to sleep.
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Nope, From personal Experience girls would eat that up! It would make them feel special and loved!
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not at all. I think it is lovely. If me and my boyfriend are apart he normally sends me a "Goodnight" text.
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ohh i love it when my boyfriend does stuff like that
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I think it's sweet. It's really great when you fall asleep before then, and the text to say good morning is what wakes you and you see he said goodnight to.
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ABSOLUTLY not.
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Not at all, I would love that :)
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nop i would find that sweet..obviously depending on who the person is....and sometimes even if i dont wake up i love seein the message when i have just woken up!!!!!!
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No.
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YES, especially if you are laying next to her. This whole texting thing is getting just a bit out of control.
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Texting is stupid anytime, call and talk if you want to talk or go see someone face to face. Texting is so childish.
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Nawww...i think it's sweet. I'd like a guy to text me to say goodnight, it means he's thinking of me. I mean maybe not everynight, but once in a while it'd be nice.
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it sounds totally horribly stupid.not. why stupìd? sounds more like you are feeling insecure, i say go with your gut and do it.
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awe no thats sweet :D
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omg my "bf" texts me every night at like 10 just to say goodnight it is soooo annoying it makes me wanna scream sometimes
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LoL, No its not stupid to text ur girlfriend at 11:30pm cause the night is not over with until the clock hit Telve'0clock
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it's stupid to text when you could easily use a phone.
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Calling would be better but all in all I'd say it's cute. Unless you don't know her. Then it's just CREEPY.
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No!!! It's sweet!
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I think it's stupid ot text or call ANYONE for any reason that's not an emergency that late. In my home, if any phone rings after 9pm and it's not an emergency, someone is grounded because all their friends know to never call that late because it's extremely rude!
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No, it is not. If you want some extra points if you really like the girl and your already going out. send her a message when you know shes asleep saying how much you like her and add some romantic words and stuff like that. that way when she wakes up, thats the first thing she will read and it will put a smile on her face
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HELL NO! Most girls will mmaybe be angry when they get shooken by the vibrate, but they will read it, smile and dither off to sleep happpy as a daisy! It also shows you care so much about her, you think about her at night :)
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nooo It s sooo sweeet
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no .. its sweet. i love when guys do that. and then when they text me first thing in the morning just to say good morning. :]
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NO! this is such a sweet thing to do. it means that she's the last thing your thinking of before you go to sleep. it will make her feel better about her relationship with you :) so go on and don't wait for her to text you either. girls love it when guys engage the conversations....even texting
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I think that's sweet.
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Ive done it (to a guy) and Ive also texted him at 5:30 a.m to say good morning.
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Not at all.
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Yes. The amazing thing is that some telephone companies still managed to go broke, even with people like you there to keep them going. As you can see, I'm a bit old-fashioned. I can understand the romance but I stand by my answer.
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no, because you like her, right? If thats the case, then feel free to. Girls like that kind of thing, especially if you think she is in to you. It might be kind of annoying if she doesn't really acquiesce to your intentions.
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No it is not stupid
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Sounds like a good way to let her know you are thinking about her to me. Nothing stupid about that.
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No I don't think anything is wrong with that
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No I think that's OK. I think most girls would probably quite like it.
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Only if you live together;) That would be kinda awkward.....
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Yes, yes it is.
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If I got a text at 11:30pm and it woke me up, I reckon I might be a little irritated, but if that's what it said, I'd quickly change my mind. I think it's small things like that that make most girls go gaga.
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Never, it would make me feel like you were thinking of me and I'd appreciate it a lot.
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it might freak her out if she doesn't know who you are and you do it more than once.
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no i think tahts rlly sweet if any gy did that for me id be very happy even if i was sleepin
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no she probably thinks its sweet
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Yep. It shows yyou were waiting for the night so you could text her. Shows insecurity. If you really want to say goodnight, text at 1AM or something. That will be cute
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not at all that's so sweet!
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My boyfriend hates to send me goodnight. for three years he has told me its stupid and pointless. i like it makes me get butterflies its cute lol recentely he has started to do it tho, and i love it. the nite beautifuls, and nite gorgeous and sweetdreams lol it makes me feel special.
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not at all... we love it :)
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No it is not stupid to text a girl at 11:30pm just to say goodnight because thats just showing how much you want to be with them or care about them.
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No!!! That is so sweet to do that.
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Yes
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Not stupid, it's lovely. My boyfriend and I always do. And when I'm working evenings, getting away at 1/2am, he makes me text him when I get home although he's sleeping. So that when he wakes up he knows I got home safely.
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no its completely adorable especially if she wakes up in the mornin to see you said it. it really feels youcare for her
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no way! girls love that. add an i love you, and theyll be your's
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no way of course not!!! any girl would love to be called to say goodnight. are you kidding me i would love it if my boyfriend did that. the only thing that would bug me is if the guy that texted me was somebody that i dont consider cute or a guy who isn't boyfriend material, bue yeah its not stupid at all
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no I think it is cute
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It's not stupid at all, however you should do it a little earlier
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No way. I would love it if someone did that for me. :)
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no i think thats sweet and if she thinks that stupid just wait till shes in her 20's then all that sweet stuff goes away
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If she is awake, it would be a lot better, other wise it would be dumb finding a message on your cell saying good night, received at 8:00 AM.
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no its cute
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i love those texts!! go for it
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awww how cute!
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Not if you really care for her
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No! It shows her that you care about her & are thinking about her. If she doesn't say it, I'm sure that she is flattered that you would do that. Keep doing it unless she tells you not to. That's very romantic.
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No, I think it is so cute when guys do that.
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the only time it would be stupid is if she went to bed at 10:00...lol...and you woke her up. other than that its really sweet.
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No its not stupid to do that girls like guys when there sweet i still text my girlfriend to wish her luck and stuff when she has a test so what your doing keep on doing it
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aweeeeeeeee
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if you like her make sure she likes you back or it'll get a little creepy if yo guys aren't really close
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no.
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Nooo! Most girls love that stuff. at least all the girls i know.
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Especially when she's in bed next to me ;)
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No not really, I find it cute.
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ah, no. not all all. my boyfriend used to text me at 2 or 3 in the morning when he got off work and it always made my night, even when it woke me up! we aren't together anymore, but he still does it just because he knows i loved it.
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