Am i a bad person for not wanting the 'perfect guy'? Hes finally everything ive ever wanted. And i dont want it.
My parents just got divored. over the past few months i was talking to this guy. he was moving to my city. He said we would be friends and see what happens but he told me i was his background pic on his phone while he was away. he printed pics of me. he wrote letters and prayers for me. sent me flowers...
he arrived finally and a few hours later he said he loved me. he planned the most special dates. so thoughtful. he saved things from each date. he sent more flowers. then i had to go away for weekend with my family to spread ashes and he cried because he would miss me. he got a new tv while i was away and said he didnt want to watch it with out me so he was waiting. hes very religious and i am too although not on the physical level of things. hes talking marriage after a week of knowing each other in person.. and hes just too much.... he brought a prayer blanket over so we could go sit and pray together. this all sounds so sweet, but its been 12 days... i dont feel the chemistry. i dont feel what he does... he tells me god brought me to him, im his soulmate... its such pressure, especially because i really didnt feel like that. it was overwhelming... i tried so hard to love him, but i just dont.... is there something wrong with me??? I got everything ive ever wanted and i dont like him? :(
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No. It sounds to me like things are moving too fast. Give it time. Hopefully if you don't love him you can still be friends.
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