You socialize and meet people. And there are net dating sites which specialize in this sort of thing. Be respectful and interesting and most of all, interested in her and supportive. Above all, especially at our age, have a life of your own that does not depend on her but that can, at least in part, include her. "True love" sounds a little idealistic don't you think? Its essential to be positive but not good to be over-exclusive. I am a few years younger than you and I did not meet my husband until five years ago.