For the most part I have kept my opinions in check to not upset anyone here. Should I express them openly or continue sticking with the "fluff-stuff"?
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Cowboy-Matter of Fact
ANSWERS: 51
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Express them, unless it is meant deliberately to hurt someone in particular. I'd say we're all beyond the "small talk". No rules against being yourself.
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Be opened about your feelings unit , just maybe in a helpful and positive way , so we can better understand where your coming from , because a lot of us or some can relate with you + 5 Good to see you
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I think you should express your opinions openly and stop worrying about fluff stuff...everyone is not going to like or agree with your opinions, but you and everyone else is entitled to their own. So, if you have things to say, say them. :)
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Ooh ooh! Pick me, pick me! Oh, PLEASE do tell your opinions. Be prepared for people to get up in arms - you'll never agree with everyone on here, but never be afraid to say what you think.
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let 'er rip, unit. forget about p.c..
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no one gives a crap about "fluff-stuff." if you want people to value your opinion, then you should openly express it. i don't see the point in chiming in about anything if you're not going to REALLY do it. it's a waste.
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Good grief. You mean all this time you've been holding back? lol By all means, let loose. One piece of advice, be polite. You'll get your point across far better if you do. :)
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FIRE IN THE HOLE!
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I'm with everybody else -- by all means, give your opinions. What I do NOT support are all those sweethearts who find people they disagree with and tell them they're stupid. So, as long as you don't do that, go for it!
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be yourself. just don't be mean or hurtful
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let it our, just be respectful and give reasons for your rechoning.
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Two of my favorite mottos/quotes in one answer? I love it! "Joke'em if they can't take a f**k!" And "Yeah, well opinions are like a$$holes... everybody's got one!" In past encounters I believe I've been right on board with your opinion.
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Do what you feel is best. Just understand even being normal can get you downrated if that's what you are worried about. Don't be fluffy if it's not honest either.
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Express away. Be prepared to explain and openly debate any attack type questions. You may also want to consider anger managment classes.
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If you are willing to argue your point and are not scared of people trolling you and even on occasion insulting you for your beliefs then voice away! I do and I know alot of other users that also do!
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Go for it!, just try to stay on the right side of being polite and not stamping on peoples feelings. Other than that your true opinions are as valid and wanted as anyone elses.
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Wow, if some of the views you've expressed today show your fluffy side I look forward to seeing what you have to say when you take the gloves off.
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If you give your opinion, it should certainly be what you really think. However, the caveat I would add would be this..be straightforward and use words that are not confrontational or hurtful...you need not attack others with different opinions to make your point. If you do that, no one should be upset...of course, I speak for myself only.
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Always express yourself. Best to have a few facts though.
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Absolutely. Let 'er rip. Don't be disagreeable or shocking just for the hell of it though. And don't go out of your way to hurt or demean anyone. Sometimes you may attract a few DRs but you'll learn alot and so will I (and others)
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This is my personal opinion- F*ck em! I say my opinion. I say it like I mean it. I'm not often rude for "no reason" (though I do have my days, and my misunderstandings), and I always try to give a reason, or explain my stance so people don't think I'm just some combative b*tch... But my opinion is mine. No one should have to stuff their opinions down just for the sake of offending someone. Hell, even just stuffing your opinions down is going to offend someone! People are offended. That's what they do. So you might as well live life and say what you think. The problem lies when people won't budge or acknowledge that there might be another side. Often times people just pick a stance and argue it until they're red in the face, and no other answer could ever be right, ever. That's not the way to do it. Have your opinions, just keep an open mind- you'll have less conflicts this way.
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Express your honest opinions. Don't be intentionally nasty, but be true to your own beliefs. If people don't want honest answers, they shouldn't ask the questions.
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you have to be honest, Gets disussions going and broadens other peoples views! Although, beware there are many people who will mark you down for this! That happened to me yesterday! Hmmmf
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I would love to hear your take on issues you feel strongly about....bring it on and let us get to know you...the real you. Unless of course you have something against short people like some folks here then we might have a problem..hahaha:)
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go for it,think for 10 seconds or so then just let loose.
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thats whats wrong with society today. people are going 'pc' crazy trying not to offend anyine and be friends with everyone. you need to speak your mind. last time i checked it was still legal to have your own opinion.
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be true to yourself. EXPRESS YOURSELF!!!!
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Hey knock yourself out git r done!
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Say what you want and what you feel. This is supposedly a country in which we all have the freedom of speech. If someone is offended then that is there on personnel problem. People take things far to personnel and should learn to get over it. Opinions are opinions.
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makes me laugh when people say "yea be yourself" then moan at you for telling the truth i would go fluff but i seriously cant be bothered, so ill stick with being honest
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If you're here to impress people, or to "not upset" people, imo you're basically worthless. Know what you think, know WHY you think it, and express it clearly. If your opinions are "offensive", so what. You're some dude they've never met on the other side of a monitor and keyboard. Screw 'em. Anyone that CHOOSES (note this) to be upset by someone else's opinion isn't worth the powder it would take to blow their sorry arses up.
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Don't worry about what anyone else thinks. Most people here seem to give their opinion even if it's not "popular" and who really cares? Someone might downrate you, but who cares about that, either? It's not like you get a prize for getting points or anything, right? You should be proud of your opinions and feelings.
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Be honest and open, and if someone takes it personal that is their own fault..
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Speak up. give your opinion. Silence indicates acceptance of something. If you do not agree, silence implies you do agree. America did not change on racism or women's rights until more silent people spoke up and said. "I disagree, what you say is wrong."
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You might get down-graded but there's a good side to it. A lot of people will agree with you too! It's more fun that way. If you agree with everything then your opinion ends up being pushed to the side. Be yourself! I'm sure that's how you are in the real world.
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Your call. If you feel better keeping quiet and not really saying much carry on. If you feel like now is the time to speak your truths do it. Sometimes it's a good idea to stretch your legs and climb down off the fence.
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tell it like it is, it's quite fun, but do the fluffy stuff as well.
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There's no need to check your opinions, but there's better ways to present your opinion than just slapping them out there on the table. You can present things in ways that easier to understand, easier to respect, and with respect for others. Opinions aren't facts so they shouldn't be treated as such, when presenting them or when responding to them. Being honest doesn't mean being brutally honest. Having an opinion doesn't mean being opinionated. Presenting your view doesn't mean its your way or the highway. People are often looking for what you are really feeling or thinking, they aren't always looking to have their ears tickled. Sometimes how you say it is more important than what you actually say.
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you wanna be vanilla and safe, or make a difference??
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You can't please all the folks all the time, so stop trying! There are way too many of these Q&A sites around should it get nasty! lol...
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well...as long as you dont disagree with me...have at it
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be honest of you sit on the fence your only hurting your self,tell your strongest held opions and i'll tell you if they offend me (no dr i promise)
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Why would we want to hear fluff from someone we don't even know? And why would you express yourself in an anonymous forum in a way that doesn't really express yourself? No need for personal attacks or mean-spiritedness but please tell us what you think or save us the read.
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I say screw it. Speak your mind. However, be tasteful about it.
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Are you interested in points - or your personal integrity???
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whatever floats your boat...
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you know you should always be honest, tell it how it is otherwise whats the fuckin point?
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Let it all hang out.
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Stop acting like a damn politician! Speak up before your forgotten!
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you can be respectful and still offer your honest opinion. if someone is still offended though you've been respectfull, that's their problem, not yours. i say skip the boring fluff ;)
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express them openly! That's what the site is for! :)
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