ANSWERS: 32
  • I personnally never say it first these days as if a women says it, it can be taken as "oooh this ones a bunny boiler" IF its not reciprocated, and men run a mile! so be patient and wait for the man to tell you :)men are funny like that!
  • I say it when it feels natural to say it! I never force it and only say it when it "just comes out".
  • If I'm sure that's the way I feel, I would tell them at the earliest opportune time.
  • till you know the right moment has just arrived
  • Immediately after their check clears.
  • In 256 days from the time you first met.
  • Don't say it until you know you really mean it. My bf and I said it to each other about 3 months into the relationship - but we both admitted to meaning it earlier on.
  • Until I actually feel that emotion.
  • Until you are sure what you are saying is true.
  • i dont wait, i tell that person as soon as i feel the tingle
  • its not just about when youre ready to say it. you have to feel them out to see if theyre ready to hear it. or youll scared them off nd youll be sooooo hurt.
  • When the time is right you will tell that person that you love them.
  • love is nothing to be played with, kids theese days like to just throw it out there. It's said just to say it to make it seem like its a legit relationship. you will feel it and you will know when the time is right. There is no time limit.
  • just until it is true.
  • Until I feel that way.
  • I've only said i love you, to one man. My current fiancee, and i hope he's the only person i say it to :] We said it after 2 or 3 months
  • Until I know I can say it without lying. =) I love David Marshall.
  • when i feel it
  • After the 7 year itch:)
  • until it feels right...
  • until you want sex.
  • I only say it when I'm absolutely sure that I mean it...and I mean really mean it. I waited 6 months to tell my husband that I loved him. He's the only man I've ever said that to. I was always very careful only to say "I care about you very much" to anyone before him. I never wanted to trivialize that sentiment. When true love finally came around, there were absolutely no doubts.
  • First of all, make sure that the emotion you are feeling is in fact love. Love and lust are often easy to confuse when you are head over heels for somebody. Do you get butterflies in your stomach when you see him or think about him? Do you really miss him when you haven't seen him for a day or two? Does he make you swoon? Do you feel like this always, or just when you're being intimate? If you've answered yes to all of these, then chances are that you have some really strong emotions developing. The second important factor to consider is time. If you've only been dating for two weeks, chances are it's still lust. There is no set time period to graduate from lust to love, but it's only natural to be crazy about someone when you first start dating. It's fun being with someone new, the novel activities you engage in, the fact he is so interested in you, the sex is exciting - when you're having so much fun, it's hard to tell if the emotion you are experiencing is genuinely love. So, as a general rule, give it at least a few months. It takes time to find out that he has some really annoying habits. Once the novelty wears off, is he really all that much fun, or is he really a bit of a bore? Is he still paying enough attention to you, or is he more interested in playing with his buddies? Are you flirting with that new hottie at work, or do you only have eyes for your man. I think it's safe to say at this point, that if you are still ga-ga over him, then you really are in love. You know that your love is true if after a number of months, you find that you can live with his irritating or gross habits. If on the other hand you find you don't, whatever you do, don't tell him you do - even if he says he loves you. You must be honest with yourself and your partner. Failure to do so will only cause pain later down the road and you know what they say about "what goes around, comes around".
  • Till the time is right. You know when your in love, you kno ther in love. You cant set a specific time. Its jst supposed to happen. Usually the guy should say it first.
  • Usually just wait till it slips out, always tends to be less awkward that way.
  • You say it basically when you're already feeling it. I think the most important part here is saying what you feel and meaning it.
  • I play it by ear. Only I really mean it. Plus I trust him and he loves me too.
  • Immediately after their check clears. and until you want sex. It's so funny.....
  • For me: when I reached the point of "I'll explode if I don't"...so I did and I still do, love him very much. : )
  • I love everybody so i feel comfortable saying it the first week lol! If you love someone you should tell them
  • If you want so. then go. atleast you know how to express your feelings. dont hide it.
  • You wait until you truly believe that you love whoever you're in that relationship with. Also, your partner may say it before you, but that doesn't make you a bad partner, it just means that you weren't first is all.

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