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  • my only thought on this is that abortion should not be used as a birth control .
  • Kids are blessing. One day she will realiza it was a mistake, and maybe it might be too late.
  • I'm thinking that maybe she needs to be informed on methods of birth control to prevent the pregnancy to begin with!!!! And even so, there are so many families who are on a waiting list for a child - she should maybe just have the baby adopted out instead of behaving so selfishly
  • I'm pretty torn on this, I don't like abortion, and I by no means support it, but on the other hand I am for womens rights and I believe that abortion should be an option.
  • i have a friend whose husband never wore condoms and she never took any precautions herself. she had at least 7 abortions that i know of, over a 10 yr period. then she had 2 kids with him, maybe she was tired of abortions. i dont know. then she met another guy, divorced her husband and now has 2 kids with the boyfriend. she is the most fertile person in the world. im not against abortion, personally, but using it as birth control is totally messed up. people know the consequences and for them to not protect themselves are completely irresponsible. tell your friend that she should be way more careful. i would imagine the abortion procedure being painful, and emotionally difficult and something that could easily be prevented. nows the time for you to tell your friend she is being irresponsible. im sure she knows how to prevent it in the future but maybe you should sit down and talk about her options.
  • I think it's a tragedy that she's having a third abortion. She obviously has the common sense of a fruit fly. I'm pro-choice, but as others have said, abortion is NOT birth control and to use it as such shows great irresponsibility. Human lives are being wasted needlessly. She should have wrapped it up, or should see a doc about taking a reliable form of hormonal birth control.
  • I think you will end up getting alot of responses from opposing views on this subject..I'm sure it will also start a heated debate or two...have you sat your friend down and told her what you think of the choices shes making? Maybe hearing the opinion of a person she trusts enough to confide in would make her think about her actions. And just for the record..I am completley for abortion..its a womens right that keeps us free...the idea that it could be taken away is terrifying to me...however, having multiple abortions..using the right as birth control can be extremley harmful to a womans body....
  • I am sure she has her reasons,and since you are her friend ,let her do what she wants without judgement or criticism .If you yourself are okay with abortions then there was no need for my previous statement.
  • HER THIRD ABORTION?!?!?! No offense to you, but that is the dumbest thing I have ever heard of! She is wasting innocent lives so she can continue getting laid! Does she realize that she is killing children?!?! I am against abortion almost entirely (with a very small amount of exceptions) There are other ways of preventing this: 1. Birth Control 2. Condoms (Don't hate me for this next one, its just my opinion) 3. If she does not want any kids at all, she can have surgery to remove the uterus. That way, she can get screwed all she wants without worrying about getting pregnant! Sorry if this offends, but I cannot stand women who use abortions as birth control. It is a pathetic waste of human life, and in my eyes, that is MURDER!
  • Abortion should NOT be used as a form of birth control. However, if she is legally allowed to get an abortion, there isn't much you can do about it.
  • All that I can say are in the answers that have been submitted. Abortion should not be used as a form of birth control. She either needs to: -suffer the consequences of her actions. -Learn about condoms, AND STDS, if shes getting pregnant then theres a chance she has an STD! -close her effing legs!!
  • It is very very sad when some women use abortion as a form of birth control and other women cannot have children at all.
  • Your friend is irresponsible and selfish.
  • I guess the third time isn't the charm.
  • 1st Thought: Abortion should not be used as birth control. 2nd Thought: It's none of our damn business. 3rd Thought: The people saying she should just 'adopt the baby out' have no right to say such things. 4th Thought: I'm hungry, and I'd like a vegan BLT. 5th Thought: Why does Sci-Fi always play such gay movies? Who funds these things anyway?
  • none at all - what on earth is there to say to her that somebody hasn't said already? She sounds a bit thick, not the sharpest knife in the drawer. Ah well, stupid is and stupid does.
  • I had a "friend" who had 3 in her early 20s (much to my dismay) and years later, when she wanted a child, she had several micarriages and no live births. Karma?
  • She must enjoy getting abortions. Has she heard of contraceptives yet? We have those. It's a lot easier on the body. She'll be sorry if her reproductive system breaks down from this stress and she goes to have a child and can't. Whatever happened to common sense?
  • STOP her, save a life & her own.
  • No use telling her anything ....she doesn't value anything :-)
  • Tubal ligation.
  • Not really. I don't know enough about the situation to comment, and it really isn't my business - or yours - to begin with.
  • I think she needs to learn what a condom is.
  • Tell your friend she should stop using abortion as a birthcontrol method and to get on the pill. Abortions not only kill a unborn baby but they are also very dangerous and damaging to a womans body. Taking a pill once a day or a shot every 3 months are alot safer and easier on the body and most cities give them out FREE.
  • Birth control. Tell her to check it out!
  • Seeing as this is the third time, she ought to have learned by now to not have sex if she can't stand the consequences.
  • Tell her to get an IUD while she's in there, I believe she qualifies. Spare her body and the unborn children from her 'forgetful' nature
  • You still talk to this person?
  • tell her to get on birth control if shes gonna have unprotected sex ...
  • She needs to keep her legs closed.
  • she's immature. tell her to keep it in her pants.
  • I'd find 3 abortions a massive inconvenience. Better to just take the pill.
  • Yeah i think she should be charged with willful and repetitive murder and be locked up in a cell for the rest of her productive life so she can't go around creating any more babies to kill.
  • This girl needs to be more careful man. 3rd abortion? Thats a bit extreme. She should have learnt from her 1st one that she needs to learn the art of SAFE sex.
  • SLUT!!!!
  • dam shame
  • I think if she doesnt want to have kids she should spend less time talking too you and more time buying and using a condom!
  • What a waste of 3 beautiful lives which didn't have a chance to live. One day she will want to have kids and not be able to (maybe not a bad idea) due to scarring and other complications. Shame.
  • While she's on the table slip the Dr.$100 AND HAVE HIM TIE HER TUBES!
  • I once had a loved one call me not sure of what to do. I asked her if she had the baby, could she love that child. Her answer was yes and her decision was made to have her baby. I would ask your friend if she is willing to consider other options. If so, then give some weight to these other possibilities along side her proclaimed choice.
  • i think she should abort herself
  • Horrible. Abortion is NOT birth control.
  • Has she figured out how babies are made yet or is she still walking about and can't figure out where they are coming from?
  • Women who don't want kids should have there tubes cut, it would stop a lot of needless deaths.
  • To destroy three human lives because she does not care is the height of selfishness.Abortion is a selfish act to begin with.
  • Maybe your friend should look into having her tubes tied. Abortions scar the internal parts of her uterus and can lead to problems later + 5

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