• If he is neglecting you to be on the computer, then there is something wrong. You may need to talk about it.
  • Yes there is everything wrong!! This is not normal behaviour, he needs help
  • As long as it's not affecting his ability to hold a job... then I don't see a problem with it. Now, if it bothers you that he's ignoring you to play games, then quit going over to his house or let him know that you've come over to spend time with him - NOT to watch him play video games. Alternatively, you could always play alongside him! Gaming is a great way for couples to spend time together.
  • I'd suggest a LAN party, so you can both play. Unless of course you think that computer games are for nerds. If that's the case, then poo on you.
  • Oh, hell yes.
  • Wow, my boyfriend is the same - he will be on the computer all night when we are together, and now chooses to be on the computer vs. talking to me. Before, he used to cuddle with me and fall asleep with me, but now he stays in the living room on his computer when I go to sleep. It has completely interfered with our relationship. It is sad, but he doesn't even realize the impact of this habit. I think that is a difficult one to break unless the person really wants to...
  • What a pathetic loser. I bet he eats while he's in bed with you as well. The simple fact is, he cares more about his computer than you. If that wasn't the case, he would be staying up until 4 or 5am with YOU.
  • sounds like an addiction problem. does he play world of warcraft??
  • Maybe, maybe not. I am much the same way, but I have a loving wife who both understands my needs/desires and her own. It IS possible to reach a happy medium, though doing so will require a bit of commitment on both your parts. Basically, if this is an obstacle you can't overcome then you two were never meant to be. I have been with this person for over fifteen years and married to her for almost eight of them Relationships are about give and take, the good with the bad. If you are still with him them there must be some redeeming qualities in him. It is up to you to determine if the good outweighs the bad and it is up to both of you to work through this.
  • My live in bf is the same way; he's 37 & playing on the computer from the time he wakes up until he goes to bed. He takes a break from work, which he's always late for. then home from work to play on the computer, only to break for food which he eats on the couch or to use the bathroom. He plays until 3-6am. then sleeps in until after noon on days off or goes to work if he's scheduled, but always late. He also goes days w/o showering or brushing his teeth, or changing his clothes...that's a problem right? He gets mad if I "interupt" his game. I think it's time for me to find a man, & let go of this "boy" lol
  • yes, hes not getting enough sleep and you might be better off with a boyfriend that has more time for you

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