ANSWERS: 36
  • Forget about him! If he is so materialistic he is not worth having in any case!
  • Be happy you're rid of the bastard.
  • I would be chuffed, bet he's gained weight...but you havn't dumped him.....and from your comment about not being fat just goes to show it was an excuse...what a banker..you are well rid of the skank! :)
  • Find someone who isn't such a superficial ass.
  • be thankful that you know that he is a heartless, stupid and self center prick of a man? What if you had cancer? would he leave you? what if your family had a major crisis, i.e., death of parent, would he leave you? Let the bastard go, there are people in the world who care about you.
  • If he's that shallow, then you'll be better off without him. Even if it has been 5 years, at least you found out his character now and not in another wasted 5 years.
  • get a new one who will love you for who you really are. You are beautiful and deserve better than a stupid no good dork.
  • If you love him lose weight.
  • Say two words: good bye
  • Sing 'This body 2 bootiliscious 4 ya babe" and do that butt jiggle thing....
  • Smile wave and ..get a brand new boyfriend. One that is less superficial and loves you, not just the shell :)
  • Why would you even care? He is obviously a moronic self centered jerk !! Tell him to get lost and don't let the door hit him in the ass on the way out.
  • handcuff yourself to the treadmill until you loses the extra pounds you packed on and lose even more then he wants you to. And when and only when you get downs to his desired weight....dump him!
  • Punch him in the face.
  • After feeling offended at how selfish and inconsiderate and how mean of a person this man is you rejoice and celebrate with your most favorite dessert! I'm sure that there was plenty you would want to change about him and on him if you could. If you have put on an unhealthy amount of weight- girl take it to the gym. Losing that weight will make you feel better about yourself,and you'll look great. Who doesn't feel great when you slip something that fits right in all the right places. New attitude, no toxic man, new shape, new you and who knows..... new man? PS I answered some other guy's question and sent him to the gym .... he might be your special someone! LOL
  • Find someone else that's more derserving of your attention and care.
  • Look him in the eye and say "Whatever you may say, I am still beautiful, and you don't deserve me if all you're concerned about is how good I look hanging on your arm in public." Then get a new boyfriend.
  • Find someone in your weight class... No JUST JOKING... Their not worth your time. Somebody will appreciate you for you and your looks will be a BONUS for that person.
  • find someone who loves you...not your body,,someone who doesn't treat you like a sexual object.
  • Have a donut and celebrate ! You just lost about 180 lbs. when he left.:)
  • If he left you just because you gained weight then he was NOT the one for you. A true friend male or female would stand by you no matter what happen to you and help you and support you when you need it.
  • Thank my luck stars I dodged that bullet. Go out for ice cream, join a gym the next morning, loose weight and go on a date with his best friend.
  • say good bye and good ridence any man taht can not saty wit u becuase u gained weight is jsut pathetic in my relationship of almost two years i gained about 40 punds and ny bf has stayed wit me that hte kind of guy u need. give ur self a day or two then get fit or if dont want to then go on a shoppin spree buy hot cloths and when he sees again look at him like hes some garabe on the ground
  • thank him and move on to someone who loves you for you, not your weight.
  • id buy a pint of ice cream, a bag of chips , and invite my best friend over then hike up my phone bill , by calling him and telling him what a shit he is and make sure he feels worse then you do by morning then sleep with his handsome best friend. .......
  • move on and forget about him, his not worth the worry or stress. be who you want to be not what someone else wants. :)
  • Be thankful that you found out how shallow he is before you invested any more of your time and emotion. Now you can find someone who will appreciate you for who you are.
  • Thank your lucky stars and find someone better.
  • I'm not a rocket scientist, but I think loose weight?
  • Hey if its you then you need loving too even with some extra weight. It wouldn't make me a bit of difference.
  • Move on - petty men are mear temporary thrills - He will find out soon enough that his ways will leave him lonely.
  • well what I would do is look at him and tell him thank you for him to tell you that he dont care bout you it was just your looks
  • Men are site triggered sexually. That means a certain figure attracts men. Its based on breast,hip and thigh ratio. And in the face its a ratio involving the eyes,cheek bones and chin.When a girl gets too fat those ratios disappear and the man will lose interest. This occur es in older women who are not suitable for child birth, so the loss of interest is normal, he cant help it its genetic. You cant have love without attraction,that's what your together for, its a mating dance. If your not fit, you cant dance.
  • Realize that he was too shallow to be with anyway.
  • Find someone who loves you for who you are on the inside. No matter what, don't settle for less than that, because it's what in your heart that should matter to a guy, not what you look like on the outside.
  • my ex husband told me I was fat. I had kids. No one would want me, and I didn't turn him on. He went looking someplace else, and so did I.

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