What happens when your a victim of a relationship,you want to leave but just cant?
by 
pagan-babe
ANSWERS: 8
-
I smack myself and leave anyway.
-
new identidy just go to the grocery store one day and never come back, thats if your affraid of the consequences of leaving the person turing violent. but just in general you need to buckle down decide if this is really what you want and if it is then go through with the break, in the end you will feel much better=)
-
You have to get help to leave. It isn't easy but it is necessary. There are places you can call if you don't have family or friends that can help you. You should be able find someone in you local phone book. Do not stay in the relationship; but, don't try to leave on your own either.
-
If you are being hurt you really need to leave before something very bad happens. If someone loves you they don't hurt you. It may be hard to leave especially if you love this person but you need to think about yourself.
-
When you have time along get in touch with a abusive spouse help center. They can help you thru this even if you have children. when done calling such a place hang up and push a few extra number on the phone just in case your spouse tends to check to see if you've made any call. There are lots of shelter around, but if the situation is severe I would locate some thing not local to where you are. maybe a close friend or relative may be able to assist with this ofcourse not your spouse's side of the family. Never give up there is help out there.
-
You need to ask yourself, What is my role in the relationship? What am I getting out of it that makes it so hard to leave?
-
This is an unorthodox method of giving yourself the energy to leave. Withdraw from the sexual relationship, and do not engage in any other sexual activities. Within a month, you will naturally gravitate out of the relationship.
-
If your being abused in any manner, physically, emotionally, or sexually, then JUST LEAVE. But I feel you, if your not being abused. I'm married with 3 small children, and want out.. but don't have any good reason besides the fact that I'm not happy. Thats not a good enough reason for me to uproot my family, and seems incredibly selfish, So go with your gut.
RELATED QUESTIONS
Copyright 2023, Wired Ivy, LLC