ANSWERS: 31
  • That would scare the hell out of me. It is way too soon to even consider marriage. I'd be very wary of this guy.
  • UH, duh.
  • If this were me, this guy would probably not be getting a third date. Is he like that with all his dates? That would explain why he's single.
  • No shit, Sherlock.
  • he probably wants to marry you, insure you heavily and then have you die in an "accident" so he can be filthy rich. run girl, run!!!!
  • At the very least he's saying that he's open to it and that's what he's looking for, not just a fling.
  • Run, he's a nut case looking for someone to latch onto for sex. He's not interested in you he's saying what he thinks you want to hear to get into your pants faster. Or a potential stalker.
  • First off he sounds like he is just ready to marry somebody!!! Trust me when I say do not rush things. You should never rush into marriage..it is way to serious of a commitment to take lightly and quickly.
  • I think he is, but that is too soon to be engaged. I would suggest telling him how you feel about getting married. I strongly suggest not doing it yet, but get to know him well enough so that both of you can do this test... http://www1.kybaptist.org/kbc/welcome.nsf/files/quiz/$file/quiz.pdf ...with only getting one answer wrong. Once that happens, then I would say that you two are ready to be engaged. I hope this helps. I'm praying 4 u. ;-)
  • He may not be interested in marrying you just yet -- maybe he just wants you to know that he isn't looking to date just to date -- he wants to find something serious.
  • He may not be interested in marrying you just yet -- maybe he just wants you to know that he isn't looking to date just to date -- he wants to find something serious.
  • Unfortunately, yes! But, PLEASE, do as almost everyone is suggesting. Run! Run fast, and run far! You don't even know this guy, and he doesn't know you, and he's already talking marriage and kids. It's WAY too soon, double Y! Be very careful of this one! And, he does fit the stalker profile, as Paso said.
  • Be very wary of this guy, its obvious that he dosnt want to marry you, he just wants to marry someone! Probably relating back to some deep rooted issues of insecurity. After the second date, he dosnt know you fram a bar of soap. I have been in a similar situation with an ex bf of mine, he told me he loved me after the third day of meeting me and told me he wanted my kids, ever since we broke up he has been divorced twice!!
  • He seems desperate and there may be some bad history there. I would be *very wary* but give him one more chance. You've really got to listen to your instincts. If his statements and/or behavioral make you uncomfortable or initiate the fight or flight response, GET OUT. There are many people who didn't heed the warning signs soon enough and wind up getting abused, raped, or worse. Please be careful. Only you can get a true sense of this guy. Maybe introduce him to someone you really trust who knows people and see how they feel. Good luck!
  • He seems desperate and there may be some bad history there. I would be *very wary* but give him one more chance. You've really got to listen to your instincts. If his statements and/or behavioral make you uncomfortable or initiate the fight or flight response, GET OUT. There are many people who didn't heed the warning signs soon enough and wind up getting abused, raped, or worse. Please be careful. Only you can get a true sense of this guy. Maybe introduce him to someone you really trust who knows people and see how they feel. Good luck!
  • You people are being too suspicious. Maybe this guy is just naive.
  • I suggesst you ((( START RUNING ))) away from him..... you want someone to take thier time to get to know you, you want them to see you at your highest, lowest and you also want to know how they react when they do see you at these points....you dont want a "rush in" because you wouldn't want a "rush out" Tell him you want the thrill of wedful bliss not just wedding bells.
  • I would reserve judgment until I got to know him better. I'd be wary of someone 'falling in love with the idea of love' and not specifically *me*
  • maby he is just saying that to get into your pants.
  • To even bring up marriage after two dates is unbelievably strange!Does he even know your full name???Lol!!
  • he is interested in you and want you to be his wife..... he wants to be with you forever...
  • A few possibles: 1) He's saying anything he can to get you into bed with him as fast as possible. 2) He's trying to scare you off quickly. 3) He's in a major hurry to get married, and it doesn't matter who. 4) SOME people fall in "love at first sight". This is ALWAYS a possibility. 5) He's not very good at conversation - He's talking a lot about himself here... Has he asked YOU anything about YOURself? 6) He just wants you to know his future dreams and aspirations as far as family goes. This does NOT mean he necessarily wants to marry YOU immediately, but he's letting you know that he's NOT looking to "play the field" as many guys do. When you say two dates, have you talked a lot on the phone, email, or IM? If not, this can be scarey. You have to determine which of the possible scenarios above (and others mentioned) he's working with. If so, maybe he's heard enough to think you might be the right one for him based on all you've talked about there. Either way, it sounds like YOU want to take it a LOT slower than it sounds like HE does. You need to talk to him about this. Ask him why he's mentioning all this already, after only two dates. Again, you'll have to gauge his answer, but he shouldn't be upset if you ask him. Be careful, though. If it's 1-3, above, many people feel the 3rd date is "bed time". The others, you will have to work out compromises - his immediacy vs your reticence. Good luck. ;-)
  • well did you know this guy previously? is there any history with him? like you went to high school with him and he's been in love with you ever since, or you worked with him and it was love at first sight. dont be too harsh, thats why men are so afraid to let their feelings show
  • this is a year old question. totally out of date. she is probably pregnant with her second kid by now.
  • he sounds a bit desprate to get married. you might want to be carefull with him cause if he's talking like that so soon, he might talk to any girl like that who shows interest in him. he also may just be really into you, but just be carefull
  • No, he's an obsessive stalker- or at least he will be in 3 dates. He's clingy and already planning your wedding? Run, don't walk to the nearest exit, and and courthouse to get a restraining order. And then, be very clear about why you shouldn't be together, and then never talk to him again. That's the only way he's going to get it.
  • mabey he wants something serious
  • Yea,I guess so.
  • run away!
  • He's hinting he'd like to marry you TOMORROW. He's moving sort of fast. Slow him down a bit before he gets too out of hand and runs off forgetting to bring you with him.
  • From experience, when they move this fast,they have something to hide and want to get you caught up before you have time to find out. People like this are controlling and abusive--RUN FOREST RUN!!!

Copyright 2018, Wired Ivy, LLC

Answerbag | Terms of Service | Privacy Policy