Are women always really bitchy and say really hurtful things at the end of long relationships?
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ANSWERS: 25
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If it ends badly, it's a safe bet that I'm going to be a bitch. If we part as friends, I have no reason to be.
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If the situation calls for it both women and men act that way.
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I'm not, i am good friends with my past partner/s! depends on the reason why your breaking up!
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maybe you b*tchy women was tried of beening hurt and how may LONG relationships have you been in to draw this conclusion
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wow, bitter much? i'm sure most women try not to be, but then again, your perception of all of her actions is skewed by the fact the relationship is over, and maybe that causes you to see her actions as more bitchy than usual. or maybe she is just a bitch. i ended a long term relationship not so long ago and did my best to be as nice and helpful as possible. things were hard enough on us to throw bitchy comments into the mix. don't judge all women by the behavior of one.
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No. Sometimes men say the really hurtful things at the end of long relationtships too!
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I know of good relationships that end with mutual acceptance and friendship. It just takes people, men and women, who are mature, compassionate, and have strong egos. I know of others, where immature people made disasters out of families, children, and each other. Bitter women who lived out their lives bitter and angry and never allowed themselves to begin a new life. I can see one of them, at one time attractive, now a permanent sneer on her mouth, a cigarette burning in an ash tray, a constant barrage of cynical remarks filling the air near her chair. She spent 40 years trying to make her ex miserable without success. He found someone to live with, and spent his life with the new woman.
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I don't think that is a gender specific thing.
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Spare me. I don't talk hurtful things. I just leave and never say any word. That would make him more guilty.
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I am really struggling badly not to become that bitter twisted woman, my husband left me the week after my 50th birthday for a younger model after what I thought was a happy marriage (30 years) with four children and three grandchildren. I had to go into hospital last week for a hysterectomy. The day I got out was to be our thirtieth wedding anniversary he sent me a text to say he hoped I was feeling better. I found out later that day he was off to paris for the weekend with his new - ahem excuse me - but Prada of a bitch (divorcee no kids career woman)anyone any advice to stop me from going over the edge. And I really am doing my best not to bitch honest or to stop seeking revenge...Help
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I would say that that is normal, but I don't think it happens after every relationship. I think men are also good at saying hurtful things at the end of relationships as well, but not all men.
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Yes especially if she's hiding the fact that she is hurt also.
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No, some just walk away without a word.
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Sometimes, yes. Usually it's because their significant other has failed to meet their expectations.
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Yes. Usually it is because they are hurt and are lashing out.
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Its Vice-Versa...... :)
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Not all...but some are hurt so they lash out.
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no it is not a gender thing. It is actually a person thing. my ex lashed out at me and said some bad things and he was acting a fool
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If you screw them, I'm sure they say that and do more
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Oh no!!! Not just at the end of a relationship! Some do it throughout!
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When they are dealing with total assholes, yes.
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Yes. Yes they are.
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It depends on what she's gone through. People that are hurt usually say hurtful things.
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Nope, not all women.
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If the men are asses, then probably. I don't have any ill will towards any of my ex's.
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