ANSWERS: 33
  • I'd be packing my bags and out the door to find somebody who did love me.
  • Depends on the level of economic dependence. You could also still have a happy life as cohabiting friends?!
  • "True love never leaves the heart, so if you don't love me now, you didn't love me then." Just say that and leave it for them to think about. It depends how I feel about them If I truly loved them then I would not leave and I wont live with some one until marriage and am only going to marry the girl I love so.. No worries for me lol.
  • I'm not into a pity relationship. I'm not that pathetic that I would stay with them, as a favor to me. And if he DID say that to me... Someone better get me some boxing gloves, stat. Cause I'd be bout to knock this mo'fo out. How disrespectful!
  • No, I would never want to be with anyone who fell out of love with me or said he never loved me. I would see absolutely no reason to stay, so I would not walk, I would run..
  • I'd walk away. I've no time for someone who's only staying just for the sake of comfort.
  • It depends on the situation. If he was my husband and a good father and provider then I would stay married to him. If it was a relationship outside of marriage and with no children involved then no, I'd leave him.
  • That would be an odd situation. Why would someone stay with you if they didn't love you? Assuming there are no children involved. NO, if someone said that to me I would ask them to leave. I wouldn't walk, THEY would be walking.,
  • I did not get married to have a room mate...I got married because I was in love with this guy who was in love with me...so NO if he tells me tomorrow he does not love me I will start packing.
  • i would definitely walk away from his life.. its meaningless to stay together with him when he said he no longer love me.. it will only cause me pain and sorrow if i were to choose to stay.. well, i deserve a better one out thr =)
  • If no kids involved it is easy answer, get the hell out. If kids involved, much more complicated.
  • I walked.
  • I'd leave, undoubtedly.
  • as i m picturing this scenario in my mind ,i am imagining that this woman that i once loved coming to me and telling me this.i have no doubt that my Scorpio nature would kick in and i would say ,no,its all or its nothing.don t do me any favors,its over.
  • I'd stay, if I loved them... I'm a wretch, I know... but if I love someone, I'd need to be there, to make them happy to do whatever I could for her....
  • Walk away - if you stay, you will not be able to forget this and it will cause you much heartache. The chances are that if he does not love you, he will not be staying forever it's a matter of time.
  • Not walk-RUN!
  • Go for a stroll.
  • It would be too hard to continue living with a partner that used to love me, but now, for some reason no longer does. I would move away.
  • I would say Thank you for being honest, now we don't have to waste no more time. I wouldn't be one to stay because of the kids, I want my kids to think of a happy relationship, I wouldn't want then to grow up believing they have to be miserable for 18 years to make it better for their kids, when in reality no one is better off if there isn't any love in the home.
  • denise, After reading your comment my heart goes out to you. I am sorry you are going through this , I am sorry anybody has to. But I was in your shoes and did the same thing, I asked my oldest what he thought about me leaving, He said I don't want you to leave. So that was good enough for me. I lived one long miserable life and so did they, and of course when they were grown their opinion had changed big time, they couldn't believe I stayed as long as I did. denise we all want whats best for our kids but please trust me kids can not make adult decisions, they do not know what is best. Good Luck to you.
  • i'd go.
  • If , by staying, it would prevent you from finding love, I think I'd leave. But if we're talking friendship and companionship , maybe....The problem is that I don't know any mate that will settle for that with no sex....
  • I would walk because why would i stay with someone who says they will never love. So if they wont give it a chance to love me then i would walk.
  • i don't know. my heart would be in too many pieces and my emotions too amix to decide. i would be lost inside, broken...if you stay, then there is a chance they could love you again, but if you truly love someone, then you don't "no longer love" them...if you love someone, you always love them, nothing can make you stop loving them...but if you walk away, you could find someone else, someone who could treat you better, perhaps
  • I wouldnt walk I would RUN! I wouldnt be with a person that doesnt love me!
  • I was with someone who for a year told me that they loved me, and then told me one night that they no longer loved me, but wanted to stay with me. I made the wrong decision and stayed. I won't be repeating that mistake EVER again.
  • I would walk I don't want to be in a relationship where my husband no longer loved me.
  • WALK 100% Its not worth the upcoming pain you'll be suffering soon
  • I might try to work it out, but honestly, I dont think I can stand it.
  • i'd stay he can go lettin the door hit him on the ass on the way out!
  • You know I am in this situation right now. I have 2 children and my partner who is not there father told me that he cares for us but doesn't love me. I have had a on again off again relationship with this person for 2 years. We moved in together 6 months ago after he said he was ready to be a family,this took 6 months in the planning only to find 6 months later he relised what life with 2 young kids was really like. Part of me is really only hear for survival now and the other part is because I think of how lonely I would be with out the support and friendship we have. In the last 6 months, I have relocated my children, started them in new school found my dream job and have care for the children whilst I am working, and we have made new friends ect ect. Personally I can't afford to just turn my kids lives up side down and move back into a area full of crime for as that is all I could afford. So as for the love, well I have survived worse than someone telling me that they didnt love me. As long as my children have the love for me and respect as their mother because she has to do what she needs to do in this point in time, in providing a better quality of life for her children well that is all that matters to me.
  • Kick her out (it has happened to me)

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