At your local church.

Obviously somewhere you aren't looking. Keep looking. Don't give up! ANNAfoxlover believes in you! ;-)

We are all over here at my place. We are making dinner for you. You are still coming over tonight?

in my local pub :) actually, they are. i've met a lot of really wonderful men there . . . don't give up and don't try to hard, they really do exist and sometimes in the oddest of places!!!

They're out there, don't give up hope.

Doing the things they enjoy in life, and waiting to meet someone just like you. The more you participate, and the more you give, the more you get back.

Dating each other.

One is making me beer can chicken on the back deck. Sorry he is mine and I don't share.

One is right in the next room. Mine, though. No poaching. (^_^)

Some of them are looking for you, my dear, and asking the same question about good women.

I still think you should return to the man that you parents hate. This Internet man is horrible and you broke the engagement. Unless this man is a serial killer, I think you belong with him and he still loves you. Life is too short to let this opportunity slip by. Don't be like Amy Fisher and wait all these years to be with Joey, do it now. No one thought that Mary Kay Leteranaou and her student should be together but they are going on 2 years and are very happy.

What is a "good" man?? The one that has a purpose to serve you?

I like to believe that i am a good man, but women dont appreciate it and take it for granted, so my qeustion is where is the respectfull woman?

in heaven lol...

Come to Wales I and my friends are here.

all the good men are not on this planet, they left 1000 years ago. and for some reson never came back , must be all of those good women on mars.

They're all over in Iraq and Afghanistan supposedly fighting for our freedom?

good answer..so true..oops this was suppose to be a comment for Sunblynd

Off to fight the war...

They ended up with the girls that did not ignore them in favour of the 'cool' guys, jocks and so forth in high school etc...

Max says they're hiding from you

I'm still here.

They're in hiding. Someone put a contract out on them. Seems they were taking girls away from the assholes of the world. =)

I think they all went to the Bowl Store to, ya know...get more bowls. 'Cause we're out of them, and we need to have bowls for cereal and stuff.

I wish I knew. I also wish they would come back...at least one or 2 anyway.

The good ones are either married or gay

They've turned gay.

Many have gone bad, since all the girls want, it seems, is just that.

Home to their families.

Gone bad.

I have a few working for me and wonder where are the good women are.

I think theyre all on AB......

Nowhere. they are always there...you just have to weed through the jerks to find the good guy...one is rewarded by patience and perserverance.

Ladies and gentlemen, Elvis has left the building.

They are out there...dodging marriage.

I snagged them all on the way to the shop- sorry! No really, good question which desperately needs a good answer. Maybe they just have awful role models.

Extinct.

I ate them all

They're hiding I swear. B/c each one I come across has ASSHOLE in his genes or something.

They left with all the good women

This one is happily married to a great woman.

Well believe it or not that not all men are bad. I know it's hard to believe especially when your involved with a guy who's not so good but there's ones out there who are good so they aren't all gone. You just have to search and not settle for just what you can get. In order to get a good one you need to start being a little picky because believe me there are some good guys out there. I should know I had dated a few of them. So they are out there.

And where are all the gods? Where’s the street-wise Hercules to fight the rising odds? I need a hero...

I'm not sure where all the other good ones have gone, but I'm right here. :-)

I don't know, but when you find them PLEASE tell me!!!!!!!!!!!

in a gay bar

At the pub.

Right here.

Good is an abstract word, good at what? Answer on hold pending clarification.

I'm right here... :) Seriously church, schools, clubs or join a team of some sort, Softball ect.

Here's one place you can check out...;-D... . . http://www.answerbag.com/profile/?id=18569

Apparently on AB!

we're too nice apparently.

You can find us at sporting events, supermarkets, bars, bookstores, concerts, college classes, work related functions, charity events....

I don't think there is a right answer to that one...

95% of all successful relationships is a friend of a friend. There is a good chance that your friends have no idea that you are on the market. There very well may be one out there very near you. If a name comes up, which likely will, try to find out on his background. If it looks good, get word to him through your friend that you are out looking too. After about a couple of weeks, to give him time to dwell on this or to respond, set up a plan with your friend to stop by with them in a decoy to going somewhere else or doing something else. Let's say you and her were going to a store somewhere and she stopped by to ask if he wanted to ride along or pick something up for him. If he is a good person and is aware of you, then he will probably be nervous and uncomfortable, so take that into consideration. If he staggers when he talks and doesn't make sense with what he is saying, try bringing something up with him to throw his screw-ups off. Girl, all of us good boys are guilty of that, every single one of us, and when we see a potential life-long companion in front of us, it scares the hell out of us. This is kinda my first words to my fifteen year companion now, "I....uh....this...uh....how...what..uh..." My legs drawn together and jumping as I sat. She had to keep helping me out. However, if he is smooth and cool with you, suave and confident, then you'd better run before it's too late.....unless... you don't mind sharing him with four or five other girls. But if you are the only one before him, the only focus in his life at this time, get ready for stuttering and half broken sentences. You probably got yourself a good one, so don't let him get away.

How many do U need??? How do I know Ur Intentions are "Honorable"??? Here, try this, it's the "Basics" & then some! Enjoy! John DOCTRINE OF RIGHT MAN AND RIGHT WOMAN A. The right woman is the oldest and one of many grace gifts to man. 1. There are three prominent grace gifts from Christ to man delineated in Scripture, and these are the order in which they occur in the human race: a. Right woman, He built her, Prov 18:22, 19:13-14. b. Salvation, He did it. c. Doctrine, He thought it, 1 Cor 2:16. 2. In all of human history, right woman is the oldest human gift, for Christ brought the woman to the man, Gen 2:18. 3. The fall of man did not change their relationship. B. Attacks on the gift of right man/right woman. 1. Reversionism, especially phallic reversionism is an attack on the concept of right man/right woman. 2. Life in the cosmic system is an attack on right man/right woman. 3. All mental attitude sins attack right man/right woman, SOS 8:6, 8; Prov 27:4, 6:34. 4. Negative volition to doctrine is an attack on right man/right woman, Jer 15:8-9, 15-21, 16:1-2, 17:9-11, 12:7-9. Negative volition to doctrine destroys right man/right woman relationship. 5. Scripture: Prov 5, 6:20-32; 1 Cor 11:3-16; Jer 31:22; Eccel 7:26-29. 6. No disaster, pressure, or unfaithful act, can destroy personal love between a right man and a right woman. 7. The greatest attack on right man/right woman comes from the soul: scar tissue of the soul, emotional revolt of the soul, and reversionism. These attacks are accompanied by fornication and promiscuity. C. Perversions of Right Man/Right Woman. 1. Auto-erotism, masturbation, or self-response to self. 2. Homosexuality or lesbianism, Lev 18:22; Rom 1:26-27. 3. Bestiality, Lev 18:23. 4. Fornication, Ex 20:14; Prov 5:20, 6:32. D. Analogies of Right Man/Right Woman. 1. Right man/right woman is used to teach many types of doctrine since it is one of the most common relationships to the human race. 2. The Lord and Israel, Jer 2, 3, 13; Ezek 16, 23. 3. The Lord and the Church, Eph 5:26-33. 4. Operation Z, James 1:19-22. 5. Christ, the shepherd and bishop of the believer's soul, 1 Pet 2:25 cf 1 Pet 3:1. 6. The mature believer is the glory of God, 1 Cor 11:7. E. Right Man/Right Woman Related to the Laws of Divine Establishment. 1. Monogamy is designed to remind the human race that there is only one right man for one right woman and visa versa, 1 Cor 7:2-4. 2. Under these laws marriage becomes the second divine institution. 3. Marriage is still the protection of romantic love, Heb 13:4; 1 Cor 7:9; 1 Tim 5:14; Rom 7:2-3; Gen 2:24-25; Eph 5:22, 25, 28, 31, 33. 4. Marriage forms the basis for stability in society, and rejects the theory and practice of anarchy, promiscuity, and communal living. 5. Marriage is also protected by the third divine institution, family, where parents have the responsibility of training their children. 6. The husband is the authority in the marriage, Eph 5:22. 7. God protects the woman from tyranny by the training of the little boy by his mother. His mother teaches the man respect for womanhood, and keeps him from becoming an animal. Prov 31:1-2. 8. Once the couple is married, the doctrine of right man/right woman no longer applies. Now it is a matter of honor, integrity, and impersonal love which must provide the power for the marriage to work. F. The Man and Woman's Relationship at the Fall. 1. After the Fall, God confirms the fact that the man's authority is not changed, even though he responded to the woman, Eph 3:16b, 5:22. 2. In Gen 3:6 we see the reversal of the roles of the man and woman in the Fall. 3. Until the Fall, sex had been a total pleasure and an experience of perfect happiness. After the Fall, a secondary role is added: it is the means of perpetuating the human race. Without children they had only themselves to consider. But with children a second authority develops of parents over children, and this develops problems and complications in the right man/right woman relationship. 4. Therefore, the woman bears the children, Gen 3:15, and through her comes Jesus Christ, Gen 3:16. G. The Recognition of Right Man/Right Woman. 1. Personal love is recognized by both parties. 2. Right man can always tell the mood of his right woman by her voice. The right man's soul will have a total understanding of the right woman's soul, emotions, moods, etc. 3. The right woman may love or hate her right man, but she cannot stop thinking about him. Right man/right woman can never be just friends. 4. You won't be adjusted to people until you find right man/right woman. 5. Every time right man is with right woman, it is a blessing to him. 6. The man cannot work to get his right woman; it is a grace gift from God. God always brings the right woman to the right man. Grace takes up the slack before you find right woman. Doctrine is your right woman until God leads her to you. You don't need to date others while waiting. 7. If a woman doesn't recognize God's authority, she will never recognize her right man's authority. Long hair on a woman is a sign of the right man's authority over her. Wearing long hair is a sign that a woman is waiting for her right man. 8. Your right woman will not react to you. Bitchiness in a woman is an indication of the wrong woman. 9. A wrong woman is always dressing to show off what she has physically. 10. With the right woman there is a period of waiting, resisting temptation, and a period of doubt before God brings the right woman to the right man. H. Right Man/Right Woman and the Soul Climax, 1 Cor 7:8-9. 1. When you find your right woman, physical compatibility is no problem; the difficulty is recognition in the soul. a. Right man/right woman are not ashamed or disappointed in each other physically. The right woman fits the right man perfectly in sex. The right woman's body is the most magnificent thing to the right man. b. You cannot make a woman your right woman by having sex with her. c. Right woman is a storm of passion when the right man makes love to her. When the right man makes love to his right woman, he satisfies her soul as well as her body. This gives her insatiability. The right man sees his right woman as personifying symmetry and beauty. d. Jesus Christ is the giver of sex as the total concept of happiness with one's right woman. e. Before your right woman comes along, you must have an affair with Bible doctrine by taking in doctrine every day until it becomes the love of your life. 2. When the right woman comes along, both will have a soul climax. a. Sexual burning is not a soul climax. This is an indication of wrong woman. Fornication excludes the soul, and therefore always produces wrong man/wrong woman. Shopping around is human viewpoint. b. The soul climax is the divine design of recognition of your right man or right woman. "Burning" has nothing to do with libido. It refers to when two souls have climaxed and are not yet able to make love because the two people are not yet married. No sex can compare with the sex between right man and right woman. c. Therefore, it is better to marry than to burn in personal love for right man or right woman after you have made the soul identification. The right man or right woman can make identification without touching. c. The right woman always emphasizes the soul of her right man when they first know each other. She is looking for his precious soul. The right man is the most precious thing to the right woman, but she emphasizes his soul and hunts for that soul. d. To recognize his right woman, the right man needs only to have the soul climax; no physical contact is necessary. There is no need for heavy necking before getting married. Heavy necking knocks out the ability of the right woman to recognize her right man via a soul climax. e. The soul climax is being out from soul control, because someone else so stimulates your soul. This is the only person who pulls you away from your own self-consciousness into being more aware of them than yourself. You become more thoughtful of them, interested in them, and more concerned and involved with them than yourself. f. A super-rapport develops where the two people cannot wait to share what has happened while they were apart. They enjoy conversation, and even their silence has super-rapport. g. Sex before marriage destroys your capacity to have a soul climax, Prov 6:32. Abstaining from fornication protects the soul, so that it can have a soul climax and the fantastic happiness Christ wants every member of the human race to have. God isn't trying to keep you from having fun, but from missing out on greater fun than Satan and his cosmic system can provide. h. Mentally this person becomes your frame of reference for everything. All memories are related to this person. Over a period of time your norms and standards change so that this person is the honorable one, while other people are insignificant. In your viewpoint, everything in life is related to that right man or right woman. From your volition, you adjust your life with pleasure to please your right partner. You dress to please them and omit things in life to please them. Your emotion has a fantastic response to them. i. If you are in emotional revolt of the soul, you cannot have a soul climax. j. The soul climax is that soul identification in every compartment of the essence of the soul, which stimulates total soul concentration on a member of the opposite sex. It is involuntary total soul concentration. k. Total involvement of the soul essence means that the climax of the soul as an identifier will cover every area of the soul except the old sin nature. l. The right man fulfills her norms and standards, principles, categories, provides soul stimulation, and gives reality to her romantic dreams. 3. The soul climax is the divine design for recognition of your right man or right woman. I. Identification of the Right Woman, Prov 31:10-31. 1. Verse 10 says that your right woman will have certain things for you that she doesn't have for anyone else. The man must recognize her first and be aggressive to her. The man makes the identification first. 2. In verse 11, the right woman becomes a home to the right man. The heart of the man is at home with the right woman's soul. The right woman regards the right man as her lord. The right man's right lobe has confidence in her. This is called love-security of the soul. The right woman won't flirt, tease, or think about some other guy. She is totally occupied with him when he is absent. 3. In verse 12, the right woman will do good to the right man, show him good, and cause him good. 4. In verse 13, the right woman makes decisions to please her right man. The right woman dresses only to please her right man. Her soul is so occupied with him that she is motivated to always appear in clothing he appreciates. She searches diligently to find clothes to impress him. She works with pleasure because it is for her right man. 5. Verse 14 says that she goes to extra effort to find things for her right man to please him, like his favorite food. 6. Verse 15 says that her mental attitude determines how things go around the house. The right woman places love for her right man above her own comfort and personal wants. 7. Verse 16 says that she pleases her right man in business, e.g., she is an aggressive business woman. 8. In verse 17, her soul and body are at his disposal. She responds to only her right man sexually, and anything goes. She encourages him with her arms. 9. In verse 18, anything she does related to her right man always tastes good to her. He always tastes good to her. She is stimulated by him and in a state of perfect human happiness. 10. In verse 19, her hands are occupied with those things which bless him. She gives him no cause for concern. She doesn't play games (cheat on him), nor is she vindictive and seek revenge against him. 11. Verse 20 says that because her soul is full of grace happiness from her right man, she extends grace to others. 12. Verse 21 says that the right woman anticipates certain kinds of disaster and heads them off. She prepares for disaster before it arrives and makes provision. Her instincts of love keep her concentrating on her right man. She no longer depends on parties, outside friends, and fun. She doesn't try to hurt her right man who is so vulnerable to her social or mental unfaithfulness. 13. In verse 22, the right woman makes herself beautiful around the house because her right man is there. 14. Verse 23 says that she is not a nag. The right woman makes it possible for the right man to concentrate on work and be away from home without worrying about her. She compliments and implements, but never competes with her right man. She turns him on, but never puts him down. She seduces him, but never belittles him. 15. In verse 24, the right woman supports her right man with fanatical loyalty and love. 16. Verse 25 says that the right woman is the glory of her right man and wears her glory in her soul, which includes having a sense of humor. She has beauty of soul. She is totally relaxed, giving her the ability to laugh at housework, office work, or whatever she must do. 17. In verse 26, when she speaks, the right man is thrilled because wisdom comes out of her mouth. Divine viewpoint and Bible doctrine is the basis of her conversation. She refrains from verbal sins. 18. In verse 27, she is alert in her soul and not idle. 19. Verse 28 says that her sons remember her with happiness. 20. In verse 29, she waits for her right man by taking in doctrine. For the right man only one woman surpasses all others: his right woman. 21. Verse 30 says that you should not use physical beauty to determine your right woman. Beauty is deceitful. Identification is made in the soul. When you get turned on by some woman's looks, then you missed your identification. She is not your right woman. Beauty, sex appeal, and a great body, is not the basis for recognition of the right woman. Once identification is made in the soul, you will find she has the most beautiful body. The woman occupied with Christ will receive praise from her right man. 22. In verse 31, the responsive right woman becomes aggressive with her hands and lips. No wrong woman can compare. You don't have to prove anything in public to others that you are right man/right woman; touching is private. J. The Responsiveness of the Right Woman. 1. When a woman is a true responder, she initiates her response from her own free will. Right man/right woman have true communication. 2. A woman in response is aggressive. She doesn't stand around and wait for the right man to be aggressive. He doesn't have to be the aggressor on every occasion. 3. The right woman can respond to an aggressive act the right man committed a year before. She is designed for compliments, recognition, and individual attention. K. The Submission of the Right Woman. 1. If a woman is in love, she is happy to surrender her volition to the man and he will care for it. Without mental rapport, there is bad sex life. If the woman doesn't give her soul, she is cheating her man. 2. Submission of the right woman is not slavery but fulfillment. Grace inner beauty in the woman is something which the wrong man sees which he cannot fulfill. A right woman may even change friends to please her right man. The right woman's norms and standards will become one with her right man's. One person's sins don't cause sins by the other person; the same is true for human good. 3. The man should never demand anything from a woman, because he won't get anything anyway. The man cannot demand volitional response or appreciation. 4. The right woman is never shocked by the good or bad points of her right man. Her right man is a point of doctrine. Because Bible doctrine is in her soul and he is a point of doctrine, he is always in her soul, and therefore she will always be faithful. 5. A woman goes quickly from objectivity to subjectivity because she is a responder. 6. The right man will always give her something to which to respond. She saves those things in her memory so that she can respond to them again. 7. The right man, positive to doctrine, will lead in spiritual things. 8. A woman has no security in life except the security of her right man. When a man comes along and is faithful to her and no one else, and she knows it, then that person has her attention forever. 9. When you keep a promise to a woman, it impresses her. She responds. A woman who is a responder to too many things in life also makes herself a reactor to many things in life. The more you respond, the more you react. 

My longest relationships have always come from people I met at work. But if you're going to date someone in the office, be discreet about it.

Right here if you want to give it a shot, but I'm not someone to be taken likely. I'm very careful with these sort of things.

Almost everywhere. You've just got to notice them. :)

you can find a man just about anywhere, but it takes time to tell if they are a good man. One who will be beside you every step if you are sick , or there when you are sad.

They are everywhere.... just look around here. ;)

THEY ALL TURNED GAY AND SAILED OFF INTO THE OCEAN AND ARE TAKING TURNS JUMPING OFF INTO A POOL OF SHARKS!!!

I've never heard the words "good" and "normal" in the same sentence. Well, maybe I'm wrong. But I've never believed it. Normal has it's own (fixed) set of flaws, you know.

I hope you find me!!! Have a nice day sweet lady.

At your service, ma'am...

I am here andd would consider myself good and normal.

"Show me a sane man and I will cure him for you." -- Carl Gustav Jung

I think they are all married, if you find any let me know.

They exist. They are too nice to brag, though. ;)

Usually at universities.

good men? all around - just very VERY scattered. normal? i've yet to meet one

On Mars maybe....

I'm right here and always have been.

whoever can stay in your heart for a long time, are all normal good men

Good and normal are opposing qualities. Most men I've met are lecherous, greedy, and conniving. As for where they're at: Think of where you'd normally go to meet guys. There's about 1 good guy for every 150 "not so good" guy in there. If a guy's going out of his way to meet you, odds are he's got less than honorable intentions. Try the supermarket, dry cleaner, etc., places where people would normally go about their daily activities. And most decent guys, sadly, won't approach you. Take some initiative and you just might find what you're looking for.

It may have a lot to do with what you call normal.

It's not like they all hang out at the exact same place. It's not that there is a good, normal guy's club. You'll find them but how many you see depends solely on your intuition.

They're probably busy trying to weed their way through a field full of Paris and Britney wannabes to get to someone like you. ;)

You could try church?

Where are all the women who would recognize and appreciate a "good, normal man"??

Married.

They are everywhere..and looking for you. Perhaps you should all start looking in the same places:)

Physically, I am in front of my computer...To women, I only show up in their dreams. ;)

Normal men are harder to find and everyone else wants them too. Also, there is the further complication that they have to like you too. Don’t compromise with the stalkers, stay busy, always go to that party that you don’t really feel like going to and, one day, he’ll be there.

you have to choose right to get the good man.... they are every where.. but we don't know how to choose

Off with all the good, normal women? ;-)

Involved in good and normal activities...obviously, where YOU are not.

RIGHT HERE

What do they look like? I think I'm pretty good and pretty normal and pretty ordinary. Like most of my friends.

Are there none left on earth?!

in my pants

were still out there, just go slow.

Gay village.

into my loving arms. ;) Well, my boyfriend is one of them, I mean.

Good question, they certainly aren't in my town! : )

I'm not sure....but if you find them, please send one my way!

Probably right under your nose. You know that guy who always listens when your latest boyfriend turned out to be a jerk? That's the good man. Go ask him out. He's probably the guy that DOESN'T strike up conversation with you in a bar because he's too shy. He might make eye contact with you (and quickly look away because he's just been "busted"), but he'd never just try a line on you or anyone else. Good guys tend to be like that. Just go up and talk to him. You'd make his day. The trouble is, most women don't actually want a good guy. They want a man that looks a certain way, drives a certain car and has a certain income. And that's fine, BUT those are all periferal traits that are not indicitave of whether a guy's any good or not. Finances can change. Character doesn't change so easily. The problem with character, unlike money, looks or status is that it's invisible. You've gotta dig to find it. Most people can't be bothered do the digging, and settle for the surface traits. As a general rule, the guys women notice aren't the good guys. They're just guys who know how to be noticed, and if a guy's spent all his effort on being noticed, he probably hasn't worked on his character. So the good guys are out there. Everywhere, really. You trip over them every day without even knowing that they're there. And you know what? They're probably interested in YOU. :)

I managed to get one so thats one less for you to find lol.

They set forth into the western sunset as cowboys.