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Personality, every time. Real beauty comes from within and anyway, looks fade.
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Personality! Ive dated some hot guys who had the personality of a sign post(didnt last long) There is nothing better than to have someone that is fun, that you can laugh with and have endless conversations with... that comes with personality.
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Personality, hands down. A great personality can turn an average looking person into a great-looking person. Good looks don't mean a thing in someone with a blah personality. Looks fade, anyway, and then, personality is all that's left.
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Personality, every time.
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Personality for sure.Beauty's only skin deep.Ugly goes to the bone.
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personality BY FAR!!
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Personality,but appearance is also important to some extent.At least it must not be awful. :D
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Personality..looks fade, personality is forever :)
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Personality all the way.
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personality.if you have a personality you can create the look.
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Personality. if you have a nice personality then it does not matter how you look.
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I agree 100% with everyone who said personality looks do fad over time but personality never does and it makes what is outside a little more attractive anyway I remember once having a co worker who was very vain ans shallowe who thought looks were where its at ask me why I loved my sweetheat so much and made her into more than what she really was(we met at work) and my answer to him was when I look at her I see things no one who is into looks can that make her all the more beautiful to me we had nearly 3 wonderful years together til I lost her and though I miss her terribly each and every day I have no doubt she is looking down on me watching over me and that she is in a far better place where she doesn't have to suffer anymore
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Personality!!!!!!!!! Looks fade away with time. So especially if you are looking for a life-long partner, focus on the inside, that's whats gonna get you through the happy and the sad times! If someone can support you and makes you laugh, that's all you need! The outside is just the wrapping of whats on the inside, don't judge a book by its covers!
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Personality every time.
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looks. i'm just being rebelious. though, it depends on what they're fighting for. personality doesn't always win, look at all those dumbasses that're on tv.
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Personality.
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Personality- no competition.
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Richard Simmons.
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Personality hands down!!! :)
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Personality by far... You wouldn't even recognize looks anymore when personality was done with it!!
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I'd settle for either! Always looking to improve myself.
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I have both!! and I'm Rich!!!! and I'm married to Morgan Fairchild... yeah, that's the ticket....
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But I have both! I guess the personality will get me further.
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Let's go with looks.
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If I had to choose I would go with looks.Good looks can help overcome a lot of bad personality traits.
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I'd like to try a fantastic personality. I'm pretty good looking now but I'm a real jerk
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Too late - I was blessed with both. ;-)
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I guess you know what my answer would be!!!!!!!!!!!
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Looks fade but a shining fun honest personality is good for a lifetime:-)
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Since I never have been am not now nor will I ever be the worlds idea of good looking I would say the good looks but only on one condition. That my personality doesn't change. If becoming good looking suddenly means I will become an asshole and start to treat people like crap then I will stick with my bad looks and good personality.
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Looks win in the looks competition and personality wins the endurance round.
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Personality wins, all the way. Looks matter very little to me for this reason--there are only so many hours in the day. People have only so much time each day to work on themselves and I have found that most people either work on the inside of themselves or the outside of themselves. People who have it all going on on the outside make me wonder how much time (if any) they spend working on the inside. People who are exceptionally attractive (on the outside) make me uncomfortable to be around because I usually find them shallow, two-dimensional, and self-absorbed. The people I have spent the most time with over the years, including partners, have been average looking (on the outside) at best, but what WONDERFUL people they have been on the inside!
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Personality.
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Personality wins my heart.
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Personality is forever look fade
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Looks..... in the beginning. (Gotta get the attraction going.) Personality in the end, because if the personality isn't good, it's not worth the looks.
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I'm going to go with Tex and say, looks at first to get things going and then personality to keep me interested.
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Personality, looks will eventually fade or someone better looking will come along, but personality has a much longer shelf life.
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Looks matter within the first 2 minutes...........the personality matters a lifetime.
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personality...even in the begginning... you can always tell if someones personality sucks pretty close to the time you meet them
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You need to have a little of both. That's what I believe anyway.
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Isn't that a good question. I uesed to place very high impotance on looks but I've realized the errors of my ways. First and foremost it has to pe pesonality. If she's got looks too that's awesome but what good is a really hot bit-- if you can't stand her guts? I've graduated to level two.
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Looks fade. Personality will last a lifetime. Gotta have an interesting person if you plan to spend the next 20 years with them.
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Personality. Because if you have the looks, then you become proud and no one wants to be proud.
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personaliy by far u cant ever find true love without loving the persons personality
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Personality to me.
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Personality is way more important... after all looks will fade and personality will always remain
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personality by far its the only way u will find true love
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Personality.
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Personality. Everything else has been explained. Looks *kinda* help, but not in the long run.
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Personality, all the time:)
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Definately personality
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personality but the person has to be at least over 5' 3". You shouldnt be concerned with looks but you should have a standard you dont want a guy whos litterally a slob and doesnt care about himself do u
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Personality of course. Inner beauty as against external beauty which is but skin deep only.
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Looksonality. I'd like to say personality, and I'm sure that's what most answers will say, but in real time life, i'll have to go with looks. Come on now, when the lights aren't pointed at you, what is your real answer.....I thought so, and I'm probably one of the only few who really mean personality matters most. Life, she is ironic.
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Personality :)
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personality
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personality
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Personality. Looks fade.
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Personality by far. Looks don't last that long anyway.
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Personality any day....but looks get you there.
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PERSONALITY THEN COME THE LOOKS
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Short term looks long term personality.
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a great personality makes that person look so much better ;)
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good question.It really depends on who you are inside as a person.If your wise you will look beyond a persons "looks" because beauty with age eventually fades away but a great personality coming from a great heart last forever.For me although when i see a cute guy its hard to resist i would have to override it with personality.Example.I had this boy friend and damn he was the finest thing i have ever seen.his smile was charming and could blow you away he even had dimples in his cheeks and even when he made me mad looking at him would make me smile.But the some how his attitude stinked.I found out he was Dog.A terrible person inside who treats woman like they are a juicy slice of pizza on his plate he just devours it and thats they end of that.
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i say looks, then i can adjust her personality
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That's a hard one. I know a woman with one of the nicest personality you could ever meet, but she's cockeyed and had only three teeth left in her mouth and one leg shorter than the other. So there you have it. Take your pick.
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Personality, without a doubt.
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"Looks" wins in the short run but in the long run tis "personality" that lasts.
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Looks I hope.
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Personality's can be sexy ladies, it's true.
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I think both personality and looks are of equal importance. A person's personality will most likely be the main reason why someone would want to spend the rest of their life with him or her. However, looks are also important. I personally would not want to date someone who was absolutely hideous. Then again maybe I'm hideous on the inside for being so judgemental and being pro-superficial beauty. Overall, I think they are both of equal importance; unless you are looking for a short-term relationship, then looks are more important.
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Both together is good. But if you are beautiful or handsome without a great personality for get it. Looks fade with time. Whats inside stays forever. I got both hubby great looks and great personality.
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Looks may get your attention in the beginning but the personality is what keeps your attention. Looks are only skin deep and are not forever but a personality generally doesn't change.
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personality, indeed..
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look is the number of 0,money and ability is the number of 1.if there is no 1 in the front,how much 0 behind behiend is not wnough
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I don't think that it has to be one over the other. I think that it has to be a great combination of both.
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personality.:)
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For me, looks are important, but personality is what makes looks irresistable! :)
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Obviously looks are the first thing to attract me to the person, but if time proves that the personality is lacking, he's history.
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i can't have one without the other, but personality is more important.
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Personality should, but that isn't always the case..
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Both. Looks is a must for me though...I don't mean to be superficial. =(
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DEFINITLY PERSONALITY...BECAUSE A PERSONALITY IS WHAT MAKES A PERSON ATTRACTIVE...PEOPLE WITHOUT A PERSONALITY ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE..PERIOD.
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Do I have to tell the truth? Ok then, personality. But if you ask me, it's personality that matters the most.
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A good looking personality.
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Personality hands down. Cause there going to get ugly some day.
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Personality...it always makes someone more attractive.
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Looks are the thing that immediately draws in the eye to gain the interest of the underlying intellect and then personality. If one wants to look, they can find something that is attractive in just about anyone no matter what state or condition they are in as far as being socially acceptable goes. These are all equally as important as all the others because in the end some act merely as indicators of substance and some as a warning against the lack thereof. The Golden Mean is a carefully vectored mathmatical structure called Symmetry that we all wear on our faces and on our bodies and that is the avenue by which we can navigate and then discover everything else benegth it. On some people... we have to dig a little harder to get a little better, and on some, no matter how much you dig, all you will ever find is the shallow surface attraction.
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Looks is so minor. It's got to be personality. If they have a good heart, make me laugh, generous with others, I can't but be drawn to them
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personality
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clearly it's looks or no one would even know who paris hilton is.
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Personality 100% of the time. Of course looks and personality together are always the best combination. Looks combined with an awful personality is like watching a travel video without any sound. (Awesome scenery, but unbelievably boring.)
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Looks.. I'll get her name later ;-)
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looks help draw people in but your personality is what gets the people to stay:)
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Personality! --Looks are just the cherry on top.
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Personality. We might lust after an extremely good looking person...but if they have no personality, is there really a foundation for a possible relationship?
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both win .. they just win different things :)
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If you don't have looks, people won't even give personality a chance.
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Personality. If a person is extremely attractive, but is a jerk or otherwise unappealing personality-wise, then I don't think I could have a meaniningful relationship with them.
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