ANSWERS: 57
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i don´t have a S/O
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No, but I would buy another guitar. That's ALWAYS better than sex with a stranger.
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Of course. Then we would both be happy. I'd finally be leaving my wife alone, and I'd be getting some attention from someone nice.
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Well, if your SO said it was okay, then your SO, is not really all that "S". Game over, move on. No, I would not.
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Yes, but i'd take them with me
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First I would be offended. What makes my s/o think I want someonelse? Second I would ask myself why someone would permit such a thing. I trust my s/o but if he starts saying these kind of things I would be blind not to see that there is something weird going on.
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TRAP!!
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She would risk becoming an Insignificant Other...
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BEEN THERE - DONE THAT!
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That's the classic "free pass" trap! Don't do it! She is testing you the way girls do!
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Have you ever heard of the word "TRAP"?
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He did and it completely removed my desire to do it, weird, huh?
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My first reaction would be suspicion. . This isn't ever going to happen and if it did I might run like a scared rabbit, but if whe was being so "open" I would much rather have a threesome with her and another woman. . I don't even really know why, but definately an exciting idea. . Then, if she agreed to that, I would know she is trying to kill me because I've already had one heart attack and this would certainaly give me a second!
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No, my s/o would never tell me that.
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why in the world would we seek perfection in that which could never compare? nope.
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I don't really understand the point of being in a relationship if it isn't monogamous. If I want to sleep around I would just stay single(which I am, but not because I want to sleep around :P ) and not commit myself to another person.
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I would go out the door period.
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No. That goes too far.
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Perhaps, but if I found someone else to sleep with I would share her my s/o. Sharing is caring, right? I'm sure he'd enjoy it. :P
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no
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No. +5 High Shaman
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Depends
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Nope, I'm a 1 man woman
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Nope
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No. That would be disrespecting her.
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No, because even with permission, I'd still feel like a cheater. I like being in a monogamous relationship. I'm loyal to him and I expect the same back!
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when my wife realised her labido could not keep up with a turtle she suggested I get a mistress after her first cyberaffair she suggested we take a break so I could get some "sexual conquests" under my belt because she was my only partner and she had had 3 before me. after she ran away with #3 I divorced her. my next wife will be my second and I expect last sexual partner.
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No.
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No. First of all I'm in love with a woman that is disease-free. Who knows what kind of crotch-funk I'd pick up in an affair. Secondly, I can barely afford the woman I have. I'm supposed to add another?? Lastly, I can belch, fart and scratch at will without so much as a raised eyebrow from my good lady wife. I don't think I can hold all that in long enough to score anymore.
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No, I figure at that point she's either already having one and is justifying it by letting me have one or something...regardless of her intentions for saying it, I would assume there was something wrong with the relationship...not much point in even having a relationship if she wants you to cheat.
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That statement would cause me to ponder the future of our relationship.....that s/he would suggest such a thing.
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No....or perhaps yes an affair of some sorts because I'd kick him to the curb with a major pain in his rump.
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Okay, so it's easy to roll out the moral outrage here but that's really too easy isn't it? A couple posters had the courage to say...maybe. I know a very committed loving couple who together looked for and found a woman. The wife had MS and could not engage in sexual congress and she wanted her husband to still enjoy that aspect of life. They found a woman who was friendly, respectful of their commitment and who ended up being a great friend of the family.(No it wasn't me) Would I? Maybe...
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An affair no, however if they suggested a open relationship maybe.
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No, I still wouldn't. I have my values. I am a gentleman first and foremost, and a father who does not turn his back on his two little children who love and respect him.
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No cuz I would think its a trap
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I doubt it.... but it kinda depends on whether she meant just go out & have sex, or go out & have another relationship.
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No! No! Simply wont have the energy for 2 of them!!!!! +
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Not a chance. +5
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No. Sounds to me like an "accident" waiting to happen, if you catch my drift.
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No.. He probably wouldn't mean it and I'm not falling for that. If he did mean it, I'd just tell him that if he doesn't want me to himself he can go take a running jump. Open relationships are just too much stress all round!
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No! Nice try!
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like she told me to jump off a bridge , " RIGHT " !
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I would assume the suggestion was made to facilitate the S/O's entry into a similar affair, perhaps already ongoing. Let's see.. are the people in the affair insignificant, or do they also become S/O's.. and so on and so on..
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No. That would be the beginning of the end.
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no..she may want to go out and have an affair too. +5
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No. That would just open the door for hurt. What I would really want is to know why he would say that.
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Never, That would be going against my principles and values. And I would think he had lost his mind, as well LOL!!
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I would think long and hard why my s/o would say it was ok. Maybe that person was involved with someone and was attempting to ease their guilt. Something sounds weird.....unless they are into cuckhold relationships....and thats a whole other strange issue.
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Hell no, I don't need someone's approval to be or sleep with anyone. But, with that being said.. also I do not believe in cheating. Period. A man is either going to say that to see what you'd do, like testing you; he's having an affair himself, or he plain doesn't care. I'm not with any of those.
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i would break it off w her right after she told me that cause id assume she says its ok cause she had an affair already or wants to
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Marriage vows stick, regardless of what anyone says.
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NO!!
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you would have to be a man to fall for that one :D
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No, I would not. I would break up with them first.
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No, because I love my s/o. and because of that love I would not.
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Which is basically what I told my husband because I knew I likely could not go forever just being with him. Which I think is natural and even human. I know I am not perfect and I don't expect him to be either. So we do see others within the context of being committed to one another.
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doratAbsolutely agree with you. Human beings are not naturally monogamous - though certainly feelings can develop that cause us to want to be. However, generally, even in the most committed relationships, we need the gratification and the emotional affirmation that comes with having sex with other people. My gf and I adore each other - as you hear from me over and over and over (you are very patient) - but speaking for myself, as a man, I need to feel that I am sexually desirable and that there are women who want me. My gf has told me that she thinks that it is natural that she wants to make her body available to men. She says it makes her feel fulfilled to have a man's needs satisfied by her and that it makes her feel good. To be sure, as time has worn on - we have been together for over ten years - we want more and more to just be the two of us. Yet even now I have begun a sexual relationship with another woman - at my gfd's suggestion no less - and it makes me feel good without feeling any diminished love for my gf.
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