Do you think your boyfirend checks out other girls, even though they say they don't?
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my husband checks out other girls right in front of me, he doesnt even try to be discreet about it. Do yourself a favor, and ditch a guy who does this immediately. Youll end up like me, the loving, dedicated wife of a man who doesnt love you and will never be faithful to you.
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Start worrying when he stops.
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I'm sure he does, and I don't care
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If he didn't, either he isn't human or he is just REALLY happy.
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Don't tolerate this behavior, ladies. It's not "normal" or natural, don't let society fool you! "You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' 28But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell."
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I think most men will check out other women. There is a difference between oogling and just looking. I am a woman, and I check out other men. I have always been faithful to my significant other. hint: He is not interested in you if he is using his cell phone a lot when he is out with you. He should have it on vibrate or should leave it at home.
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I don't think he "checks them out" but I do believe he notices attractive girls or as said, 'the ones that bring themselves nicely.' As a man I do think he appreciates the woman physique or look. It can be easy to become jealous or upset but then I try to remember that I myself appreciate the beauty of people.
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I will never deny enjoying the beauty of other women. I believe in honesty... not just with my SO but also with my self. my (soon to be) ex wife insisted I was the only man she wanted to look at. (dispite her crush on gerrard buttler) I admitted being attracted to and looking at lots of women. dispite her financial, emotional, and borderlined physical abuses and sexual neglect (1-3 months between times) I remained faithful to her. she ran away with cyber BF#3 the day she met him 1 week after attempting to seduce me to show me "just how committed to this marriage I am" because she had just relapsed with #2. the only time she ever wanted me was after pissing me off (either from going OCD on my skin for half an hour after asking her to stop of by cybering with someone else) I would not trust another person who denied their attraction to other people and women should not trust that either. someone who lies about that, especially to them selves, is more likely to screw up by not being prepared to resist temptation.
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----------> most all guys do it.........he just looking dont you look at other guys too to is better that he look at girls than guys right
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Most, if not all, guys checks out other girls. That doesn't necessarily mean your boyfriend is going to do something about it. You don't think your boyfriend is checking out the girls on a television show or in a movie? Why don't you stop him from watching tv then? It's all a matter of trust. My s/o sometimes notice another man's handsomeness but I think it's harmless because it's merely an observation. It's not like she's gawking over the guy just as I'm not gawking over the girl. Our relationship is based on trust and being open minded and it's worked for us for many years.
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If my hubby sees a nice girl he will look and tell. I prefer it that way and might even show him one that he didnt see. Same with me and a nice looking guy.
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Heck Yeah! I hate it when he lies about it too. I am like whatever and he is like, I swear you see everything the way you want to...HAHA!
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I am sure my husband of 24 years looks at other women, as do I, and he has never once said he didn't. There is a huge difference between looking and staring at and drooling over another woman. We might be married but we are not dead and can appreciate beauty.
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I don't say I don't because I do but looking and touching are two very separate things. I also don't trip when my woman does the same. I don't own her nor does she own me and if either of us wants to cheat we will. The only reason we don't is because we don't want to and at this point if that changed we'd break up with one another before cheating. +2
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The man is in a relationship. He's not dead. So as long as he looks at the menu but doesn't order anything, that's fine with me.
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He told me he does. And I look at other guys too, and I told him I do. We're happy people, because once we get home, it just makes us all the more hornbag.
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Yes.. he is human after all.
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WHY woulden't he,,,,!! who has the right to tell anyone what they can and can't look at,,,,
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Paaah! He checks them out constantly...but I get a bit concerned when their in their early teens and he's a 35yr old man...It's totally 'normal' for young guys to check out girls...but eventually you would hope it fades a way a bit...And as long as us girls can check out the guys...then it's all good!
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I'm sure he looks at other women, I'd be worried if he didn't.
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Yes, they all do. It doesn't mean he wants them. He's just human and young. Let him breathe or his antics will slide through your fingers and what you fear will happen will come to pass.
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I don't have a boyfriend, but I think men check out other women all the time. It's a deal breaker for me.
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I know that my boyfriend "checks out" other girls, but I wouldn't really call it that. It's natural to appreciate beauty, even if it is human beauty. Not to mention women happen to the more beautiful of the two. ;-) Think about it. There are a lot of people who can all look at a sunset of orange, yellow, purple, and blue hues and say, "Wow, that's beautiful." So why is it that my boyfriend and I can't look at a beautiful woman and say, "Wow, she is beautiful." It's admiration, not lust. In fact, nearly 100% of the time, my boyfriend and I compare our opinions over whether or not that particular woman was actually attractive. Of course, he doesn't want to participate in arguments about men, but he doesn't find men beautiful. ;-)
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Gosh ... I am the guy... You know, we BOTH do it. We do. Enough said.
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Of course, but if you look at a car that doesn't mean you're going to jump into it and ride off. It just means you're looking for the sake of curiosity.
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HELL YEAH every straight guy does trust me i would no im a guy and i do it all the time lol +6
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It all boils down to where we come from, that being primates. Every human has animal instincts, and this just happens to be one of the many infused into us by our ancestors. All guys... ALL NORMAL GUYS i should correct myself, look at other girls when they are with someone. What makes them loyal or not depends on the actions taken after. Women are the same way, so do not think its only one sided. Tons of women will tell you when they are out with their significant other, they will look at other men.
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"The ones that carry themselves nicely" have nothing to do with attractiveness :P thats what people don't get. You could be the ugliest person but if you carry yourself with dignity, self respect, intelligence, then I know I could see why he would notice.
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Men look at women. Women look at men. Heck, most women look at women too. (And I'd bet men look at men - they just don't always admit it!) The point is that it's just a look, a glance, a brief appreciation for what he's seeing. It means nothing. Everyone does it.
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Yeah he does but who cares....i say i dont look at guys but i check them out all the time. the only time it becomes an issues is if there is then interaction like cheating others wise you can look all ya want
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the best way i ever heard it is It's ok to window shop as long as they don't put anything on layaway.
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