ANSWERS: 24
  • On what you write, you're anything but crazy. But if you continue to allow your g/f to fob off your very real and completely valid concerns & questions then you WILL send yourself crazy. Find out what is going on. Your sanity and where you stand matter here. Best regards.
  • Love lorn heart sees nothing believes nothing....u need more proof to confirm your fears!!!
  • It's very much a possibility...especially if she wont let you see her messages. She should have nothing to hide if she's being faithful
  • It sounds like she definitely has something to hide if she will not allow you to look at her phone. Especially after you seen the message about a love triangle. She is taking you for a ride and not a good one. She is not trustworthy. Sounds like time to move on to someone who will appreciate you and not feel the need to hide things from you. I do wish you the best. You seem like a good guy.
  • dump her, if you can't trust her you shouldn't be with her, and if she's not doing anything wrong she would let you look at her phone...
  • I think she is trying to hide something form you. you should talk her clearly if she is cheating on you then it will clear to you.
  • Are you that naive? Of course she's cheating. Now you need to decide if you want to be involved in this "love triangle". You can very quickly make it NOT a love triangle. All ya gotta do is dip out. Then again, you could just play along and get in on some three-way action! LOL! Don't be played, be a player!
  • Yea leave her. She is totally cheating on u!!
  • You shouldn't even be thinking about looking at her phone messages. That's intrusive. You want her looking at yours? If you have found her cheating on you by your intrusive actions, then drop her.
  • red flags all over! if you feel the need to check her phone because you don't feel she is being honest that is a bad sign. she might not be cheating, but you most definitely cannot build or sustain a relationship if trust is not there. i dated a guy who, like your gf, left the cheating text messages on his phone. how stupid would you have to be not to delete them right away???? that is just asking to be caught, in my opinion. also, people are gonna tell you that your actions violated her privacy. well, she coulda password protected her phone if she really didn't want you to look through it. or, if she REALLY didn't want you to look through it she could've been honest with you in the first place. ok, that's my 2 cents. can you tell i'm still a little pissed off about my ex? lol.
  • If she wont let show her messages then shes definately cheating, dont trust her. If i was you i'll give her freedom and start looking for a new gf. Once you found someone new, get over her and dump her.
  • I let my fiance see my text messages but if we are fighting and i tell my friends, I will not let him see them. I would talk to her and tell her how u feel about it. I wish u the best!
  • I once had a girl cheat on me and at first I was upset or at least acted that way because I thought that was how I was suppose to react. I left her for a few days and then realized I wasn't getting any more booty. I came to the conclusion that my need for sex ,at that time, was more important. So I basically got over that junk real quick and hopped back on the booty train. If you're still burning that thing up every night I wouldn't worry too much about it. She may feel a bit guilty now after knowing you found out something and you may be able to request more freakiness in the bedroom as a result.
  • Are you serious? Dump her now! She's a sl*t! There are plenty of sl*ts around. Or you can wise up and limit your search to a nice girl who can obey when you ask for something.
  • you know, a common mistake people make in relationships is they act as if they have no other choice than to accept what their mate tells them or be placated with a situation that suits the mate but not themselves. Relationships are a two way street. One does not have to need proof of cheating to feel like one is cheating on them..and to be honest, in your mind the feeling is practically the same. IF you are really concerned about this, don't accept her lame excuse as an answer. Get to the bottom of it, if she didn't do anything wrong then she should have no problem explaining what it is about. If she loves you then she should understand that if the shoes were on the other feet, wouldn't she be a bit concerned to see something like that? I have no idea, only guessing here, but it sounds to me like she is cheating or at least playing around behind your back..or maybe she attempted to and it fell through and now she's just covering her tracks. Regardless of whether she is guilty or not, you do not have to accept a lame answer..a relationship takes two and if she is not willing to calm your worries she obviously doesn't care and isn't concerned with how this makes you feel. In the end, it doesn't matter if she cheated or not, if she leads you to believe she might be, it is a crack of mistrust in the relationship that will only grow larger if this goes unsettled. Confront her about it, explain why it bothers you and if she doesn't care enough to soothe your worries, then maybe she's not worth you.
  • Obviously mate, wake up.
  • In my opinion, I don't really care if my boyfriend looks through my phone, basically because I have nothing to hide. It sounds like to me she is hiding something, so if I were you I would probably get out.. But talk to her about it more, this "love triangle" sounds more than suspicious to me.
  • Crazy? No. A little slow is all.
  • All i can say on this one is be careful!
  • wow, yeah, definitely worry... There is obviously something she doesnt want you to know otherwise there would be no defense as to why you cant look at her messages. I might be showing my true colors, but I have been there and done that to someone, and yes I was hiding something. Sorry...
  • I let my boyfriend look through my phone all the time.....thats because i have nothing to hide. I would look more into this if i was you.
  • She is doing something behind your back. Don't trust this woman. She is playing you son and you are very naive to even ask.
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  • shes probably hiding something if she wont let you look at it

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