ANSWERS: 66
  • not really, if people want to judge me then that's their loss.
  • Fork em!!
  • Yes I do because I hate it when people ignore me
  • Whether or not they like me is up to them but, like me or not, I do care whether or not they see me as trustworthy and honest.
  • no. I don't owe them an explanation or I don't even feel the need to please them when i have other people easily pleased with me. so it really doesn't matter.
  • I do care but what can I do about it if people don't like me without a reason.
  • Nope- if they have an issue that's there problem. They're more than welcome to take it up with me. Just don't talk about me behind my back. That's one of the things that pisses me off the most.
  • Nope. "It ain't what they call you, it's what you answer to." ~W.C. Fields
  • You'll never please everybody so why try?
  • I can't make everyone love me,neither I've any wish to impress every bystander.I've my life going in my ways and I prefer people not putting their d*cks in my business until and unless they are asked for. . In a nutshell,it makes me no difference.
  • I care.
  • Nope. Gave up on that a long time ago. It became to much work and worry for my life.
  • Well, I just don't deal with these people. I am who I am and you don't like me stay away from me. I know I am a good person. If one doesn't like me it's called L I F E. Nothing I can do. LOL We are not talking about husband or children, right?
  • Yes I do, but there is nothing I can do to change anyone's opinion other than just be myself. If they don't like it, then that's too bad for both of us. I don't get to know them better, either.
  • ..well ya know...there are enough people on this planet that do like me and they are the ones I care about as well so I don't sweat it...
  • No not at all
  • yep, i care way too much
  • Sure I do! I mean let's get honest, on some level we all do. Whether we know them or not, or know the reason why. It is our subjective nature. To say that we don't, who cares, it doesn't matter what people think, is where we objectively arrive or should. Ultimately it comes down to this.. Other people's opinions of us, our behavior are just that.. opinions not laws of the land. Most of the time they are not even opinions because they don't know us at all! If you like what you see when you look in the mirror and aren't doing harm to others... Hell Blow it off!
  • depends on the person. if its someone i dont know well ~ i dont really care. i have nothing invested. theyve judged me before even getting to know me. their loss. some people have serious hangups, and theres not much i can do to change that. you cant please everyone. i realized in kindergarten that not everyone is going to like everyone else. thats humanity 101. you can be try to be on friendly terms with everyone, but not everyone is going to feel a strong connection or affinity towards you. i do care if they act rude or hostile towards me ~ what the hell is their problem? frankly, i dont know anyone who enjoys hostility from others. no one should be treated like that. if i can help them, i do. i try to help them see the pointlessness of their hostility. i give them the benefit of the doubt if i can ~ maybe theyre going through something really rough in their life, and theyre just not dealing very well and their anger is spilling over to others. sometimes they wake up when i call them on their crap. but if theyre hopelessly angry or hateful sorts, i give them wide berth. i also make a conscious effort not to feel bad about it and internalize their hatred. thats their problem. if its a friend and ive done something to upset them, i care very much. i want to be on good terms with all my friends. if theyre upset for a valid reason, i want to know so i can make amends.
  • Only if they are someone worth the energy.
  • Nope. Not a thing that concerns me at all
  • Sometimes I do and somethimes I don't. It really depends on how much respect I have for the person who dislikes me. If it is someone I deem intellectual and bright or in some way relevent to something... then of course it bothers me. We base and build our own self worth on the collection of input we get from others throughout our lives. Nothing is the truth until the moment we believe it is. People we care about have that power
  • I dont really care one way or another. But most people do like me. Instantly...its my charm. My personality...I get inside your head and Im all people can think about.....
  • Reality check - not everyone is going to like me, no matter what I do or how hard I try....... Does it matter if people don't like me? In the grand scheme of things No - I have my own little comfortable bubble with my family and friends (people I know like me) People who dont like me have every right to their opinion - I just think it's wrong :) (poor sods)
  • I don't give a fraction of a percent of a partial f*ck
  • Terribly. I'd make a terrible punk... I'm a collective kinda guy - these 10 fingers can only do so much on their own, so it gets me down when people I work together with (read: the rest of the world) find some reason not to like me. Mind you, it doesn't happen often I find someone who can't like ME! I once made friends with the bouncer that threw me out of a bar.
  • not really. i'm a good person so its their lose for judging someone like me.
  • No, not a bit. I don't let people get close enough to really know me, so if they don't like me they're prejudging me and are definitely not worth my time.
  • Yes I do and would like to know why.
  • I get along with almost everyone I meet. If I don't get along w/ someone then there must be some problem with them so no? However, if their opinion matters to me, then yes I care.
  • +5 I do not care. I am : Karen Ann Defender of Truth Justice and the American Way. . .. ... .... Those who are against these things will never like me,it can be lonely being the Defender but someone has to do it
  • No, that's their problem.
  • not in the slitest
  • I prefer to be liked, but respect is more important.
  • Never cared for things they say Never cared for games they play I'd never cared for what they do I'd never cared for what they know And I know....Yeah! "Guitar solo"
  • Yes......because I like getting a million Xmas cards every year.
  • I just know I got to give them more love.Just got a message from student who wrote that her mother hates me and wrote back that it is expected and that she should love her more for that!
  • Of-course i do.....so i don't like them too. TIT FOR TAT:-)
  • I know I shouldn't but I do care a bit because I would really like to know why.
  • Yes, I should care If my personal friends like me, It's always great to have some friends that care so you can use them for a personal favor when I need them!
  • No .. Opinions are like a*sholes ... But the only one that matters is mine.
  • Yes...but you get over it.
  • No, only the important ones in my life...:)
  • Even if I do, what am I gonna do about it? I don't care enough to change for a single person.
  • depends on who they are and what i've done. otherwise no
  • Don't give a damn
  • sadly, sometimes I do...............
  • Nope. Here are a couple of quotes that describe how I feel: "If you don't like me, there is nothing I can do. NEWSFLASH BITCH: I don't live to please you." "You have enemies? Good. That means you've stood up for something, sometime in your life." - Winston Churchill
  • No I dont care if people like me. If they do they are in for knowing one heck of a fun person if not, it's their loss.
  • Only if they throw rocks at me. Then I care enough to throw a few back.
  • when i was younger i wanted everyone to like me.. but as i grew up i realize no matter what u do, if a person doesn't like u nothing can change how they feel. so now i just think u can plz everyone..and if they don't like me then its there loss and not mine.
  • Not really. I am more of the type of person that if you don't like me I really am not going to waste my time worrying about it. A lot of people do like me, so a few people that don't. their loss.
  • For the most part, no. Of course I there are some I would prefer like me, my family and all :-) But strangers? Nope. +5
  • I'd prefer that they like me instead of dislike me. But I really don't care. They don't know me that well or they would see that I am a great friend!!! +5
  • I do to a certain extent. Although I also recognise that I am very much like Marmite (You either love me or hate me). So I don't dwell if people seem to dislike me. Chances are, I don't like them very much either.
  • I could care less if they like me. I have few friends and those that I call friend I do so with much respect and pride.
  • Yes, it's nice to be liked. I'm not going to change who I am to try to make people like me though. They have to like me as is.
  • No not really, as long as there dislike does not effect me in any way shape or form which it should not .. ~Nemo~
  • No, no one like me anyway..and I don't care if they do are not.
  • Never...who cares what other people think...you know...where Im growing up alot of people are friends but alot of them will talk shit on you I hated it...I see that as wrong,it makes me mad...so I stopes communicating with them all expect two of them which I talk to sometimes..those people I can truely say wil never talk shit or Juge me in wrong intentions...those are my best friends...
  • Not really but If they don't I assume somethings wrong with them.
  • Ya sometimes it bothers me
  • NO, ABSOLUTELY NOT.
  • If I like the person then I will care, and if I don't, I would not. 😒😒😒😒😒😒
  • Yes, I am supposed to be an example and a reflection of my beliefs. It's not good if people don't like me.

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