Do you believe in sending breakup cards?
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I believe in ease. So yeah, sure.
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Only if one is such a despicable, gutless coward that they cannot break up in person.
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No, I think a break up must happen person to person. Sending a card afterwards about good things could reinforce the friendship, but shouldn't be used to actually break up.
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Sounds like a sad thing to do!
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NO!! That's just as bad as putting a post-it on their refrigerator & sneaking out the back door. COLD.
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No, that's a new concept
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No, its a way of avoiding people. Things like break ups is something you need to do yourself. Every person regardless of how louzy they may be deserves the respect of being told/confronted of personal issues instead of being shunned and given some dumb card. When feelings like those are involved, you need to say what it is you need to say to them. If you think you can't remember what you're gonna say then make notes.
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I never gave a break up card or letter to my ex when we broke up, the idea wud have never even occured to me, but then a couple of months later his 2 best friends and broke up with their girlfriends (not at the same time btw) and the girlfriends gave them both break up cards!!! i felt bad a bout not doing it then so when i was really drunk i wrote his a really funny one on the back of a pizza box, it and 2 sentences long and went down really well, we wernt talking at the time but now we get on better!!!
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no
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no. do it in person.
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when i packed up my ex's things i wrote him a letter. sometimes there are some things you dont want to leave unsaid. so if you need to let it out, get it out. just make sure its used for closure and that ur not writing it in trying to hold on. not only that but it was really nice for his sisters to send me cards after we broke up because it was really sad to say goodbye to them. so it may be more appropriate to send to the family or a friend to check up on them after a bad break up.
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god no thats just rubbing it in LOL, x x x Are these actually real??? Id send someone i disliked one, LOL, like one of my partners friends just to be a BITCH! LOL x x x
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No, in person or over the phone, no texting or emails... and the phone I think is pretty weak.
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NO, would it be O.K. for someone to send you a breakup card? If you can't see them in person, then call them.
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no you should talk to them not be like wow send them a card that would be stupid beyond all reason
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No way... that is probably the lamest thing I have ever heard. Who is going to be such a punk to send a break up card?? If you can't do the dirty work face to face then you shouldn't be dating someone.
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Better than a break up post it note.
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much better than a text. much much better. But I say be a man or woman and do it in person. there are exceptions.. you may be shot or beat up if you did it in person. in that case, JUST GET THE HECK OUT OF THERE AND DON'T LOOK BACK!!!
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I think I would find a Break-Up card even more heart wrenching! A constant, sappy reminder of what could have been but never will be.
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NO; we already have too many CARDS for just about everything including too much gas ... A Personal telephone call or visit wouldn't hurt though .
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No, not cards but some sort of closure if it's not obvious why I thought it necessary to split....or if there were things said that were said in anger. I'm likely very emotional and it's not a good idea for me to address the other party immediately if I'm being sincer with a card or in person.
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No, who wants a card like that?
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I wouldn't send a breakup card, but I would send a letter. I am much better at expressing how I feel than coming up with it on the top of my head verbally. However, if the person was the possessive abusive type, I wouldn't send them anything because they could try to find me that way.
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NO! I tend to give rather stern lectures to those that do, too.
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I wouldn't break up with a person via card, but if there were things I wanted to say after a break up (important, heartfelt things; not some petty gripe) I would write a card. I don't think it's cheesy. I'd love to get one of these sometime.
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