ANSWERS: 32
  • You left out the key word before men. rich
  • may be exact same type of man are the people who makes lots of money so that women can go on shopping spree.
  • selfish cause the women like to be wanted, but idk why they would like rude men. my say would be that they don't...?
  • If they do they are stupid
  • Well...at first its intriguing....like the "Bad boy"..."Hes his own man"...but soon women find when they want to settle down these men wont do...or ever could....Then they learn to respect the kind gentle nice guy...so if it wasnt for those...assholes...women wouldnt be able to appriciate the good guys when one comes along.
  • ok bring on the dr's no doubt BUT.... Have you ever thought that we dont actually aim for that type? its just the majority (not all some are very VERY nice) ARE rude and selfish so we dont get much choice
  • women like to "save men" its the same motherly role that we all seem to play without even trying. I go for bad boys, because i am always in denile thinking that i can help this man better his life... which doesnt always work. but when i date a man, thats the mind set i have.
  • SOME few, immature women like "rude, selfish men" because they mistake arrogance for confidence. They tend to get over it after having been walked on for a few years.
  • because while they know what they want they do not want what they know
  • I certainly would never have anything to do with a rude and selfish man.
  • Because at first it's fun and if they make it too easy you lose interest. But, eventually they get sick of them.
  • They don't.
  • LoL. do they?? I have to change then! No seriously, they're just falling for them. it like setting a bear trap. you put a trap on the ground and some meet on a stick and the bear figures it smells good from far away and "whack". same with women. they don't understand us men and don't really know what to look for. Some are lucky some ain't.
  • I think its a combination of things. First of all, being rude and selfish unfortunately is often a way of getting what you want. Women want a confident man who knows what he wants and will go out and get it. Like they say nice guys finish last, because being nice often times gets you stepped on. You have to be an a-hole sometimes to get your way. So i believe women are attracted to the confidence of these men and the ability to get what they want. Secondly, most guys will not show theirself to be rude and selfish at first. These traits only come out after time. All guys want to make a good impression so they might be charismatic and caring at first and then as time goes on and they feel more comfortable and feel like they already won the woman over, they will show their true colors and it will only get worse as time goes on. Sad thing is the woman often times will not even care until those behaviors are aimed at her. Then it turns into "Oh my God, why did I ever hook up with this guy?" And also, like someone else mentioned, there is this mentality of being able to change someone for the better. Men and women often times overlook negative aspects when looking for a mate thinking that they will be able to fix that part of the person and ultimately turn them into their ideal partner. That idea is just stupid to me. You can't change someone unless they want to change. This is not a pet that you can train. Its always funny to me how women say they want the "bad boy". yeah, until he gives you a black eye or cheats on you or drives you crazy. If you say you want a "bad boy" then its your fault when you realize he's really just a d*ck.
  • As a woman I can safely say these men are not for me at all, I need a man on my side that is loving, kind and giving, that is a man to me
  • Do they?
  • so finally we agree. geat.
  • They don't people just turn out to be that way :D
  • Low self-esteem. I used to be one of 'em! I guess I got lucky.
  • They do not,you silly goose!At least this one doesn't ;)
  • We like that tasty bit of mischief and rebellion, we eat that up! Maybe we also know the rude and selfish one will stick up for himself and you and enjoy a lil clingy company. That isn't to say all women prefer these fellas'.
  • I will never understand. On one hand they say they want men with good personalities, but they turn away the good ones and settle for the assholes. Someone answer this question for my sake as well, preferably a woman.
  • Because most women are self centered b*tches. Or as my mother puts it, "birds of a feather flock together"
  • they know how to deal with these people.
  • Sometimes rude and selfish initially comes off as confidence, and thats one thing alot of girls look for. Typically the quiet shy kids are the kind selfless men, but they aren't always the type to initiate random conversation.
  • You may think a man is selfish and rude, but that doesn't mean that the woman you are thinking of does. Maybe she thinks he's the nicest person in the world.
  • since when
  • well everyone is different but i know i get walked on by other guys cause i am the shy one that take time to build up confidence and go for it and in the end i just want a girl to love lol yea i am sappy but i hope you are all right it gives me hope :)
  • soryy i dont agree.all reserches tell us that women like sensitive men.if they found that her husband help others than she has more trust n love him.5
  • I don't...i can't stand arrogance.
  • Yeah I don't like rude, arrogant men. If they are gonna be rude to me, I am sure gonna get pissed and be rude to them. I like intelligent men who are the kinds and sensitive type, as cliche as it may be.
  • i don't.

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