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  • yes i m a sensitive man.i want to be kind for others.5
  • It's probably not a bad thing, as long as you don't obsess over it. This is definitely one of my shortcomings.
  • Not if you are me :)
  • nope as long as you know the truth about yourself everyone shouldnt matter
  • Inless your going for a Job interview then no... people are always gonna think what they want to think about you....and most of the time its just not gonna really matter. Your who you are No matter what anybody thinks, so who really cares. If people always spent there time caring about what people think of them then everybody would always go so nuts!!!!
  • Well no, not really. Unless they choose to act in any way toward me upon those thoughts.
  • I have devoted my life to acting in a manner that would/should bring about a favorable opinion of me. So, yes, I care about others' opinions of me. If, on that rare occasion, one's opinion should happen to be negative, however, I know that I did not form same intentionally, and will attempt to resolve the misunderstanding. But if unsuccessful, I WILL move on and not allow it to keep me awake at night. In other words, I'm a good guy, and would intentionally hurt no one.
  • Fudge no, why do I care?
  • Yes, but it's insanely easy to care too much.
  • Think about it? sure, thats normal. Care about it, ok, that's natural. Let it change your core beliefs? No way.
  • No, because it can drive you to the crazy house.
  • There are people who love me. There are people who hate me. There are people who are okay with me. There are people who like me. There are people who dislike me. There are people who think I'm a bitch. There are people who think I'm annoying. There are people who think I am weird. There are people who think I am a good friend. There are people who think I am a bad friend. There are people who think I talk too much. There are people who think I talk too little. There are people who probably wish I was dead. In the end, it doesn't matter what people think of me. It matters who I am. 'Nough said.
  • you should take into consideration what some people say about you but only use it to develop from the criticism, dont focus on the negative, especially if it does nothing to help you, just make sure to stay who you truly are
  • No, as long as you conduct your life to reflect your own principles and beliefs.
  • Yes because you want to make a good impression. But not to the extent that you are obsessed about it. It all comes down to this: we are human. We were born, we all put on and take off our pants the same way, and we all will die. Just live.
  • I AM UNIQUE SO I DON'T REALLY CARE TO MUCH WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF ME. I KNOW WHO I AM.
  • Sometimes, because there are real life consequences to what people think about you. If someone for example, especially a cop, thinks I'm a criminal for example and I'm not, obviously I should care about that. If my boss "thinks" I'm a slacker, whether I am or not, I may not get the raise or promotion. Who knows where you might end up right or wrong with those people thinking those "thoughts". Still, to a certain extent it's outside of your hands and it's best not to worry about it too much. But other people's thoughts about you are by no means always harmless when acted upon....
  • Yes, you should think about it, but not obsess other it. Everything in moderation.
  • I shouldnt care quite so much, but I do. It's a work in progress ~ I'm starting not to care so much, but it's hard work changing something you've been doing for so long. Even here, I'll start answering a question, then think again and close the window before posting .. but I'm getting better lol
  • I use to but then discovered that I was happier as long as I just thought of what God thinks of me and nobody else.
  • I can't if I want to sleep.
  • Yes - so much in life depends on the first impression you make and your reputation. Also, if you are interested in continuous improvement, knowing what people think of you can be good feedback even if only on how you are presenting yourself to the world. But don't obsess about it because you're can't please everybody and even if people get the wrong impression of you in the beginning once they get to know you they will usually see the real you. If they don't - stuff 'em. ;)
  • no, but yet we all do.
  • We might think about it with people who are close to us .. but we can't dwell on it. There's no way everyone will like us so we might as well just be true to ourselves and it will all work out.
  • I dont care really . to what other people think of me , other than the one " Who really care for me and love me " as they will always think good for me :)
  • Ha ha! NO! I don't give a rat's ass what anybody thinks of me. I've got better things to do with my time
  • I reckon we all do but shouldn't!
  • Nope. You're you. You liking yourself thats all that matters. Once you have that the rest will fall into place. No ones opinion matters in regards to you but your own.
  • It probably wouln't be a bad idea. ;+
  • When I care about somebody, I do think about what they think of me. However, a passerby whom I have absolutely no connection with, I do not think twice.
  • Just ignore that haters and live your life. Put no stock in what people say. Instead invest all of your money in yourself. The stock of yourself pays a much higher dividend, and will make you a lot happier than if you put stock in other people's word.
  • For me important is only what people close to me think about me, my family my friends. I have enought respect to myself to not waste time on thinkg about what everyone else think.
  • just my family and mates, everyone else can fuck off if they think they can judge me. :p I know that most people see me as the slightly crazy but up for a laugh person, others just get scared cos they don't understand me, I don't lose any sleep over it.
  • I couldn't care less what people think of me. I have never had any ill effects from this standpoint, and I would recommend it to anyone.
  • Depends on how insecure you are with yourself. Do i care"NO" but depneding on the person. Care about yourself and the people you love...everyone else is not important.
  • i do'nt think about what people think of me.i do'nt play to gallery.however my action may make me look good to people.
  • Realistically, we should factor how others react to us into our thinking, but only as a check on making our own decisions. A few years back, David Riesman wrote a book called "The Lonely Crowd." One of the points he makes in the book is that most people are either "inner directed" ( making their own decisions based on some set of criteria or values ), or "other direced" ( making decisions based upon what feedback they get from others ). It may be that this is another area where we are genetically programmed, to an extent, and have no real say in the process ... but I doubt it.
  • Nope, why please other people and not yourself... If you worry about what other people think about you than you don’t live your life the way you want, and you will end up not being happy. So don’t worry about what other people think and do what makes you happy. Life is short!!!! So don’t worry about what other people think and do what makes you happy... Life is short!!!!

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