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  • That depends on the women. Like men, different women have different preferences. Some don't even look for men atall!
  • She can't take life too serious and has a sense of humor. Doesn't buy in to the drama of everyday life. Cares about people in general, especially me. Has self confidence but isn't arrogant. Has goals for her life but isn't uptight or stressed out about it. And of course attractive to me (and me to her).
  • He is trustworthy and willing and able to meet my emotional needs.
  • HONESTY....
  • Honest, Open in discussion, Caring, Trustworthy, Funny, and of course has to know how to have a good time :)
  • Honesty , Integrity, Loyalty, A loving caring heart and a Great sense of humour
  • arrogance is the biggest turn off, but at the same time, a guy who is stupidly shy is no fun to be around. I like a guy who's intellegent enough to hold a good conversation, although i like to pretend it's sexist, i quite like good old fashioned romance and charming lol. I like a guy to feel comfortable around me, and respect me, but also, that i feel want's me, both in presence, but physically (I want to feel attractive). A sense of humour is important, but knowing not to take it too far. Ambition is important, when you stop having ideas about the future, it's a downhill spiral from there. I think physical looks do matter, but i could never be attracted to someone who doesn't sort of match up to the above (not that i'm fussy or anything!)
  • His seed?
  • We dont all look for the same things. I want someone who will listen to me, someone who cares about me and themselves. I am very easy to please so I dont ask for or expect much from a man.
  • i aint no woman but i'd say it varies with each woman
  • Most women I know, and that includes myself, love a man who makes them laugh.
  • They have to be attractive (not in general but just to the particular woman you wanna date), honest, fidelity, sense of humor, ambition, understanding..etc.
  • Modest Good sense of humor Intelligent Good taste in music Able to accept personal responsibility Among other physical qualities :).
  • Self confidence.... hands down.
  • in order: money, looks, personality
  • A good person...
  • personality. if they are passionate, funny, and kind.
  • Your Q is a little confusing, but I'll answer it from THIS man's perspective of what I look for in a lady. From THIS more mature, monogamous man's view point, this is what I lookED for in a lady when I was younger: Of course, looks MUST come into play. If the lady wasn't attractive, I simply didn't even say, "Hi". When she was pretty, attractive or beautiful (not necessarily "sexy"), I would say "Hi" and strike-up a conversation. If there was any "chemistry", perhaps we went out for lunch, dinner or to a friend's party or get-together. The lady HAD to have a personality. Being pretty just wasn't enough for me. Then it was one step at a time. I stayed devoted to that lady. I never cheated or had the thought cross my mind to go out or ask any other lady to go out with me. As I matured, looks STILL played an important role. I LIKE "a pretty package". When I discovered the lady was married or separated, "Discretion was the better part of valor". I stayed away. If the lady was single, widowed or divorced - AND had a personality - that was OUR "green light" to proceed one step at a time. I stayed devoted to that lady. I never cheated or had the thought cross my mind to go out or ask any other lady to go out with me. NOW I'm a much more mature (61 years young) man. I STILL like "the pretty package" - "beauty IS in the eyes of THIS beholder". Personality STILL counts! The difference is I prefer ladies about 5 years younger than I am to about 7 years more mature ("older") than me. The lady MUST BE single, divorced or widowed. It's OK if she has children or grandchildren. I understand that. BUT I DON'T like the children living at home with her - dictating what Mom or "Gran'mom" (That's the way I pronounce it) can do or cannot do. This is OUR relationship. OUR relationship is NOT a threesome, which includes any interference from any child, children or grandchildren. I'll stay devoted to that lady. I'll never cheat or have any thought cross my mind to go out or ask any other lady to go out with me. BUT that's from my perspective and who and what I'm looking for! Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it! VTY, Ron Berue Yes, that is my real last name! Sources: Because you asked. Some personal observations and opinions. "THE University of Hard Knocks" also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons" P.S. Hi Nanu! Welcome to AnswerBag! This IS THE BEST Q&A site on the web! You get points for your Qs. Without taking anything away from you or your rating, you are expected to give points for our answers. All you have to do is click your mouse on "+" sign or "-" sign above the "Rate Answer". I HOPE you enjoy your time on AB. By the way, when there are times when you might be a little bored or you want a change of pace, PLEASE visit the "Sillyville Club". Simply type s-i-l-l-y-v-i-l-l-e in the box next to the blue "GO" button. Click on the "GO" button and you'll be in Sillyville! Very Truly Yours, Ron "THE Official Spokesman of Sillyville"
  • Honesty, respect, intelligence, humour, kindness, warmth, understanding, passion, sensitivity, patience, generosity, empathy, strength of conviction, i could go on! They are the things i look for but i fear i expect too much.
  • Warmth, a sense of humour, open, honest,a lateral thinker, curious about the world, caring about other people, can cook, good in bed. In that order.
  • I believe different women look for different things in a man--but the basics for all would probably be fidelity, honesty and commitment.
  • money honey
  • Just make me happy cause if im happy so will you be if you know what i mean...
  • I want a man who is handsome and treats me well, but doesn't just give into whatever I say. I want a man who knows what he wants out of life and pursues it with all his heart. I want a man who when I look into his eyes I see the love he has for me and I know that it will never die. I want a man who will surprise me with a dozen roses, just because. I want a man who accepts me the way I am and thinks I'm beautiful even when I'm not wearing make-up and my hair's all a mess. I want a man who will wait for me by his car for half-an-hour after the time I was supposed to meet him because I didn't like my outfit, and then tell me I look gorgeous. I want a man who's not afraid to stick up for himself, or for me, but does not go around throwing punches for no reason. I want a man who will show me off to his friends while wearing his t-shirt. I want a man who wants to be with me forever and tells me so, often. I want a man who wants to have kids with me and has already has started thinking about names. I want a man who voices his opinions and is up-to-date on current events and does not mind talking with me about them. I want a man who is never bored with me and constantly finds new things to do. I want a man who has a life outside of me, but that outside life should not deter him from spending time with me. I want a man who gets jealous when i talk about other men, but not so much that he'll limit my freedom. I want a man who can tease me out of my bad mood when I'm upset. I want a man who is my best friend. I know that this is a very tall order and that no guy can ever be perfect but I want a man who tries to be my perfect man, even if he slips up, a lot!
  • money of course!
  • Dependable, smart, good looking
  • good sense of humor, well groomed , good job, and polite, and looks helps out, but not on the top of the list
  • great sense of humour, laid back, kind heart.
  • cares about how i feel, not abusive, polite, Good job, and doesn't care about how i look.
  • Honesty.
  • Everyone has different preferences of course, but we all have the same general likes. Generally good looking, funny, rather popular or well liked, (We all like what we can't get.) warm, nice. Your first impression is everything. If your rude to her or very abrupt, then she'll automatically see you as a dud. For example, she asks you for a pencil, and you say no, or simply hand her one without looking at her, then it doesn't say much about you. It just says your not very interested in talking to her or any conversation, and are rude. A better response would either be looking in her eyes, smiling and handing her a pencil, maybe saying "Here you go." or saying "Sorry, I don't have one." but making eye contact all the while. It's nice when a guy makes eye contact with me, it makes me feel important, like I'm worth talking to, I'm worth his time. A smile always helps too! Nice, but not too clingy, because we like a challenge in finding our men. If no ones going for you, but your clinging to one girl, putting I-really-really-like-you-alot! all over you, then she doesn't see you as hard to get, and there's no sense of "Hurray! I snagged you even though 10 other girls wanted you too!" about it. Make sure if your funny, open and kind to her, your funny, open, and kind to everyone else too. Maybe pay a little extra attention to her, but not too much, just enough to get her attention. Don't start cracking jokes about her, like teasing and what-not, until you and her are good friends, or be annoying, constantly pulling her hair, shoving her, poking her, to get her attention. Only good friends do that, and if you do it too early, it makes you seem either too clingy or just out-right annoying, and they won't want to be around you. Look at the guys who are constantly on the run with some girl. Take tips from them, think about what they do. Try that. Be honest, nice, funny, dangerous, open, have a certain number of things you do (sports, activites, etc.), nice style, generally good looking (this does not always apply), and not too clingy or needy, and never too protective. ("Don't talk to him, or him. Why would you do that with HIM?", etc.) Follow these and you should at least be started.
  • Honesty. Woman honestly look for honesty in a man.
  • honesty, respect, compassion,dependable, a sense of humor, and someone who is responsible.
  • Lots and lots and lots of money. They need daddies to take care of them. Don't believe anything else.
  • What they claim: Honesty etc. What really matters: Money.
  • Good Looks, Nice dick and Great in bed!!!
  • Honesty...That's a lie.
  • 5 pound dick. lol
  • Only a handful of men in history has ever had it. That's why they keep looking.
  • confidence, and a guy who dose what he wants, fathering skills
  • Hot and sexy women who think they're God's gift and their sh*t don't stink look for $ MONEY $. Down to earth and sweet, loving women look for gentlemen that they spend quality time with and get to know and grow to love.
  • Integrity, self-confidence and maturity.

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