I'd be upset. Was it only the one time though? Has she done this before? Does she intend to again?

I don't think I'd be cool with this unless it was for a bachlorette party or something.

Sounds pretty upsetting to me, of course, I also have to wonder if you do things like that or if this kind of behavior was part of her lifestyle before you married and how long you have been married and so on. But generally speaking, I would say that's pretty upsetting behavior and probably doesn't do much to build and maintain a strong, healthy, happy marriage.

Did you know she was going to a stripclub, wearing no panties and a short skirt? It was a lapdance, not sex, girls arent supposed to get mad, when a guy gets one. I dont know how anyone can tell you to be mad or not, that is your choice.

Why were the male stippers wearing short skirts, no underwear and pantyhose?

ewwwwww I hope it's only happen once in her life time. That's terrible. Why you let her go, wait a minute, she did not wear underwear ? or the male stripper ?. If she did not... ouuuccccchhhhh that's worst.

hey she came home didn't she? get over it.

Going to see Strippers= ok as long as you knew about it. Getting drunk= ok as long as you knew she would be drinking(which since she was going to a strip club, you should have known) and had a designated driver to get her home. The part that would bother me is the no panties in a short skirt. I understand a girl wanting to look good when going out with friends (I'm assuming she was with friends and not flying solo)so Im cool with the skirt. but potentially flashing the Vag in public when your in a committed relationship is not what I'd call acceptable behavior for my wife. I guess if she always goes commando while wearing pantyhose that makes a difference....

I think you should dump her for wearing pantyhose without panties. That's just ew.

did she leave the house without underwear?? going commando under pantyhose doesn't sound comfortable...

I wouldn't be mad. She came home and she could have never came back or something. If she choose not to wear underwear she choose not to you can't be mad at her for that. Women deserve their times out like us guys do time to time. Just be happy she had a good time and you guys have a good time soon or something!

She likes cross-dressing male strippers? You got yourself a freak, my friend!!!

Male strippers are gay...so I wouldn't be mad.

Be mad if you want, or don't be mad if you don't want to. It's your marriage and your wife. If you're mad about it, talk to her about it. Don't ask random strangers on AB about something that should be taken seriously such as your marriage.

what male strippers? where? lol. gross. she wore no panties in a mini-skirt, that is good reason to be mad. but i dont think she did anything. she was with friends right? ask them what happened, but be sly about it, so they dont pick up on your freaking-out. ask yourself this: how would your wife feel if you came home drunk after seeing a female wearing guy clothes stripper who gave you a lap dance and you had no underwear on because you didn't wear any under your shorts?

It really does depend on u i think that u maybe feeling a little mad, if u r then u should talk to her and tell her ur not happy about it that u dont want to be controlling but at the same time she should respect ur feeling. i dont think u should be mad at the end of the night she came home back to u and told u about it therefore in my opition all it was, was a little fun a way to let of steam, However it bothers u it must do for watever reason so tell her talk to her.

You should be happy. She just gave you a free pass to go see female strippers.

Yes, I remember her...

she probably sucked their cocks

not if she came home happy and wanted you to mess with her to so enjoy it can be fun

No, it is not any different than us guys going and having a lap dance at a strip club. Does she not wear any underwear often? +4

I recently look my wife to a strip club for her birthday and gave her permission to do whatever she wanted with the strippers there. Why not? Isn't life supposed to be fun from time to time. I watched her enjoy herself. More men and women should do the same for their partners.

By her coming home and letting you know she had a great time tells me one of two things - she A) feels comfortable enough to let you know what kind of time she had and B) she isn't a tramp because she came home to you. It would be a different ball game if she didn't come home till the following day without the same clothes on she left in but she didn't do either. Instead of trying to find details that might or might not be focus on the facts that are right there in front of you. She evidently married you for a reason - and I'm guessing it was because she loves you.

I don't think so, she tell to you what happen, the trust are there :) If she go there every weeks after that, be mad :P

Who got to take the pantyhose off? Did you have a great time too?

oh, goodness! I didn't know male strippers wore short skirts with only pantyhose underneath.... :-)

I don't know why you would ask this on AB. But, I don't know why you wouldn't be both angry and hurt.

Nope

No worries, they probably have a look, but don't touch policy at the club.

1) A pantyhose is the normal undergarment to wear under a miniskirt. It is also worn normally without any other underwear. Having a lap dance in this outfit could be an enjoyable experience. How you react to this is your thing and would depend on the situation and on how "free" is your marriage. If you are a pantyhose fetishist or a cuckold fetishist, you could even appreciate it. 2) "The term 'pantyhose' originated in the United States, referring to the combination of 'panties' (an American term for women's underpants) with sheer nylon hosiery, meaning they are meant to be worn without other undergarments. In the United Kingdom, they are called tights, a term that refers to all such garments regardless of whether they are sheer lingerie or sturdy outerwear. In the U.S., the term tights may refer to pantyhose that is made from thicker, often opaque, material or alternately to non-sheer garments typically made of a stretchy material like spandex which do not necessarily cover the feet and may be worn by either gender during athletic activity or as utility clothing." "Up till this time [the 50ers] there was little reason for women to wear "panty hose". However, during the 1960s, improved manufacturing made them cheaper, spandex (or elastane) made them more comfortable, and the miniskirt made them a fashion necessity. In 1970, U.S. sales of pantyhose exceeded stockings for the first time, and has remained this way ever since." Source and further information: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pantyhose 3) "Pantyhose fetishism is a very common sexual fetish involving women's pantyhose (known as “tights” in the UK). As with many other common fetishes it can and often does first surface in early childhood and/or during adolescence. Often a pantyhose fetishist may also engage in stocking fetishism, the unique silky sheer aspect and allure of both items being the common denominator. Many current day males' fetishistic preferences for pantyhose over stockings may be related to the fact that pantyhose are, unlike stockings, in virtual direct contact with female genitalia and/or perhaps even more importantly are the preferred hosiery for most women when skirts and dresses are worn. In very basic simple terms pantyhose fetishism most commonly manifests itself in one or more of the following ways: Wearing of pantyhose by either or both partners during sexual activity. A male wearing pantyhose whilst alone. Interacting with pantyhose in any other way or form during sexual activity. Simply observing/admiring and experiencing heightened arousal/interest of females who are wearing pantyhose. Viewing and collection of photography, video or pornography of both professional and amateur models wearing pantyhose. A man or woman in pantyhose encasement." Source and further information: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pantyhose_fetishism 4) "The normal definition of a cuckold is a married man whose wife cheats on him with or without his knowledge. A cuckold fetishist is aware of his partner's activity and derives sexual pleasure from it. In this subculture the female is sexually dominant and she takes on additional partners, while the male takes on a submissive role where he is monogamous to her, or only becoming involved sexually when it is felt to be emotionally supportive of her and her lover, sometimes remaining altogether celibate." Source and further information: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckold#Cuckoldry_as_a_fetish

"Don't get mad, get even."

She still had the pantyhose on and it wasnt torn? Then no need for being mad, she just had a great time, nothing else.