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  • Yup, I feel that way a lot. I felt that way I think two days ago and totally went off on one of my friends. Just know you are not alone as I am feeling the same way a lot of the time as well.
  • No... I enjoy my own company. The computer interaction I have is quite enough to qwelch any speck of lonliness that might eek through into my black little heart.
  • it gets better. Just take life one breath at a time.
  • I do occasionally. Please dont take offense but you sound like your self esteem is very low.
  • Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh My sweetie !!! (((((SPECIAL HUG))))).. It is ok .. Sometimes one feels down and lonely , but hey , you have friends here.. and we love you !! You are such a wonderful friend.. Cheer up !! Mr. Right would come soon .. Its just a matter of time..
  • I know how that feels. I wake up every morning with a sigh. To be alone is to be surrounded by sadness.
  • Join the club BUT remember that there are so many people that have someone & still feel lonely. I haven't been with anyone since 1995 except for 1 VERY BAD MISTAKE & the few months that we were together, I wasn't happy
  • This might help: http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1065812
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  • Want, ask, believe, and it will come. give it time. just don't stop asking. Law of attraction.......
  • Hang in there...all of us have been in your shoes at some point. Don't ever ever lose hope. All it takes is to meet one special person. And don't forget, it is much better to be alone than to marry the wrong person.
  • Marry? Why? Isn't love enough?
    • officegirl
      Most of us want more than just "love". And for many of us marriage is the realization of love's promise.
  • yes i do feel that way sometimes...it hurts...but you've got to realize that you can't rush anything like that and have to take it one step at a time...you have to allow the other person to find you instead of being the one searching the whole time...give it time...trust me, i know how much it hurts...i want someone in my life right now as well, but i can't force myself to just find any one person...
  • Love is a funny thing. When you want it most, it eludes you. When you least expect it, it jumps on you and beats you within an inch of your life. I have been right where you are many times, and right now you're more in love with the idea of being loved than you are with the idea of loving another so completely that you sometimes have difficulty figuring out where they end and you begin. We often have to suffer in order to become worthy of the one we are to love. Some of us must walk a thousand miles of broken roads to grow through adversity before we can love completely. This is hard, hard counsel, but you need to have patience and work on becoming the best "you" you can be. If you do this, you will become the person you were always intended to be, and will attract and KEEP that one man who is right now walking his own broken roads to be worthy of YOU! Don't lose hope. You WILL be loved! [ hugs ]
  • Most of us have been there and know how you feel (((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))
  • well im getting eye strain trying to look at your pic it's so small but from what i see you look incredible and love cannot be rushed that special someone will pop up when you least expect it:)
  • Is a serious life change possible right now?A new job,move away,or if that is not possible maybe take a course?It is time to egt into a new crowd of friends.It may be hard at first and you may meet some jers but after awhile you may meet a new serious special friend.Good luck!
  • This is your problem, SC. This is all about you. Maybe you should see what you can give to others..take the focus off yourself and look outward. It will do several things...keep you busy, do something for someone else and buy you time to get over your funk. I think if you try it and find it to be as successful as I think it would be, you'll no longer have this problem. Happy Friday! :)
  • I am SOOOO sorry....you will find the :right one" just try to hold on & be the best "you" can be. I have been there. I've been married 20+years and through all those years all I wanted was to be loved..for him to want me & see me as something special. Last year I find out somethings that turned my life upside down..... but even with that, things are better now than they have ever been & better than I could have imagined. It will happen for you too!!:)
  • Everyone feels like that, its normal. I have felt that many times, except for the marriage part. I'm not ready for that just yet I realized. You have to have patience. good things come to those who wait... I guess.
  • yeah everyone feels that why sometimes even if marryed/in relationship if things aint going well or you have row or if you stressed and feel you cant talk too any1.
  • It's normal. Moments like this happen. But,Patience my dear. Just do the best you can each day....as this can invite good things ( including your wishes) to come knocking at your door.
  • What you are feeling and going through is a persistent theme in most of Ozu Yasujiro's movies. The theme of "loneliness" or in Japanese "sabishi". All of us at one time or another have felt lonely. Time passes. Circumstances change. But the change has to start with you. Do things today to start that change. This is the main theme in the Ozu film "Akibiyori" (1960). What you feel is human and universal. :)
  • yes, i feel the same way. But, I think ive given up after all these years. I am starting to accept my life alone, and I feel better about this than just being some guys plaything.
  • hi, sexy C, babieeeeeeeeeeeeeee ... k let's fly to las vegas and tie the not babieeeeeeeeee with your sexy self ... LoLz ... ^_^
  • Expect for the best..Have patience..Life has so much to offer...Remain calm..Everything will be alright!
  • I think that everyone feels that way sometimes!!! But think about it this way at least you don't have to have the one you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. But Cant be with them... thats worse!!
  • Dont worry honey, we all have times when we feel like this, just try to relax and let things happen.. true love comes when you least expect it! In the meantime ((((((hugs)))))) remember we ALL love you here :)
  • Yeah I do, and it sucks a lot.
  • yes i feel like that sometimes.:)
  • You have the wrong attitude. Believe in your desire .
  • I think we all felt like that at some point in our lives. I think its human nature to want to be loved and in love. Im sure if u want and maybe stop thinking about it it might just come to u !
  • maybe someone does but they dont know how to go about it.because they are fearful,shy,mis trustful
  • Go easy honey, good things will happen, have patience dear.
  • Baby Girl I am with you all the way....I was played a fool for 18 years...being called a whore by him today...I guess to him that was all I was....nothing but a piece of ass that when he got around to it he would do it....when my mom died he wasn't there...when I was in the hospital he didn't come...I sold my soul so cheep....I want to find love again....but I know the damage he did to my heart will take time to heal....but I have the same hope as you and the sad and lonely feeling is real strong today....
  • Not me. No thank you. Freedom is the most beautiful, wonderful thing! What's love got to do, got to do, etc. la, la, la..........
  • Well that is more than just love. I guess I always had a lot of love but I still wanted to be married and in a committed relationship which did not happen until I was in my mid 50s.
  • I can relate to the second part of that and I did not find someone like that until I was well into my 50s. Pair-bonding is a deep desire/need. However I never allowed myself to forego love and companionship just because they didn't ask to marry me.
  • I have spent 72 years trying to imagine what life might be like if there were someone who loved me -- and acted like it.
  • I live alone and i don
  • I live alone and i don
  • I did feel that way at one point, but I got through it and didn't settle for less than what was a good match. Don't want it so bad that you settle. Be strong and content within yourself.
  • @kruckr

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