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  I really love women. But I realllly love dick. Been with my gf for 5 years. Advice?
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  Do all women find other women attractive? if there is a sex scene i always seem to want to look at the woman rather than the man, is that normal? i have a parter and 2kids but just confused?
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  I am 14. For the past months I've been experiencing an anxiety like feeling. I usually worry about things that shouldn't be worried about it shouldn't be worried about that much. Then everyday it keeps happening I keep thinking and then I over think and it could be positive but if it's negative then it will get me scared or have me keep thinking about it. And everyday I fidget or walk around non stop back and forth and when I do I think. Good or bad. I think. Most of the times I overthink and I don't want that feeling. And I can't sleep well at night and I stay up late. Not like through until the middle of the night but my bed time is usually around 10:30 or suppose to be but I usually fall asleep between 12:30 to about 2 the most. Then when I wake up everyday I feel like I need to sleep in more because I'm tired and sleepy still. That's just one problem with my sleep. The other is that I'm afraid sleeping by myself in the dark. I just think if I try to sleep peacefully then I would hear whispers or I would feel something rub on me and open my eyes someone would be there. I believe in ghost but that experience never happend with me. Meaning I know it won't happen but my anxiety is taking over making me scared and rarely panic sometimes to where I have my mom sleep with me. Or I sleep with the lights on. And next one is my ear. I think I might either have the mineres disease or tinnitus or whatever because for years I've been hearing ringing in my ears or left ear mostly . but I figured it was normal but now since I gotten smarter and mature I decided to look up what it was. But I still hear it til today like this moment. Usually at night it gets loud. But on a daily basis I can hear it but it's no big deal. I just want to get it checked out just to be on the safe side. Rarely it goes to both of my ears or spreads but mainly it's been on my left ear. It might also be on my right ear but not as much but Idk. All I know is that I hear ringing like 24/7 and there has come times where I ignore it and forget it's the
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  My name is Fabian. So there is this girl i have a big crush on, (not dating) I'm not ready to ask her out yet. But her name is Alyssa . I met her in middle school and me and her still text ALOT, like everyday. We sometimes hang out and chill. me and her care and love eachother alot, she loves me because i always been there for her, and i always made her feel better, she said she wouldn't know what she do without me. She said i am like one of the realest people out there. she said me and her will rock together forever. but these past 7 days i feel like me and her were getting dry, like if our bond wasn't the same , like if something was wrong with her. I miss texting her more, laughing and having funny and enjoyable convos, where we texted more and she replied faster. I noticed she has been sleeping in all day until 5 or 6pm , and she goes to bed earlier then usual, it made no sense to me. She also hasn't been texting anybody that much and she hasn't been on social media that much, i asked her and she "said You're the first person to actually notice. but idk, I've been sleeping a lot and idk why . Then i asked her what is causing all that and she said " I just got out of a really toxic friendship and it's been taking a huge toll on my emotions lately ". Turns out it was her bestfriend (Jony) they were really close. She really cared and trusted him. I asked what happened and she said "A lot of manipulation and mental abuse". What do you think she meant by that and what do you think might of happened? She said "We still talk a lil bit,, I just needed some space" But to be honest i don't know how to really help her, i need to find the right words to have her move on and whatever they have wasn't real anymore. I don't want her to think i am trying to talk her out her feelings, i also don't want to make her sound guilty or anything like that, i don't want to sound like An Asshole either. I am that type of person that is always going to be real with people and she knows that. I want her to be strong. Alot of people hurt
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  Greetings the issue that im about to talk about has been bothering me for sometime and i thought it would be best if i can get advice from people.I have strict parents and i think this has affected my social life negatively.The only time i could actually spend time with my friends was at school,and i was at a boarding school in high school.During the holidays my parents would never allow us to go for friends birthday parties,movies and just generally spending time with them as they believed having a social life was not important.we rarely used to have friends over because me and my siblings would always be afraid of bringing our friends home because of the fear of what our parents would say and do.The only time i had friendships that existed was when i was in school,the moment i went home for holidays my friendships were non existant.I am currently in University but im home on holiday and my parents have given me a curfew which is at 18:00 hrs.My parents barely let me have freedom.I now look at my life and ive realised that i barely have any friends.No one calls my phone to ask to do anything with me.My social life especially when im home is non existant.And ive stayed with not having really close friends for a very long time.What advice would you give me as i need to have a social life and friends with whom i can spend time with?
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  My wife has kissed and been fondled by another woman at a strip club and with some of her friends. I want to watch her take it to the next level but she says she is not into that. Should i push it or just drop it. I don't want to play i just want to watch
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  I am so tired of my life, what do I do?Firstly this is not for attention so please do not attack me with cruel comments. I am only 26 and I already feel as though I have lived for way too long. My childhood was a hell filled with instabilty, parents bitterly seperating & getting back together(10 times), constant moving, verbal abuse from my whole family, physical abuse from my brother, years of isolation with little contact with the outside world (We were home schooled from the 4th grade up and lived out in the middle of nowhere) My mother hoarded cats and so from ages 13 to 20 I lived in a run down trailer that reeked of animal urine and fecal matter and I often was literally feasted on by hungry fleas (yes! They will bite humans!). My brother controlled the entire household and I was taught from an early age (by my own mother!) not to fight back or stand up for myself. So basically whatever my brother wanted or said went. My mother died at 19 but I didn't get out of that hell hole til I was nearly 21. I spent the next 3 years working my ass off at a shit job at a grocery store and found out too late that they pay no one more than 10 cents over minimum wage. I met the man who would later become ny now husband while I was working there and acquired a better paying job at a different grocery store shortly after the wedding. Although that job did not last very long but I'll get back to that shortly. I want to be up front that I was aware before we got married that my husband has aspergers. However we dated for nearly a year and a half before we even discussed marriage and there were many habits/behaviors which he did not exhibit then but he does exhibit now. Many of them I am able to deal with but there are some that I am beginning to wonder how much longer I can put up with. His job stability is horrible and he refuses to keep one job while looking for another. So I have no choice but to make up for his slack by working extra hours and finding ways to earn money from home on my few off days. He seemingly has
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  I am so tired of my life, what do I do?Firstly this is not for attention so please do not attack me with cruel comments. I am only 26 and I already feel as though I have lived for way too long. My childhood was a hell filled with instabilty, parents bitterly seperating & getting back together(10 times), constant moving, verbal abuse from my whole family, physical abuse from my brother, years of isolation with little contact with the outside world (We were home schooled from the 4th grade up and lived out in the middle of nowhere) My mother hoarded cats and so from ages 13 to 20 I lived in a run down trailer that reeked of animal urine and fecal matter and I often was literally feasted on by hungry fleas (yes! They will bite humans!). My brother controlled the entire household and I was taught from an early age (by my own mother!) not to fight back or stand up for myself. So basically whatever my brother wanted or said went. My mother died at 19 but I didn't get out of that hell hole til I was nearly 21. I spent the next 3 years working my ass off at a shit job at a grocery store and found out too late that they pay no one more than 10 cents over minimum wage. I met the man who would later become ny now husband while I was working there and acquired a better paying job at a different grocery store shortly after the wedding. Although that job did not last very long but I'll get back to that shortly. I want to be up front that I was aware before we got married that my husband has aspergers. However we dated for nearly a year and a half before we even discussed marriage and there were many habits/behaviors which he did not exhibit then but he does exhibit now. Many of them I am able to deal with but there are some that I am beginning to wonder how much longer I can put up with. His job stability is horrible and he refuses to keep one job while looking for another. So I have no choice but to make up for his slack by working extra hours and finding ways to earn money from home on my few off days. He seemingly has
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  I was with my ex for 3 years, she was my first and I was her first. we've lived together for about 2 years and recently broke up in February. She dumped me because she had thought I was cheating on her but when she realized I wasn't wasn't things started slowly coming back together. Couple weeks later we got into a huge argument after our argument she started acting different and coming home late. It was unusual of her to come home late because she's a nurse and her schedule required her to work the 5-7 shift. I would stay up until she got home to talk about her why she's been coming home late, she would she grab whatever she needed and she would leave again and not come back home until about 2 or 3 am. One day she gets texted saying she needed her space and if I could stay at my parents, for the first week I disagreed to it but shortly after I changed my mind thinking it might be a good idea and that I should respect her space. Two days later I had found out she slept with her coworker by logging into her Snapchat. I asked her if she had done anything with anyone she kept telling me she had not done anything with anyone, so I pulled up her snapchat to show her that knew what had happen after I gave her space. We were officially done I grabbed my stuff and had completely moved out, couple weeks later she started texting me about how she had made a mistake so I went back to her. For about 5 months she was going back and forth between me and her coworker. Last week she broke down mentally and was calling and texting me non stop saying she wanted to hurt herself and she felt like a piece of shit for doing this to me, she wanted me to come over to help her out with her breakdown so I told her she needed to text her coworker and have him deal with it because I was really upset about the last few months. She continued to text me saying that he doesn't know how to deal with her when she's like this only I did so I agreed to help her out and comfort her, she asked me to be her boyfriend again but I refused because everyt
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  Help please. My friend is in trouble and I don’t know how to help her, she’s going through so much and she’s only 11. She’s an internet friend, so I just don’t know how I can help her over text. Here are her words, sorry it’s really long “It's not fair. I feel like I'm being neglected by my mom but I don't know. It's just.. Ugh. We're 11 and 12 and we haven't learned how to do laundry yet. Our mom doesn't do our laundry either. Yeah our washer is broken but there's a laundry mat not far at all from our house. But she still doesn't wash our clothes and she actually knows how to-- But like, she just lets our 61 year old grandma who is really weak and has asthma and lives in a hotel do our laundry?? When she can literally just take it to the laundry mat and do it herself Okay second off We're not getting an education since November. She pulled us out because we were being bullied but we never started any other type of school.. We haven't seen a doctor or dentist in TWO YEARS. Wtf. Make us an appointment mom A lot of times I overdosed on albuterol because..suicidal thoughts. Sadly I never died but, she didn't even take me anywhere to get help any of the times I overdosed? And she knew I overdosed? Like this has been going on for months and months. I can only have 4 puffs of albuterol in 24 hours-- I keep taking around 20-50 puffs of it in less than 5-10 minutes. Why haven't I died already?! Albuterol overdose can be fatal. It can lead to cardiac arrest or even death which is my goal. Next time I should use my whole fucking inhaler. Whenever I overdose I start feeling all shaky and weak and dizzy..and my head starts throbbing..and it gets hard to breathe and it feels like my heart is beating way too fast.. And I can't form coherent sentences and my vision gets all blurry.. I need help. She doesn't understand. All the times I overdosed, cried for no reason, yelled over nothing, felt sad and fatigued for hours and hours. She hasn't taken a fucking hint. The other day I told her I was having suicidal thoughts and t