Are there any good men out there?? ...that are actually looking for a relationship and not just meaningless one night stands, or are they all assholes!! Someone give me a small hint of hope, please...
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Well I'm one of them, but I'm assuming that you are looking for a heterosexual man.
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Yes! ... we are few, but we are there if you search for the right qualities first. ;) Be positive! ... it will bring love when you least expect. >♥<
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there is hope, i went out with ass holes all my life, till i met my great husband. change what your looking for maybe and where you go to meet men,i met all my old boyfriends in bars and they were all a waste of time! then i met my husband when he was on holiday where i used to live and were are very happy together, he is nothing like any of my ex's in personality. there is good guys left out there, just stop looking and let him find you. xx
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I use to ask a very similar queston about women: "Are there any good women out there? Ones that are actually looking for a relationship not based on materialism or greed? Or are they all gold-diggers? Someone give me a small hint of hope, please!" The answer to both questions is, "Yes, there are some good people out there, but you have to have patience and make yourself known in the right places." In the meantime, concentrate on making yourself into the best "you" you can be, so that when the right person for you comes along, they will be attracted to you because of who you are.
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No we are all assholes
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Yes, usually I would be looking for a long-term relationship, but I've recently given up due to the overwhelming amount of idiot females out there. I don't think the characterization that all men are bad should ever be considered valid just as the same could be said for women.
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Maybe you are sending out vibes that you are willing to have one night stands? If so, don't complain when the customers line up. Or maybe an attitude adjustment is called for. Maybe you are just angry, but you are coming across as aggressive rather than searching for a long-term relationship. Where exactly have you been looking?
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There's a few of us. We're a dying breed, though.
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Here's something else that I learned, especially when I met my very-soon-to-be-husband (less than 3 weeks to the wedding!) --- don't look for perfection. Women, especially younger women, assume that the guy they meet is going to be perfect for them in every way, and also assume that if he isn't perfect, they can change him. Both assumptions are way off base. Look for someone who's perfect for you about 70-80%, and learn to accept the rest, because you can NOT change someone else. As long as you can accept his quirks (he has to have noise of some sort going in the background 24/7/365), and know that he can accept yours (I love to read and have total quiet while I'm doing it), you'll be off to a great start. Compromising (I get up an hour early on weekends to have quiet time or go to another part of the house to read) is a major factor in having a successful relationship!
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Yes, there are. I married one.
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Sure there are good men......looking for a good woman...just go where they are....or stay away from where they are not.
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Your question is a loaded one. There are good men only interested in one nighters and there are assholes looking for a relationship so they can be cruel bastards for a very, very long time. . The hint of hope is that whom you go with - for a night or for a lifetime is up to you. . Sure there are risks, no way to get around that, but one great way not to wind up in a one night stand is not to go to bed on the 1st date... or the second. +5
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