ANSWERS: 4
  • you have to be honest, and say that your feelings have changed - explain it to him thoroughly so he isn't left in the dark. it's all very well people saying you shouldn't say you love someone unless you mean it, but interpretation of love is very different fro some people and sometimes it just isn't right and could have just been lust, or caring for him a lot? Give it time and wounds always heal, I've realised after a year and a half finally that my ex is a complete wank*r but you live and you learn..
  • i have but then again he wasn't right for me and i knew it so yeah it all worked out in the end.
  • i would just tell him the truth
  • There are lots of kinds of love. But never promise you'll never leave because you don't even always have control over that. And as I hope you've learned things change. But I think you need to examine what changed and why and make absolutely certain this is what you want and not just because someone else looked at you. There is no point in hurting a good man if you're just being fickle and if you kick him to the curb he may not ever want you back. But if you're absolutely certain there is no future for the two of you together then be kind enough to be honest and allow him the freedom to find the love he deserves in his life.

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